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When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment - Romance - Nairaland 51536h

When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment (10690 Views)

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dauntless15(m): 8:54am On Nov 29, 2017
I grew up listening to every word my principled dad pronounced and adhering to it, among those word is one that really stands out "NEVER HIT A WOMAN" now here comes my dilemma, I have always wondered if there's an exception to that simple statement. At what point are you allowed to disregard it or its a till death thing.
When she grabs your balls?
When she attacks you aggressively with a club, a knife, whatever she could find?
When you're in the ground in the pool of your own blood dying?

I thought feminism is all about equality or girls can't be violent and boys don't have feelings. You're not allowed to talk to her anyhow because she's a girl, don't hit her back she's a girl bla bla bla.

I'm not one to hit a girl as well but I was in a situation recently and I didn't know what to do, this jilted ill mannered lady grabbed me by my shirt so much i couldnt move a muscle and slapped me twice, even though i tower above her in an intimidating way she wasn't detered, she rained obsceneties on me and my friends were like calm down bro she's a goddamned lady, i dont think i'd have been the bad guy if i just toss her out of my way like a twig, what should i have done here?

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PhilipGallagher(m): 8:55am On Nov 29, 2017
When it is in self defense

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biacan(f): 8:57am On Nov 29, 2017
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown

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Blackhawk01: 9:01am On Nov 29, 2017
It is never right to hit anyone. If you're insulted, insult right back or walk away. lipsrsealed
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 29, 2017
Women are wicked.. They do everything for u to hit them.. But me I will carry my wahala and shift. There juju can not catch me as to hit them..

I Dont want to ever feel regret.

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dauntless15(m): 9:01am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown
grin what about a woman who hits a man? Lemme guess she's wonder woman! Did you even read what I wrote?

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biacan(f): 9:04am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
grin what about a woman who hits a man? Lemme guess she's wonder woman! Did you even read what I wrote?
Men are meant to ignore the shortcomings of women........ they are meant to be mature be patient when dealing women
biacan(f): 9:05am On Nov 29, 2017
Blackhawk01:
It is never right to hit anyone. If you're insulted, insult right back or walk away. lipsrsealed
Speak on sis
Oluwasaeon(m): 9:06am On Nov 29, 2017
No time
sKeetz(m): 9:08am On Nov 29, 2017
Same reason I'll hit a man if he fûcks with me.

After all,we are equal right so she better learn how to defend herself or learn how to not Bleep with me.

Isn't that the whole idea of feminism ?!? undecided

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Devosuker(m): 9:10am On Nov 29, 2017
When shes over nagged... just a slap is okay

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forreelinc(m): 9:12am On Nov 29, 2017
when you've spent on her and she doesn't want to give up the goods
feel free to hit her before raping her

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dauntless15(m): 9:18am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Men are meant to ignore the shortcomings of women........ they are meant to be mature be patient when dealing women
indeed so someone is supposed to tolerate your nonsense indefinitely like you're a toddler lol you guys really believes the world revolves around you

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Lionbite(m): 9:23am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Men are meant to ignore the shortcomings of women........ they are meant to be mature be patient when dealing women
so if we are in a heated argument and you gimme two sounding slaps, what am i expected to do?

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MissWrite(f): 9:23am On Nov 29, 2017
sKeetz:
Same reason I'll hit a man if he fûcks with me.

After all,wee are equal right so she she better learn how to defend herself or learn how to not Bleep with me.

Isn't that the whole idea of feminism ?!? undecided


Watch what you say o, men have learnt to defend themselves from wild animals. When you're looking down the wrong end of the barrel of a shotgun; muscles, fangs and claws don't mean anything. The warning not to hit a woman protects men as well. From stringent measures that transcend pepper spray. That said: If a man's life is genuinely threatened, I don't suppose he shouldn't ward off the danger. Before social etiquette, we all have a fundamental right to life.

