NewStats: 3,263,946 , 8,182,014 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 10:36 PM 5x6g4x

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (enger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another enger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

Wow. You are so right. No one is perfect. The bottom line is the main motive for choosing to marry someone is what will keep the flame of love burning for short or long time.

What's the man waiting for? Divorce is not a crime.

If he disrespects himself in a bid to disrespect his wife before strangers, he needs no reprove. The shame is on him.

What a strange and troubled man. I pity the car he's driving. He's bound to abuse it from time to time too, regret buying it, and even overload it with strange engers to spite it.

That man needs a whole lot of growing up to do. Meanwhile OP, it is better to go a park n board a bus n avoid stories that touches a heart

eyyyaaaa

but egbon you run quick judge matter sha, women too get there own for body...you dont know what the man his going through at home...women are silent killer

#AfterGodfearWoman



next time board a bus from the park ooo make we no hear say one nairalander missing abeg oooo

He embarrassed himself, not the wife. He has problems managing his anger. He is probably the choleric type. These people suffer big time and their loved ones along with them. He can count himself lucky, he has got a wise, composed and calm wife.

sometimes when i see or hear about a man or a woman monster in matrimony,i do but wonder if they were not the same people who once played Romeo and Juliet as young lovers.
The question is where were those love and affection they once shared? Isnt love supposed to be like palm wine that gets stronger as it gets older?

Lol. That's why its not wise to marry becus of looks, goodies and attractions. Sometimes extroverts are problems. Some of them lack discretion all in d name of being expressive and its what they can't take they enjoy doing to others.

Except d woman was forced to marry him by arrangee, otherwise something must have attracted him to her in d 1st place.

Your feeling concerned as a enger in dia vehicle or coming to narrate on NL without their knowledge doesn't go halfway to help them or help d young and agile minds reading it right now who still wanna have their way.

That's her cross. God go help her. Everybody get their own cross oh. Some ppl cross serious her own.

castroevans:
That man needs a whole lot of growing up to do. Meanwhile OP, it is better to go a park n board a bus n avoid stories that touches a heart

Thanks for your advise.

Una don reach Lagos?

UnknownT:
Una don reach Lagos?

Yes. Thanks.

VISTIN:


Yes. Thanks.

So because of the extra N700or N1,000 you would have paid, you decided to wait along the road to enter the vehicle of a stranger just to pay peanuts. Insead of you even burying your head deep in prayers not to fall victim of ritualist, you were busy doing tatafo and refereee.


Most 419 victims and SOME ritualist victims happens due to mere greed and impatience.

Op next time be careful but some men are very childish. No matter what she does provided she did not kill, never embarrass your wife or husband in public. It is her self image you are damaging.

Who does this kind of nonsense?
The wife knows how foolish the man is that's why she kept her calm.

Ask4Info:



So because of the extra N700or N1,000 you would have paid, you decided to wait along the road to enter the vehicle of a stranger just to pay peanuts. Insead of you even burying your head deep in prayers not to fall victim of ritualist, you were busy doing tatafo and refereee.


Most 419 victims and SOME ritualist victims happens due to mere greed and impatience.

egbon d op offend u before?? ......y d yabbing na? nawao

He's such a nag.

Hmmm...

Deep sigh...

Different strokes for different folks...

Different individuals with different crosses to bear...

The man dey play away match. He's just trying to destroy his marriage

Some men sha


So so annoying


Op you Bleep up


Why you no even slap the man self

F

This kind man go don use he wife do punching bag for house... If to say the woman argue, He for park the car then beat her well well

That Man Weak sha

little men, always making fools of themselves.

Hmm

One mistake i don't pray anyone should make is marital mistake. May God guide our decisions.

H

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (enger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another enger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

Louder for the back benchers to hear

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (enger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another enger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

Chaiiiiiiiiiiiii, so bad.
Though LADIES claim to be ANGELS.....

may be that's why MEN expect so much from them

Op say no to awuf ride....

Hhhmmmm, I put myself directly in d scene.
Its so bad.
No wife is a slave.
No woman should be treated like trash.
If he did not love her enough, why did he marry her?
He should have left her with her father.
Love n Respect....5&6

I really feel for the woman and she seems to be a good wife.

What women need most is respect, not just love, but even they don't know it.