NewStats: 3,259,341 , 8,169,855 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 06:16 PM 2b2p3j

kristen12:
Reading all these stories make me feel better seriously. I refuse to believe men are scum because I believe there are still good ones out there.
I can't even say mine because I'm not good at writing and I'm hurting real bad.

MIU, I know karma is real but I wish you the pains you made me through if you would be able to bear half of it without ing away.
Everything you did to me (good and bad) will come back to you but this time around, you will be at the receiving end.

I pray our paths never cross till the end of life

Chineke God! Babe! You are hurting terribly. So sorry for your pain.

DONADAMS:
my brother. honestly... I'm typing this with tears in my eyes...same thing just happened to me yesterday..a R/ship of more than 2 years...chai..I'm very very hurt...yours is even better...mine is very very painful... I swear love doesn't exist..this girl I gave my all...chai..girls dey try sha...so she was cheating and she could actually look me in the eye and say " I love you"...mehn..guys beware!!!there's nothing like love...I've grown natural dislike for ladies just within 24hrs

My brother, no vex. It is everywhere. Men are worse. Lol.

Rhemmymatician:


How are you handling it, pls share, make the thing for no kill me as I day so

Oh oh oh! I'm doing just fine now. I was down because I was upset with myself for trusting him. I am in a good place now, no longer coming up for air.

ShyCypher:





I never said it was bad. Its those two idiots quotin' me that make it seem so.

i only wanted to if your story checks out by statin' those two possibilities & if that's the case with you - fine.

Okay bro

Danty37:

exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

yekpa..this girl don suffer o... This girl is my namesake fa. please forgive o because if we all decide to place curses on those who have hurt us, I don't think even you will be spared. As for wasting 6yrs, I have been there and I know how it hurts and feels. It feels like those years could have brought something productive with someone else.. just look back at whatever happened, smile over it and be thankful who knows, it could have been worst if you had taken her down the aisle. it also shows that she's not the one for you because to her husband, she's a blessing and all but to you, she wasn't...... For the records, there a still awesome and wonderful Loveth's out there. We rock

Pharmtj:
my ex na Loveth too... That girl use me shine sha.. NeVEr AgAin. Am done with Women

Even you too... it's well o

Mine is on the way, I see it coming...


Just struggling to make it work, I know I can force a horse to the stream, but I can't force it to drink....



Love is a miserable thing...

LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

doctorkush:
*laughs angrily*
Your penniss must be pencil sized... Lol she couldn't wait to trash you. And she did it in style.. Bobo was even prostrating to be considered as a side nigga.... Lol
.. I swear this your story is a bomb... It killed me

I wonder when Nigga are going to Man-Up ......

Don't allow a lady to boss u around, they get bored by you and follow the one that can boss them !!!

gozie112:


Broda,,same thing that is happening to me now,she said She's keeping her self until our wedding night,,dis is our 2yrs in The relationship,,if she dump me I fit commit suicide oo

So, u will leave ur Mum n Dad and other siblings as well as beautiful achievement u have made in this life among many beautiful friends only to kpanshinkor cuz of one lady that is replaceable ....

DONADAMS:
my brother. honestly... I'm typing this with tears in my eyes...same thing just happened to me yesterday..a R/ship of more than 2 years...chai..I'm very very hurt...yours is even better...mine is very very painful... I swear love doesn't exist..this girl I gave my all...chai..girls dey try sha...so she was cheating and she could actually look me in the eye and say " I love you"...mehn..guys beware!!!there's nothing like love...I've grown natural dislike for ladies just within 24hrs

So sorry bro. I understand you well but the truth is there are still good women out there. God will give us a better replacement to every cheater/evil girl that left us. Don't hate women bro,hate their cunningness and dubious attitude (for those who have one).

Leesah:

yekpa..this girl don suffer o... This girl is my namesake fa. please forgive o because if we all decide to place curses on those who have hurt us, I don't think even you will be spared. As for wasting 6yrs, I have been there and I know how it hurts and feels. It feels like those years could have brought something productive with someone else.. just look back at whatever happened, smile over it and be thankful who knows, it could have been worst if you had taken her down the aisle. it also shows that she's not the one for you because to her husband, she's a blessing and all but to you, she wasn't...... For the records, there a still awesome and wonderful Loveth's out there. We rock

thanks dear.. I appreciate

Tejay2525:



My dear its okay to get mad and all that. But please don't place a curse on her. Let karma deal with her. There are people that have been in worst situations it all turned out for their best. Who knows what God has in store for you. By the way am not the Loveth and I don't know her. Before world people go ask whether na me be the loveth

lolzz... Kosi wahala..

Ajicold:
Heartbreak is when u can't wish your bro happy birthday, because he died two months ago ...

So sorry sis. we know that feeling. Be strong!

fredola77:
LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

Sorry bro. This is serious! Bro, I'd advise that you talk things through before marrying her o. It's better you don't marry her if she still has eye for that guy,irrespective of your marriage plans. It will be worse if you marry her and she still sneaks out to do same. Forever is too long to be unhappy o and like Yorubas will say "what you won't tolerate as a rich man, refuse it now that you are poor"

fredola77:
LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

.

