NewStats: 3,259,788 , 8,170,909 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 02:09 AM 70o30

Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

Then bleeping break up with her and bleeping leave it like that

Are being held at gunpoint in the relationship?

Wait no be you enter the relationship yourself? Why do you need us to pack you out of it?

Steal her pant and use her for ritual

SUPERPACK:
Steal her pant and use her for ritual

if u don't have the brain to give an advice jst close yr mouth nd stop talking nonsense,

u for carry yr own sisters pant go give am make him use

hmmm...this is serious...

Quit, u guys ar not compatible

she is more dangerous than a handgun...run for your life and save yourself,family and friends further wahalas

Let's wait for the elders.. This one Nairalanders!




Lalasticlacla

Too opinionated individuals cannot make a good relationship. It's obvious two of you are!!

ojun50:

if u don't have the brain to give an advice jst close yr mouth nd stop talking nonsense,

u for carry yr own sisters pant go give am make him use

LOL..

grayht:
Let's wait for the elders.. This one Nairalanders!




Lalasticlacla

LOL bro this na serious issue

sherylbakky:
Quit, u guys ar not compatible

Mehn I wish I knew wouldn't have been involved with her. She is fucking proud but letting her go is so heart shattering because I got attached. Thanks for the advice though bro,

Obinrin so wa nu, oni ohun oni ori oko...

OP, run for cover before it's too late. She'll still learn her lessons later in life, by that time, she'd have learnt the hard way and might be too late. Cheers!

Quit it bro, Unless you're seeking attention here on nairaland.

ojun50:

if u don't have the brain to give an advice jst close yr mouth nd stop talking nonsense,

u for carry yr own sisters pant go give am make him use

okpo

Who sees fire and knows it is fire then decides to sit down and wait to see if it will burn him/her. You have seen all the signs yet you want advise. You said it yourself that you cannot cope with the attitude use common sense na.

Here's my thoughts

Too many bleeping words

I feel you're too immature to be in a relationship

This is not an insult... Bhet I suggest you consider growing up some more

Then relationship will fall into place


What you share with her is not called relationship but childishness...and the earlier you quit, the better you may learn exactly what dating and relationship entails.

Best regards

All these Secondary School type of relationships wey some people dey do sef. I tire

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Even with the broad daylight redflags, you still need an advice?

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This space is for sale.
I don’t care to advice OP.
All the advice I don drop all these years, nobody don pay me money for am.

Send her to me will return her safely

Saffi:
Then bleeping break up with her and bleeping leave it like that

How old are you?

OP.. u re certainly a teen..

Once u ain't compatible wiv a Gal, just call it quit..

Met a drama queen last month, I quickly called it off..

Dude, you don't have to force yourself on any girl. If she deserves you she will always reconcile. Just take a break from relationship issues and earn yourself value first...

Trust me, If you worth her she will come for you else, find someone will understand you and cherish you more...

And @op never you shout at a girl... you lose your respect for her.

I see a ship whereby 2 captains are trying to sail,
A kingdom where 2 kings are trying to rule,
A pack of wolves with 2 Alpha male,
A pride of lions with 2 dominant male,
A car where 2 drivers are trying to drive,
I see a perfect ingredient for a disastrous home.

Op, you don't need my advice... you need common sense. You don't have 2 men in a room and expect a tidy room.

You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

Run I repeat RUN!