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She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

According to the OP--".....She wakes up late and doesnt pray..." FYI, A wife’s prayers have more power than anybody else’s,

It is indeed your responsibility to be strong where your wife is weak, as it is hers to be the same for you..


It is, NOT however your responsibility to teach her to be a responsible adult.That was her parents' job,and if they skipped a lesson you are welcome to be miffed at them.However, to take over their role as parent when you are husband is, to put it nicely, Creepy

So WAKE HER UP!!

What happened to alarm clock

Give her flying kicks immediately yur awake



Thank me later

MadeOfBlaq:
What happened to alarm clock

she could be awake...but once it is not 6am, she has sworn never to get up from bed

You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

STFUareyouGod:
Give her flying kicks immediately yur awake



Thank me later

How the hell is 6am considered late?!

Rub hypo or jik on her nose everynight......she will wake at 3am

Silly topic

How has her waking up 6a.m affected you or the family?

JeffreyJamez:


How the hell is 6am considered late?!

maybe cuz he's always up 4am. He thinks 6am is late

STFUareyouGod:
maybe cuz he's always up 4am. He thinks 6am is late

Then he needs to have a rethink

JeffreyJamez:


Then he needs to have a rethink

hahahahaha. Me personally think 6am is just ok and very alright

Is 6am particularly late for her?? Is there any special tin u want her to wake up early to do??. Pls allow her rest abeg, naija wahala too much so let d poor babe rest well.

STFUareyouGod:
hahahahaha. Me personally think 6am is just ok and very alright

Me thinks its early sef!....by 6am my sleep dey enter gear 5! ...and i resume work by 9am

JeffreyJamez:


Me thinks its early sef!....by 6am my sleep dey enter gear 5! ...and i resume work by 9am

what's your job?

STFUareyouGod:
Give her flying kicks immediately yur awake



Thank me later

So says the follower of Jesus

sevantex:
Is 6am particularly late for her?? Is there any special tin u want her to wake up early to do??. Pls allow her rest abeg, naija wahala too much so let d poor babe rest well.

pray and do household chores

vybzkartel:




what's your job?

IT Manager of a Digital Marketing Agency

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Didn't you notice this during courtship? Esp the prayer part?

skarlett:



Didn't you notice this during courtship? Esp the prayer part?

i wasnt a christian then

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

The person you are referring to, who you saw or was told was doing this, is there any legally acceptable document proving you are married to this individual?


Because some people are married to or dating an individual in their head, and they come on the internet to insist they are in a relationship with someone who is physically unaware of their existence.

vybzkartel:


i wasnt a christian then

Okay, well you can't force it on her since that's not the way you both started. You need to be the virtuous man now and pray to God to reform her.

Anyways this is the cross most women bear with husbands who aren't really spiritual, just don't allow your zeal ruin your marriage

skarlett:



So says the follower of Jesus

You been spying?

STFUareyouGod:


You been spying?

Pure coincidence

tpiar:



The person you are referring to, who you saw or was told was doing this, is there any legally acceptable document proving you are married to this individual?


Because some people are married to or dating an individual in their head, and they come on the internet to insist they are in a relationship with someone who is physically unaware of their existence.

gibberish!!!

vybzkartel:



pray and do household chores

ok, cool.
Cant u guys have prayers for say 15 mins and then she proceeds to her chores??, meaning by 6:30, she shuld have started/almost finishd s chores dependin on amount of stuffs to do??
If she works or does her biz or is a housewife, maybe she has factored her sleeping time and it doesnt affect her work/biz movement so why d worry?
Or is the early mornin quickee suffering frm dis also?? the one around 4am gan gan?? hehe


U culd talk to her wit love and let her knw hw u feel towards the issue but dont force it abeg. if she still keeps up wit her activities, then allow her rest

skarlett:



Pure coincidence

is it? Cool then



Yes, I remain His follower

STFUareyouGod:
is it? Cool then



Yes, I remain His follower

Mix salt inside a warm distilled water in the absence of air.....to be continued

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

Around Val time anything na good grounds to quarrel even "why did you cook the food on time?" or even why is your food sweet ?

If you guys are already parents then 5.00am is acceptable. By 5.30am you should be done with your religious rituals...

Then again, how late does she retire to bed? By 12.00am? For all we know she could be the only one handling the domestic chores while, like you, she works. Of course she'd be stressed with the need to get rejuvenated via sleep.