NewStats: 3,263,340 , 8,179,832 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 02:39 PM 521i4z

Please NL,pardon my grammatical construction due to the fact i was an engineering student as it may not meet upto standard to the level of the professors of English we have here....

There's this lady am currently in a relationship with and Sincerely she's really the type of girl we guys are always hoping to come across.... I have come to love her buh only for me to notice she has à tattoo on her arm...And sincerely there's this societal perception about tattoo that speaks of Waywardness and irresponsible lifestyle..... buh on the contrary... this babe is just so different that am just confused.....I have come across girls who appear so so bad and even sleep at the club buh are still virgin while some girls who claim to be responsible and decent are upgraded and modified Oloshos....
Please help a brother, I don't wanna make a mistake based on the general assumption on what people would say

My brother there is a proverb i no too , but the thing wey the proverb mean b say......Any Lady with a Tattoo is a slut either serving or retired.

find out her past, she may be an ex olosho that is desperate to get married, probably the reason for acting like a wife material but after your findings, you realise that she has a clean past then go ahead and marry her, the society is gradually changing and before long, it will have no meaning

She belongs to the ex olosho's association...be careful bro and take caution, she might leave you just as paulinho left china for spain(barca) to partake in the football mundial(fifa world cup) then returned to china back after the competition like he did...those girls are opportunists..they can pretend just to get married...she is a borehole that has been drilled for many years

Lalasticlala help a brother and push to the promise land(FP)...I need more views from other matured Nairalanders...

Why am I reading OP yet I'm hearing FalzTheBadGuy's voice?

I'm sorry I have to be sincere to you.

You can only have problems concerning the decency of a Nigerian lady when you invest your emotions on them.

Tattoo or not, she's what she is.


The only decent set of ladies in Nigeria are the virgin ladies. Now ask yourself what a decent lady should be doing with tattoos.

Bitter truth is; Most men would love to flirt and fling with ladies with tattoos, but won't want to make any of them a wife.

GavelSlam:
Why am I reading OP yet I'm hearing FalztheBadguy's voice?

....pls bro put ursef in my shoes o....I never knew she has such....she has been wearing long sleeves o.....it never occurred to me that she has tattoo

Armstrong34:
Sincerely she's really the type of girl we guys are always hoping to come across....

She's not the type of girls I always hope to come across.

You guys ask too question on Nairaland these days, always complaining about irrelevant things. Now answer this question yourself "If you had tattoo somewhere on your body, would it change who you are as a person"? Answer the question and you will have the answer to your question.

I don't like tattoos but people have their reasons for getting it. Some because of a group they ed.(cultism most times). Some because they just like it, Some because they were stupid and some because they want to send a message or keep memory of something.

Finding out her reason will help you make the right decision.

Shegzy8:
She belongs to the ex olosho's association...be careful bro and take caution, she might leave you just as paulinho left china for spain(barca) to partake in the football mundial(fifa world cup) then returned to china back after the competition like he did...those girls are opportunists..they can pretend just to get married...she is a borehole that has been drilled for many years

All these just because she has a tattoo or do you know her personally?

Tattoos are good for sighting sake, each has it's own meaning attributed to it.

Some men discriminate it when it's visible, but adored it when it's located on some s3xy part of the body.

It's a turn off for some: But when you are inlove anything your partner do, you deem it right fit and you won't look out for their mistakes rather you feel butterfly in your belle.

Some girls without tattoo are more worst; Been beautiful is not a facing something. If you love her ? Go for her......
#MyOpinion.

Tallesty1:
She's not the type of girls I always hope to come across.

.....I mean character wise and others..

Armstrong34:
....pls bro put ursef in my shoes o....I never knew she has such....she has been wearing long sleeves o.....it never occurred to me that she has tattoo

Though not my thing, nothing do tattoo.

If she's homely, honest and hardworking, go for it.

Armstrong34:
.....I mean character wise and others..

She still isn't.

Tattoo or not, if you love her so much just follow your heart don't let societal pressure dictate for you.

Why read some books by their cover?

Armstrong34:
....pls bro put ursef in my shoes o....I never knew she has such....she has been wearing long sleeves o.....it never occurred to me that she has tattoo

SHE'S BEEN WEARING LONG SLEEVE?? Automatically she's being hiding it. Nobody can change my mind. She's into runz or retired.. Shittt, my nigga






RUNNNNN!!!

Dated a girl with Tattoo before honestly she got a good character...


After some good sex i dumped her


She asked y and i said i can't take you home cos for a girl to ed through Tattoo process mehn! i can't risk it


She cried like forever cos am the kind of man she ever wanted!

NO NO and NO

How does tattoos disqualify marriage? If you have to ask a question like this, marriage should not even be the last on your agenda

Ok?

Your choice

Even if atiku use tattoo cover all him body, I'll vote him ahead of buhari.

My crush has four tattoos, I will be willing to marry her, I don't mind.

there are alot of things decent girls dont do ... one of them is drawing tattoo

somebody ones asked Is Cross-Dressing the New fashion Craze in Nigeria?

but what i know

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Positive attitude and a faithful heart is key to happy relationship and marital bliss.

I love a girl with tattoos and would definitely marry her. But then again; I always love weird things.

Is it okay to ask a bunch of strangers whether you should marry someone that you are dating? please don't venture into marriage, you're not ready