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dauntless15(m): 9:24am On Nov 29, 2017
Lionbite:

so if we are in a heated argument and you gimme two sounding slaps, what am is expected to do?
smile and say cheese grin

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luminouz(m): 9:26am On Nov 29, 2017
MissWrite:



Watch what you say o, men have learnt to defend themselves from wild animals. When you're looking down the wrong end of the barrel of a shotgun; muscles, fangs and claws don't mean anything. The warning not to hit a woman protects men as well. From stringent measures that transcend pepper spray. That said: If a man's life is genuinely threatened, I don't suppose he shouldn't ward off the danger. Before social etiquette, we all have a fundamental right to life.
Lmaoooooo
See this one forming wonder woman? tongue

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biacan(f): 9:30am On Nov 29, 2017
Lionbite:

so if we are in a heated argument and you gimme two sounding slaps, what am i expected to do?
Work away that is why you are a man walk away
biacan(f): 9:31am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
indeed so someone is supposed to tolerate your nonsense indefinitely like you're a toddler lol you guys really believes the world revolves around you guys
Future woman beater spotted
MissWrite(f): 9:31am On Nov 29, 2017
luminouz:

Lmaoooooo
See this one forming wonder woman? tongue


Pray tell: How?

I just stated the obvious. That's the normal progression of things. When there's a problem, people try to solve it. Best there's no problem because every solution creates a different one.
aprilwise(m): 9:31am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown
listen to ur self. if a woman attack ur brother with dangerous objects. Should he put his hands in his pocket and be watching her kills him. am an advocate of not beating a woman but there is a limits.
luminouz(m): 9:32am On Nov 29, 2017
MissWrite:



Pray tell: How?

I just stated the obvious. That's the normal progression of things. When there's a problem, people try to solve it. Best there's no problem because every solution creates a different one.
cheesy
Was jes messing with u

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MissWrite(f): 9:35am On Nov 29, 2017
luminouz:

cheesy
Was jes messing with u


Okay, sweetie. smiley.
Blackhawk01: 9:35am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Speak on sis

I'm speaking, Biacan... cheesy cheesy

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Lionbite(m): 9:36am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Work away that is why you are a man work away
then its no longer gender equality cos the scale of favouritsm has definitely shifted to the female side at the detriment of the males.
.
Btw if you even make an attempt to slap me, just write your will and buy your white gown.
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Btw again its 'walk away' not 'work away'

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MrBrownJay1(m): 9:36am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
if a deluded woman loses her damn mind and think it is ok to raise her hand on her husband, then she should receive the exact same treatment (in order for her to get her senses back)!

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biacan(f): 9:37am On Nov 29, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
if a deluded woman loses her damn mind and think it is ok to raise her hand on her husband, then she should receive the exact same treatment (in order for her to get her senses back)!
Then what is your worth as a man if you hit a woman
izaray(f): 9:38am On Nov 29, 2017
Lionbite:

so if we are in a heated argument and you gimme two sounding slaps, what am i expected to do?
Just wipe ur eyes and walk away tongue grin
MrBrownJay1(m): 9:40am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Then what is your worth as a man if you hit a woman

the worth of a man who will not be disrespected/abused by anyone... let alone someone who is suppose to love you unconditionally.
furthermore, my worth in the eyes of that deluded woman is irrelevant to me the minute she thinks it is ok to disrespect/physical abuse me.

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MissWrite(f): 9:40am On Nov 29, 2017
Lionbite:

so if we are in a heated argument and you gimme two sounding slaps, what am i expected to do?


If you can't let the sting wear off naturally and move on with your day, report her for assault & battery. But don't hit her.
biacan(f): 9:41am On Nov 29, 2017
Lionbite:

then its no longer gender equality cos the scale of favouritsm has definitely shifted to the female side at the detriment of the males.
.
Btw if you even make an attempt to slap me, just write your will and buy your white gown.
.
Btw again its 'walk away' not 'work away'
If I slap you and you retaliate....... get ready to go to jail
biacan(f): 9:42am On Nov 29, 2017
Blackhawk01:

I'm speaking, Biacan... cheesy cheesy
Let them know who runs the world

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