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"I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" - Christianity Etc (5) - Nairaland 70p5b
"I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" (44071 Views)
| nsgee14(m): 8:49pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Never do this mistake. Allah (SWT) has given men the chance to marry from the people of the book (Xtians & Jews). Pray to God to give you a more better spouse if she wouldn't accept you as a Muslim. الله المستعان
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| rajshamz: 8:49pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Its funny how some people reason. As for the guy that sent you to post this, i hope he can read this. First of all, you aint a muslim. You were just born into a muslim home and i blame your parents as they didnt bring you up in the right way. Your fiancee wants you to change your religion because of her! You will end up being the wife. You ll do the cooking and i hope you carry d pregnancy too. As far as i am concerned, you are not ripe for marriage as you have no guts being a man. 2 Likes |
| ekoboy: 8:49pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Seriously what is the essence of religion to both of you. This tussle sounds more like an ego thing. My advice is that both of you drop the religion thing and live a fulfilled life. You do not need religion to determine good from evil. Infact I think the world right now needs less religion. Whenever I read stories of religion it's always accompanied by evil activities. Whether it's people swindling ppl in name of contribution or ppl killing people.  I tire abeg.
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| amikeem(m): 8:53pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Change ur beautiful religion bcuz of what? Love? Cuz I don't get you right I don't know why someone will leave the right path and go into the bush simply becux of stupid love, and u also claim the religion u have been practicing since ur childhood, I expect u to know what you are doing... don't even try it at all when there is so many beautiful hijabian sisters around looking someone that's committed like urself. Be reminded 'A-deen indallahi Al-islam' I think u should know the meaning. Thanks
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| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
fufuNegusi:Says you. Everyone has the right to believe in whatever religion they want.. You don't impose on others. If you say jesus is the way and I say he isn't,we are both just airing our opinion on what we were taught to believe in and what we accept as the right way. we both have the right to believe in whatever we want to. Besides.. If she was so filled of the holy spirit as you claim, she shouldn't have gotten involved with someone who is an Unbeliever according to her religion and must therefore not be seen with. 1 Like |
| Teeboi56: 8:54pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Brother I pity u oooo becos of love now u want to convert to xtian ,my own advise for is if she can not convert to your religion leave him. She ke na
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| Lunagirl(f): 8:54pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Christianity is something that should be done out of conviction, not force. Consider the above before you get yourself into something you that cannot give you happiness or control. |
| ogawisdom(m): 8:55pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
lalasticlala: ur fiancée is abt to save ur soul from hell fire, accept without further delay, Christianity and give ur life to Jesus Christ immediately tomorrow may be too late. Jesus is the only way to heaven else u r going to hell fire |
| ipobbigot7: 8:56pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Max24: Please give me the link to confirm Seun's religion. |
| neighy(m): 8:56pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
madridguy: Jodha: madridguy: Jodha:finito |
| maasoap(m): 8:56pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
blantyre:I noticed another statement from the @op narration, he said that PASTOR told him that the girl wasn't the right person for him. Why going to the pastor in the first place? Fake Muslim 3 Likes 1 Share |
| haffaze777(m): 9:00pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Meritocracy:wish I could give u billion like |
| mazizitonene(m): 9:00pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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She is NOT supposed to pressurise u.... she should talk to u about jesus. ..If u wish to accept, good for her. if u dont want...call it off and y'al go your separate ways......u are the man here....The ball stops in ur court....u take/make the decision...obviously u aren't really ready for marriage....
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| oladoja1(m): 9:01pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
woodcook:that's your own view |
| Epatty(f): 9:01pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Go and marry a girl you share same faith and let her do same.
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| crispyvick(f): 9:03pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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to be sincere 25 out of 100 survive dis kind of marriage.dude am a christian bt i dnt see dis working out for u ppl.anytin cald forced doesn't end well if u dnt use ur mind.
