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I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

I'm afraid you can't change her. Live with it or run!!!

Don't correct her again,give her space and find a new girl asap

Some people, both genders have harsh way of talking to people.

Just pray to God about it or better watch war room, things will be better.

bro that girl is a no go area for marriage,you marriage would be full of quarrels and you marry a lady that's submissive not otherwise

Na her nature. Just get used to it and learn to laugh. Mine is same.
P.S giving her space will destroy your relationship. Trust me. You either get used to it or decide you don’t want it. Mine is better now, at least for the past 1 month

Yeah, good boy. Your name is the problem

She is collecting plantain that is far bigger than yours from someone else's so she no longer sees you as a real man

She has probably lost her respect for u wch wil make your word hold no weight...

You ve made her feel she is doing you a favour by dating you...

Whenever u try to scold her or man up she gets angry and u still d one to apologise.....

mayb u re choking her with too much of ur love palava..

Make urself unavailable for sometime if u re sure she loves you

How you want her to talk to you?

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone. When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that make feel I should just be patient with her. Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Stop being in sissy my brother...

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone. When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that make feel I should just be patient with her. Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Stop being in sissy my brother...

BTW You have to breakup with her. A disrespectful girlfriend is not one a man need in his life! But in your next relationship ensure you be a real man!

TonyeBarcanista:

Stop being in sissy my brother...

BTW You have to breakup with her. A disrespectful girlfriend is not one a man need in his life! But in your next relationship ensure you be a real man!

Tonye the love doctor

ionate87:
bro that girl is a no go area for marriage,you marriage would be full of quarrels and you marry a lady that's submissive not otherwise

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks onished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

TonyeBarcanista:

Stop being in sissy my brother...

BTW You have to breakup with her. A disrespectful girlfriend is not one a man need in his life! But in your next relationship ensure you be a real man!

But a woman needs a disrespectful man in a relationship abi?Real man ko,fake man ni.

Oyindidi:
Tonye the love doctor

I no be love doctor. That thing called love is just psychological manipulation of ones self

TonyeBarcanista:

I no be love doctor. That thing called love is just psychological manipulation of ones self

I no too believe in love sef

Oyindidi:
How you want her to talk to you?

I believe everybody should be treated with some form of respect no matter the status of the individual. A sentence can be interpreted differently if the wrong tone is used. I don't think anyone will like to to be talked to anyhow.

SiobhanMeadow:


But a woman needs a disrespectful man in a relationship abi?Real man ko,fake man ni.

Is that how you address elderly person?

Any woman that chooses to stay put with a disrespectful man know what is keeping her there. Common sense requires that she do the needful!

U don't need advice.
Break up with her immediately.
One day u will be arrested for murder.

U don't fall in love once.

Uncultured mouth shows lack of class.

Your girlfriend lacks manner of approach not everybody is good at communicating.If you cannot live with such make it known to her or break up with her.

GoodBoi1:

I believe everybody should be treated with some form of respect no matter the status of the individual. A sentence can have interpreted differently if the wrong tone is used. I don't think anyone will like to to be talked to anyhow.

Hmmmmm..... I for like put mouth but I no dey advice people for bf and gf matter again

Oyindidi:
I no too believe in love sef

Better for you!

sassysure:
U don't need advice.
Break up with her immediately.
One day u will be arrested for murder.

U don't fall in love once.

Uncultured mouth shows lack of class.

I will never be arrested for murder

lol

you try to correct her but she DENIES it

sometimes I wonder how you guys cope in nonsense relationships

TonyeBarcanista:
Is that how you address elderly person?

Any woman that chooses to stay put with a disrespectful man know what is keeping her there. Common sense requires that she do the needful!

On Nl everybody is a madame or oga of their own so there is nothing like an elder here.
You should have given your last paragraph argument to the Op as well so why the real man bullcrap

TonyeBarcanista:

Stop being in sissy my brother...

BTW You have to breakup with her. A disrespectful girlfriend is not one a man need in his life! But in your next relationship ensure you be a real man!

Tonye that doesn't have a gf is dishing advice.

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SiobhanMeadow:
On Nl everybody is a madame or oga so there is nothing like an elder here.
You should have given your last paragraph argument to the Op as well so why the real man bullcrap

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KadunaMafia:
Tonye that doesn't have a gf is dishing advice.

Yimu

TonyeBarcanista:
k

L.

Next time she raises her voice for u. Give her a heavy slap, u will be surprised