NewStats: 3,264,665 , 8,184,373 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 10:38 PM 5b6w3k

wristbangle:
I know some ladies ( especially the chickened brain ones) will speak from emotional view that 100k is not enough to sustain a family which stems from the fact that they are jobless yet lazy, broke and stingy.

The amount looks small but I have seen some couples living in lagos albeit a particular one in my neighbourhood as the husband earns 80k salary income with his wife earning almost same amount as him and they are doing fine, Infact they just purchased a land @ the out skirt of the city.

It's all about your expenditure. How you can manage/plan your little resources to cater for your basic needs. It's not as if the guy will remain on 100k income forever.

Hungry Ladies will be looking for guys who earn N1M per month and when these particular guys maltreat them, they will reign curse on all guys, Nonsense!.

As for me, I can't be earning let's say 700k per month and settle for a broke ass lady (not as if I am proud) except if her attitudes/attributes speak well of her personality.

Good evening Lalasticlala. Wider view please

Thanks brother. God bless you!

I can marry someone that even earns 50k.as far as i work too to our family.And i also would have a business.it depends on the location thou.

small minds with small thinking. The day my friends start arguing to marry or not to marry a man earning any amount, is the day I'm done with that friendship.

You must be a funny man . Thank God they are still in school, let them graduate and start work let s see how much. As a young lady Before you even get 60k up managers don tear your ....... With dea pipe in the name of "I WILL GIVE YOU THE JOB DNT Worry"

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

I doff my hat for you.

ToriBlue:
Edakun easy with the lie... .

A police sergeant earns less than that and most of them are married to full time house wives, a level 10 state civil servants earns less than 60k too.

Omotayor123:
why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

To me sef, 100k per month is Big Money, with time it will multiply.

#TeamOrente

You have a big future. If you know what I mean...

Really girls do not know what they want. What if he earns 200,000 naira and Marry and after the marriage he losses his job. Girls atimes act like dafts. Are u marrying his job or his person. What are bringing to the table. The same way u went to university and later search for jobs is the same for him why
African ladies say marriage as financial relief. You people should be careful and act right. I rest my case.

The lady asking this stupid question, does her father earn up to 100k per month?

How many jobs pay 100k?
How many men of marriageable age even have a job?

Na free food just dey worry ur friends. What you should be praying is for a husband that has morals/ fear of God. One that will love and appreciate u. One that has vision and ambition and works towards it. Every other thing na jara.

If u date a multi millionaire with no morals, u will pray for a begginer that will give you peace of mind. Its the same reason you see wives of big businessmen/professionals dating other men including their ex.
Peace of mind and happiness is what matters most.

wristbangle:


The bolded got my attention and that is one of the attributes of a successful marriage.

To be honest, your comment changed my thoughts and views about the recent waywardness of ladies as I so much envied the guy in your life right now

Easier said than done..women are so deceptive. .

Nma27:
Sure... Marriage shouldn't b all about money money. With the right and prayers, money will definitely come in abundance.

Speaking from the corner of the mouth. Will you marry such a man??

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

Yet we tend to decieve our selves that money is not the primary reason women marry

HAH:
It seem people are living in fools paradise I doubt if if level 10 civil servant in most civil service earn 100k salary monthly.

100k... Then 75k after tax... Lagos State

PrickGetSize:
No, don't marry him because he earns 100k per month. What of your friends who are married to millionaires and driving their own cars - are they not human beings like you? Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your Brazilian hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!
Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait, wait and wait for that man. Women still get married to rich men at age 60, so why the rush?

lol.. U nailed it

Is it 100k per 3months or what

Every time I see girls discussing the amount they want their future husbands to earn.
Have you girls ever sat for a moment to ask yourself, "which man would marry me with what I earn?"
Haba! Marriage is coming together of 2, don't kill a young man please!

xty50:
I can marry someone that even earns 50k.as far as i work too to our family.And i also would have a business.it depends on the location thou.

You go be my second wife? Check ur pm

Yes I can marry a man who earns 100k monthly

Omotayor123:
why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

To me sef, 100k per month is Big Money, with time it will multiply.

#TeamOrente

Ah, my ex wife. Where u hide put since

ruggedised:
op u and your silly friends should pray u even see a husband who earn 50k per month to marry self. Seems you people don't know husbands are scares

bunch of foolish gold diggers

Eleyi tun ga gan ni o

Person wey no collect 100k sef dey do marriage.

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

will u marry me?

ediama:
You can see the very reason why most of us are still living with our parents even when we are due for marriage.

Ask yourself one question.... How many official jobs in Nigeria pays its workers 100k a month. Even government jobs only few positions pays up to that or even more.

My lecturer was told us something during lectures...something made him deviated. He said, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE DESTINE TO MARRY. He further said that, some women knows that no man can marry them. so they are out to destroy other people's lives. You came to this world alone. Alone you will return.

Don't be led by what people says or by what you see. be led by the word of God. God began the world with two people! look at us today.

Do not let another person misery infect you.

Wish I could hug this post right now

thank God for the lady I have, i hope and pray nothing paths us.
the standard is just too high that i cant imagine settling for a lady with lesser iq if it happens that we go our separate ways.
if you see 9ja minimum wage wey go help you grow, no grab am, dey look for 500k minimum wage

I know a colleague of mine who got married with 13k earnings today dude earns 300k n above,has 3 wonderful kids owns landed properties,bought his wonderful wife a brand new car and owns one himself.

PrickGetSize:
No, don't marry him because he earns 100k per month. What of your friends who are married to millionaires and driving their own cars - are they not human beings like you? Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your Brazilian hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!
Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait, wait and wait for that man. Women still get married to rich men at age 60, so why the rush?

I swear, I need to buy drink for this "guy-man"

Am not understanding o

Is Hundred thousand not enough to buy foodstuff that would last a couple for a whole year?

bag of rice

bag of beans

bag of okporoko

and so forth.

na those chics wey do mouth like fish, na dem dey ask this yeye question.

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

Very great piece ma'am.

jd1986:

100k... Then 75k after tax... Lagos State

then that 100k salary will be an assistant directors salary in some states

Most girls looking down on salary of 100k are still living in school illusions

Jangbajantis:
The lady asking this stupid question, does her father earn up to 100k per month?

I tire o

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

heheheheheheheee....OP and her friends....well until u all graduate and entre d labour market dats when u will know if d shell of a tortoise can serve as a bullet proof