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| me69: 9:03pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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I don't think this question is about you and her, but you and your Creator. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever gives up something for the sake of Allah, Allah will compensate him with something better than it.” You Lord is far more important than any human being. She doesn't want you to keep your faith because she chose her God over you. Are you going to choose a human being over ALLAH SWT? Beside the life of this world is just temporary enjoyment, the love you have for her will surely diminish after marriage and you may possibly split or death will eventually separate you, But only your Lord ALLAH will remain and judge you, so don't give up your religion for anything dear brother 2 Likes |
| fufuNegusi(m): 9:04pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Yes true She's already the mistake so it's best she retrace her steps |
| shehuolayinka(m): 9:06pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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My dad is a Muslim and Mum a Christian and I have never seen that being an issue between them. Religion creating confusion since God knows when
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| kaymart: 9:07pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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A practising Muslim wud never fall in love with a resilent kafir no matter what..... A real Muslim practice Islam. There r some things a real Muslim never ever contemplate. Alhamdulillah for making me a believer, a mumeen, and insha'Allah, a beneficiary of both worlds. Am still single though but in my skull, I have a perfect picture of the kind of woman I want to marry (a true muslimah)...... why  ? because, alhamdulillah, I believe I'm up to d task in all ramifications, deen-wise, knowledgewise and alhamdulillah also financial-wise.wish u d best ya'akhy. 4 Likes |
| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:07pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
nyabinghi:Same with Muslims .they're hell bound since they worship the moon |
| ABUBAKARS(m): 9:08pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
iPopAlomo: I OWE U TWO DATE PALM. U SENSE CORRECT 1 Like 1 Share |
| Max24: 9:11pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
ipobbigot7:Go to religion section. You will see some of his own threads that shows his beliefs. |
| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:11pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
blont:If he does that such marriage will be hypocritical. Marriage is a life thing so it's better you take your time to make decision |
| Toluensdollars(m): 9:14pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Am a christian and am not ing d idea of u changing ur religion all bcus u want to impress a lady out there, if she isn't kul with d religion u r practicing, maybe u shld pull d plug. Furthermore, just as i would love u to convert to Christianity, i will also urge u to be d one who brakes d decision not bowing to pressures from within. U have been practising Islam since childhood, d same thing goes to d lady. its vice-versa, think proper bruh b4 jumping into it, and if u decide to Christianity, heavens will rejoice over ur life but u r d only one responsible for every decisions and actions u take.Think well, and good luck.
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| omojeesu(m): 9:14pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
lalasticlala: With due respect, the fact is none of you know who a Christian is nor what Christianity means. Christianity is NOT a religion. |
| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:16pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
agabaI23: She's the one trying to force him to change his religion , he doesn't have any problem with her being Christian 1 Like |
| airmark(m): 9:17pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
nyabinghi: Are you saying surah 4 : 157 lied ? Quran said they didnt kill him and you are here telling us another thing. You need to read your quran well. @ Topic, if he is changing his religion because of marriage, then it's wrong. The lady needs to convince him that he will end up in hell fire as a muslim, following a prophet who was unsure of where he would end up, while alive, as seen in Quran 46:9. The guy should read in quran why his lady is not shifting ground as it is written in quran that the followers of jesus christ (christians) will be greater than the unbelievers (muslims and other non-christians). surah 3:55. |
| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Emasel: How is a true christian supposed to talk? |
| Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 9:21pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
asuustrike2009: You mean they place the moon in their fronts and worship it.. |
| tino22(m): 9:21pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
iPopAlomo:. Man of the day... Nice family 1 Like 1 Share |
| Esji80(m): 9:22pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
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Changing your religion because of a woman... God forbid. I am sorry , I concur with what a brother above said.It shows that you only bear muslim name or you grow up without proper knowledge of Islam. Ignore her and run from her with d speed of light. Seek for more knowledge of Islam and guidance from Islamic scholars around you. May Allah guide us
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