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Pressure....



When your father writes you a letter telling you its okay to get pregnant for your boyfriend, so that he can marry you


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When your mother says it is ordinary sex and wonders why you wouldn't just give the guy a piece of yourself to earn a ring



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When your best friend is getting married to your Ex, because she gave him what you couldn't give him.









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When your friends tell you that all good men are taken and marriage becomes so scary and yet more homes are breaking and your parents turn every meeting into a "what's going on?" program.



#Pressure
When a holy brother in church who is very visible and known, and yet has a way of telling you that he should have married you instead of his wife.




#Pressure
When you are not getting younger and..... the one who should say something is deaf and dumb.... and the ones who should be under their parents care are sending you Whatsapp message.






# Pressures
And I know that someone would have to value their soul much more than love, sex, and relationship. It seems to me that the battle for relationship and love may send more souls to hell and untimely death, than the victims of World War 1 and 2 combined....



Today, I bow my heart and I pray
"O God! When my heart is overwhelmed, please lead me to the Rock that is higher than I, in Jesus name...

I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi

very true

yhermmie:
very true

lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

I have nothing to say

Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

That doesn't apply to all ladies

yhermmie:
That doesn't apply to all ladies

but basically most of em

Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

Fernandowski:
but basically most of em

Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.

#21st century pressure: Where every lady becomes a psychologist; they'd be ing videos on youtube,writing books & giving counsel on blogs on 'how to get & keep a man'.Yet their methods keep failing.

Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

too cold, too cold bro..Console them, seems thats what they need.

hmmm.....

I don't give a damn about relationships

Rukkydelta:
I don't give a damn about relationships

Sometimes it gets lonely.

[quote author=Jodha post=54968995][/quote]lolzzzz..... You are really funny my dear

But on the real, girls are demanding too much before they accept your proposal...... Most of em ain't even gat a waec certificate


Meanwhile, happy Sunday babe
And a Happy Mother's Day to ya mum.... I salute her for giving birth to a princess like you

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alexialin:




Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.

you are one of the few reasonable young ladies I have met in my life


Nice one

Fernandowski:
[img][/img]you are one of the few reasonable young ladies I have met in my life


Nice one

awww that's a great compliment.
Am always realistic to myself and place myself in the other person's shoes. If I were a man how will I feel with high demands from ladies expectations.

But thank you

alexialin:




awww that's a great compliment.
Am always realistic to myself and place myself in the other person's shoes. If I were a man how will I feel with high demands from ladies expectations.

But thank you

its nothing dear

happy Sunday

Fernandowski:
lolzzzz..... You are really funny my dear

But on the real, girls are demanding too much before they accept your proposal...... Most of em ain't even gat a waec certificate


Meanwhile, happy Sunday babe
And a Happy Mother's Day to ya mum.... I salute her for giving birth to a princess like you

Hahahahaha... . Nairaland pepper dem gang/slay mamas would soon come for yhu.. But don't worry.. I've got yhur back

Aww thanks a bunch.. .. Happy mother's day to the blessed womb that begot a charm like yhurself

Hope yhu bought her a gift..

alexialin:




Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.

must have a good job?

That is one of the reason why people like u will remain single, wen u want a ready made man.

so if he does not have a "good job" you cant marry him abi?

u neva see pressure.

Fuqman:
Sometimes it gets lonely.

I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely

Bumbae1:
I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi

lol...but seriously, parents could be ryt a times when they put such kind of pressure on dia children....

Tym waits for no man...u know!

Bumbae1:
I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi

So when are we going to go say hi to mum? I've got answers to that kwestion...

©YBR

Rukkydelta:
I don't give a damn about relationships

Wow... why?

©YBR

Rukkydelta:

I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely

Too much of everything is bad, they say...

As much as bin alone affords u d luxury of reflecting on ur lyf holistically, it could also be highjacked by depression.....

Imoy:


must have a good job?

That is one of the reason why people like u will remain single, wen u want a ready made man.

so if he does not have a "good job" you cant marry him abi?

u neva see pressure.

A good job in my context does not mean a million dollar job.

And strangely enough am engaged and my fiance is not that rich but He's averagely comfortable and perfectly OK with my needs and ideas. And to wrap it up? He has a heart of gold.
U may not like my ideas or where am coming from? U don't have to. Theres an adage that says another man's meat is another man's poison.

And inbetween I don't allow family pressure me at all.
My family knows they can't pressure me, it's a fact.. I don't work well with pressure. And I don't give in on pressure too, especially where marriage is concerned.
So such pressures they know is a waste of time on me
Lemme be ready when am ready and everything will go smoothly.

Hope we are communicating?

babatunx:

Too much of everything is bad, they say...

As much as bin alone affords u d luxury of reflecting on ur lyf holistically, it could also be highjacked by depression.....

I am more than depression
Besides I have my family by my side

Rukkydelta:

I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely

My biggest worry is that you don't become too comfortable with the idea of being lonely for the rest of your life.

YoungBlackRico:
Wow... why?

©YBR

It's not just my thing

Rukkydelta:

It's not just my thing

Are you saying you've never been in a relationship before?

©YBR

Fuqman:
My biggest worry is that you don't become too comfortable with the idea of being lonely for the rest of your life.

Ok
Thank you

YoungBlackRico:
Are you saying you've never been in a relationship before?

©YBR

Yeah