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I will not change me to make a man like me, if you won't like me with all my flaws, you fuvk off, another man will be attracted to me. One man food is another man's poison.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

And when the trouble of pleasing urself comes,u would run to a man.u c d problem most of u ladies have is ur desire.happiness is momentary.i have seen ladies who please themselves and r not still satisfied at the end of the day.eve pleased herself.after all u wud still say adam is not a god.mind u women were created in the image of man.man in image of God.4 a woman to be rightfully submissive to her husband should not portray servitude,nor disobedience to God.

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You were created for the man. Everything in this world including the woman was created to please man.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

see one of the type the OP just analysed.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

when you get to your early 30s, mid 30s and late 30s without any man looking you way,i hope you will still be singing this song you just sang

it's only a low self esteem woman that will follow this steps......op is chauvinistic

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

Here I’ve also been made to understand that a man can blind his eyes to every of my flaws if I was educated and had money...

Here I’ve been made to feel I don’t need too much education - just proper training on how to be a full time housewife (wife material as they like to call it), it’s my only guarantee of having a man want to marry me...

Here on Nairaland I’ve been confused - I ed as a teenager, a critical age. I hated being a woman at some point in my life. Because everyone had something to say about my life and want they wanted except me!

I’ve risen from self pity anyways...

Now, I wonder who Nairaland men celebrate when they celebrate Mother’s Day or international women’s day... News flash, your mothers were once young girls like us and we are our mothers daughters

We should create threads to uplift our women, threads with gentle rebukes done out of love and maybe no feminist would exist again

hahahaha @ gentle rebuke.

I feel for you, you have poured your heart without abusing anyone.

Kudos, I don mark you.

Keep it up

They should also go unclad and protest for the government to make good policies to favor the people because poverty makes u ugly no matter how u try to package, Nigerian women grow broad shoulders with mouthstache, chest hair and beards cause stress makes dem secrete the male hormone(testosterone). Poverty is the cause of all this

ubunja:
7 things i cant stand on a woman:
1.colourful hair, like green dyed
2.tattoo
3.any piercing outside of earing
4.fake hair of any kind
5.bad breath, i kill you.
6.fake eye brows
7.intelligence, shuttup.

4 things i like
1.very tall slender ones
2.under 22 yrs
3.love to cook
4. kneel to serve food.

You're a great dreamer. Dream is free though. I hope you meet the lady of your choice.

Mumu!

dinewithoyin:
women should try to update their selves, they should be able to put something on the table.

God bless you my sister! Simply imagine how you don win my stone heart.

Just marry me straight... even though I don already sabi ur response.

DeadRat:
When I Was A Teenager I Liked White Girls More but Now I See And Know Better. Nigerian Girls Are fvckin Pretty... If I Dont Marry A Black Girl then I Wouldnt Get Married...

K

Chikita66:
I will not change me to make a man like me, if you won't like me with all my flaws, you fuvk off, another man will be attracted to me. One man food is another man's poison.

Shebi, if that's if any sensible man go even approach *cough*, *cough*... a 'dude' like you

For me is hard working lady....

Any woman who is hard working is a turn on for me.

But if you're a lady living in man's wallet. Abeg no come near me bcuz I go vomit

TheMenCode:


Enjoy Your Spinster doom!

Hey!
That's rude!
Don't you ever say that again, okay? Huhn?

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

Here I’ve also been made to understand that a man can blind his eyes to every of my flaws if I was educated and had money...

Here I’ve been made to feel I don’t need too much education - just proper training on how to be a full time housewife (wife material as they like to call it), it’s my only guarantee of having a man want to marry me...

Here on Nairaland I’ve been confused - I ed as a teenager, a critical age. I hated being a woman at some point in my life. Because everyone had something to say about my life and want they wanted except me!

I’ve risen from self pity anyways...

Now, I wonder who Nairaland men celebrate when they celebrate Mother’s Day or international women’s day... News flash, your mothers were once young girls like us and we are our mothers daughters

We should create threads to uplift our women, threads with gentle rebukes done out of love and maybe no feminist would exist again

I like your post, it resonates with a part of me that loves women who are able to speak their minds.



I am not a big fan of women who put too much thoughts into what other people want of them.

You know, all these guys that are always harping about women this women that are low-lifers.

A man of substance does not not overly worry himself about women he is not yet married to or dating but a low-lifer will get the most thrill out of bashing women.