Bros man up... Think deep and totally cut her all, take away every memory far from reach, no matter how much you try to talk her out, the heart want what she want, so stop beating yourself over unnecessary emotions. Tomorrow is another day, count you losses and strive for a better joy.

SoapQueen:


My brother, no vex. It is everywhere. Men are worse. Lol.

lol..thanks...but men are worsethat's a fat lie

Rangojack:

So sorry bro. I understand you well but the truth is there are still good women out there. God will give us a better replacement to every cheater/evil girl that left us. Don't hate women bro,hate their cunningness and dubious attitude (for those who have one).

thanks bro...I hope so

fredola77:
LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

I understand if you have to cry, please go ahead and cry your hearts out. After crying, go for Thanksgiving. I'm happy for you because God just saved you from future heartaches you probably won't be able to handle.

After Thanksgiving, take your annual leave sooner and and take yourself on a trip. Go places you've never been to. Do something like a road trip around the West African sub region learn about other people and their culture. I can assure you by the time you are done you will feel refreshed and she would be in your past.

CAUTION!!! FORGIVE BUT NEVER ACCEPT HER BACK. CUT ALL TIES WITH HER COMPLETELY, DONT EVEN TRY TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER.

fredola77:
LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

If I may ask, Fred where did she tell you she was going to and what do you plan on doing to her on her return?

SoapQueen:


My brother, no vex. It is everywhere. Men are worse. Lol.

Soap, if anything men are the romantics.

CorGier:



If I may ask, Fred where did she tell you she was going to and what do you plan on doing to her on her return?





Soap, if anything men are the romantics.

I had read a post of yours yesterday and said I would pick some bones with you on that post. I decided against it last minute. Alas!

Men aren't romantic, best believe that. All these talks about men being at the loosing end is presumptuous.

fredola77:
LORD GOD! I am terribly hurting right now. I got engaged to the sweetest and cutest girl I ever knew.we have been dating for 2yrs now. Late last year i arranged with my people and we went to collect the list after meeting her people. Now planing on going to get her marriage things next week only to find out from her whatsapp chat confessing to her ex's best friend that she still loves her ex and loves everything about him. GAWD! For about one week I wasn't mysef and she kept her distance. We later made up with the help of our pastor. Only to find out today that she's travelled to a far away state to see that her ex and will be there for at least a week. And this is supposed to be my fiancee oooo. We planned on getting married in December and I have propose December for my annual leave cos of that.
I have done a lot for her cos I see building her as building my own family as I intended marrying her. She's been leading me all along. Chai she is so so heartless. Can't stop crying... My GOD!

bro you mean she will be with her ex for a whole week
While you call her on phone saying sweet things, the ex will be smiling at your foolishness... Smh
And after he will mount her again and fucck her like he paid her millions for it.... Chai! So painful

Can I get you a tissue to wipe catarrh and tears off your face

Leesah:

Even you too... it's well o

yes....woman matter is just too complicated than making money ...

DonroxyII:
So, u will leave ur Mum n Dad and other siblings as well as beautiful achievement u have made in this life among many beautiful friends only to kpanshinkor cuz of one lady that is replaceable ....

lolz,,bro u no go understand

gozie112:
lolz,,bro u no go understand

how old are you? And is she the one on your dp?

gozie112:
I will do exactly what u asked me to do,,can't wait to fvck her

God will never forgive you for this sin you're about to commit

doctorkush:
bro you mean she will be with her ex for a whole week
While you call her on phone saying sweet things, the ex will be smiling at your foolishness... Smh
And after he will mount her again and fucck her like he paid her millions for it.... Chai! So painful

Can I get you a tissue to wipe catarrh and tears off your face

lol...Funnily I can relate with this. Three months ago I was with my ex late in the night when her boyfriend called..after all the "I love you,I you miss you nonsense " we resumed from where we stopped...wetin concern me, my aim was to hit the target..

Rangojack:

So sorry sis. we know that feeling. Be strong!

thanks

Ajicold:
thanks

i like your complexion... I will like to chat with you off here but seems you still have a burdened heart. *your pics talks*

SoapQueen:


I had read a post of yours yesterday and said I would pick some bones with you on that post. I decided against it last minute. Alas!

Men aren't romantic, best believe that. All these talks about men being at the loosing end is presumptuous.

Aww, why? Soap I don't bite. Or you finally got around to seeing some sense in what I said huh?

doctorkush:
i like your complexion... I will like to chat with you off here but seems you still have a burdened heart. *your pics talks*

yh but am fine now so no problem

Safiaa:
You must always have a backup. Everybody is loyal to themselves, honestly.

If sex is involved in the relationship,will you also be sleeping with ur backup??, and if ur backup also starts acting funny will you get a third backup and start sleeping with him too??, nothing in life is certain and this applies to relationships too, just be the best you can be, give ur best, don't be stupid in the name of love and leave the rest to God.