Don't mind them because at the end of the day, good or bad everybody's life will pan out the way it was meant to.

ukejejohnson:
For me is hard working lady....

Any woman who is hard working is a turn on for me.

But if you're a lady living in man's wallet. Abeg no come near me bcuz I go vomit

Oh. A broke dude spotted. Don't quite me back!

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

Here I’ve also been made to understand that a man can blind his eyes to every of my flaws if I was educated and had money...

Here I’ve been made to feel I don’t need too much education - just proper training on how to be a full time housewife (wife material as they like to call it), it’s my only guarantee of having a man want to marry me...

Here on Nairaland I’ve been confused - I ed as a teenager, a critical age. I hated being a woman at some point in my life. Because everyone had something to say about my life and want they wanted except me!

I’ve risen from self pity anyways...

Now, I wonder who Nairaland men celebrate when they celebrate Mother’s Day or international women’s day... News flash, your mothers were once young girls like us and we are our mothers daughters

We should create threads to uplift our women, threads with gentle rebukes done out of love and maybe no feminist would exist again

Lovely write-up - coherent and succinct. Don't take most of the stuff said on nairaland to heart, 99% of the time it's just banter to the time. We love our women and they know it

tosyne2much:
I couldn't stop laughing when you mentioned my name

My dear, you should be so bothered about what you read here. Things are usually exaggerated here

You should rather advise her about women uprightness, virtueness and the need to continue descent continued humanity... A womans place can't be changed no matter the modernity.

BossLaifay:
Noted! But what would the men do to make themselves more attractive for us?

By simply making more money.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

The write up was meant for women who want to make themselves more attractive to MEN, however waht men was not specified,Even in marriage there are paid lectures on how Men or women can be m ore attractive to thier opposit sex, even in teh western world where Woman power is aggressively enforced.Becaus looking good is healthy.I see nothing wrong with most of the point the Op raised.However I dont see how anyone would feel good about themselves if they are not medically fat and can lose weight.
PS dnt mind my spellings.

Number 7


Work harder because men re not ur Atm
And again stop writing tattoo on ur chest

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

...and who dey lie to you regarding the bolded above? Fake/dead pple's hair (extensions) is what you need to look as good as ur fellow counterparts? So God didn't know or realize what He was doing while creating a black lady, abi?

FOOLS and MORONS everywhere claiming black women empowerment this...that! Total BS

Be a woman, appreciate being a black woman NOT what the society wants you to look like! Abeg, make I hear word joor!

UyaiIncomparabl:


You're a great dreamer. Dream is free though. I hope you meet the lady of your choice.

Mumu!

since when do dreams bother people?

Hmm... In a way, I blame the women for making men think of us as objects that need to be updated with all these advice constantly.

Love God, love people, love dogs.

rash47:


You should rather advise her about women uprightness, virtueness and the need to continue descent continued humanity... A womans place can't be changed no matter the modernity.

Advice yourself. Which one is virtueness now

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YOU LOUSY LITTLE PLEB!
THERE'S NO TIME YOU DON'T SAY SENSELESS THINGS.

YOU'D SWEAR THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG IN PEOPLE LIVING THEIR LIVES TO MAKE OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY.
OR IT'S THE MEN'S ROLE TO MAKE THE WOMAN HAPPY, WHILE THE WOMAN GIVES NO HAPPINESS IN RETURN?

OH, DID YOU EVEN BOTHER TO READ THE WRITE-UP AT ALL, OR YOU JUST FLARED UP THE MOMENT YOU SAW "6 THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD... "


I FEEL VERY SORRY FOR THE PATHETIC, BROKEN SHELL OF A MAN THAT WOULD BE WITH YOU.

I DREAD TO THINK OF THE POOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU MOAN AND NAG ALL DAY.

U lectured her, very well said. She just came to display her lousiness . Some girls and stupidity re like 5&6 they go together

Mandrake007:
sister tell em ooh all they know how to offer is kpomo.

You must agree that Nigerian ladies have broken out of that social/gender roles that held them back from achieving personal goals which was prevalent in the many many years ago. I've have also observed that men are also trying to shift the burden placed on them from inception by both theological norm/social and gender roles. But I'm sure your use of "kpomo" to refer to the age which you came from is all just youthful exuberance that will clear once u become responsible...

Another failed, lazy uninspiring blogger come up with a useless list. If they ain't discussing women
they are offering sex advice. SMH.