NewStats: 3,262,135 , 8,176,172 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 10:01 PM 6g2x58

Wezma:
ok.... where do I start ( I literally sighed)

I dated a Nigerian guy before, loved him to bits.... we broke up. Met another guy few months later and he was cool too, but after a month things just don't seem to work....

I LOVE me some Nigerian man, hoping to marry one someday (GOD BLESS ME) however I find it difficult to adapt 100%

Anyway, Nigerian+South African couples, how do you guys make it work.

regards,

Confused Sexy Lady

Hehehe. You love Nigerian men yet blew your chances?

What makes you sexy? Tell me.

MrsChima:


You mean you weren't able to gain papers to Oyinboland and now you are faced with horrible reality of your village wife?

Scamming ain't easy huh?

i no use papers.na for desert i use and dem don deport me but she follow me come my village when dem deport me.so i am rocking with my oyibo mgbeke for village

Wezma:
*sigh* segxi1960 (why is your name so complicated ) il try and blend, hopefully after my visit to Nigeria il have a better understanding and perspective

Definitely. LOL my preferred id had been taken up so I just added the independence year to it... as an original patriot.

Wezma:
ok.... where do I start ( I literally sighed)

I dated a Nigerian guy before, loved him to bits.... we broke up. Met another guy few months later and he was cool too, but after a month things just don't seem to work....

I LOVE me some Nigerian man, hoping to marry one someday (GOD BLESS ME) however I find it difficult to adapt 100%

Anyway, Nigerian+South African couples, how do you guys make it work.

regards,

Confused Sexy Lady

Nigerians men rocks big time!
Our men knows how best to take care of their ladies!
But, come ooooo, hope you are not a baby mama like countless others who came to nairaland to parade themselves in the spirit of looking for "OUR Hansome Nigeria MEN as a Husband to date or marry"

If you are coming with extra baggages better declear it here and now oooooo.

Before you start calling our men names!!!!

Truth is Bitter

lefulefu:

i no use papers.na for desert i use and dem don deport me but she follow me come my village when dem deport me.so i am rocking with my oyibo mgbeke for village

Lies!

MrsChima:


Lies!

make i swear by the shrine of ogun?
ogun shrine near this side wey i dey yonder oo

Wezma:
But generally you men are very difficult. LOL! BUT what I like is you hold a lot of traditional values (respect, love, hard work etc) WICH I LUUUURVVEE.

Mara eish, thanx tho

If you'll let me, I'll make it work.

MEILYN:
Stop being a nuisance to this forum. If you don't have anything to say then you better keep quiet please. If she was Xenophobic would she be creating this thread?

Quick to abuse his fellow country man because of south african.

Am not saying the shii he said his cool.

MrsChima:
You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

Were. So chima is a horrible person mtchwww!!! Fu!!cktard

Esdb3:


Were. So chima is a horrible person mtchwww!!! Fu!!cktard

Fvck you horrible Nigerian manbish!

South African girls love Nigerian men. LeSudAfricaine, MduZA, RudzSA, see your homegirl as I told you. @all4naija

@ OP

Are you Zulu or Xhhosa? You need to answer that question before I'll give you good tips on how to make it works.

MrsChima:
You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

MrsChima I had a feeling you would be here

Subom1:
MrsChima I had a feeling you would be here

Wezma:
bye bye M,

HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYBODY

#IMOUT

Some Nigerian men are principled and live by values. They(men) are stubborn or proud. Marriage is for a lifetime on earth. If your wish is to marry a Nigerian, you will. In one of your posts, you wrote about been "stubborn". Well, Nigerian women can be so also. You've got values and principles you live by, maintain them. Some men(Nigerian inclusive) appreciate such quality in women and will marry them.

Wezma:
ok.... where do I start ( I literally sighed)

I dated a Nigerian guy before, loved him to bits.... we broke up. Met another guy few months later and he was cool too, but after a month things just don't seem to work....

I LOVE me some Nigerian man, hoping to marry one someday (GOD BLESS ME) however I find it difficult to adapt 100%

Anyway, Nigerian+South African couples, how do you guys make it work.

regards,

Confused Sexy Lady

I truely ire ur courage 2 put up dis post, an average nigerian lady cant do this, i really love south africans bcox of der english language accent nd der ladies especially those from the zulu tribe because they are very blessed with "ukwu" dat is wat we call it here in nigeria, i mean they are very endowered at d behind. Every true african man really appreciates that quality. But why most nigerians are not really cool with south africans is dat der is dis feelin dat an average south african person man or wman hates a nigerian.
It wont b bad having u spend a wkend here in nigeria. God bless africa!!!

Wezma:
SO naira confuses me. if I where to come to Nigeria for a week, how much spending money would I need to have a fairly decent time.

apart from flight ticket and others, 5000rands is enough for a week

all4naija:
@ OP

Are you Zulu or Xhhosa? You need to answer that question before I give will you good tips on how to make it works.

and if she's tswana, sotho, pedi or a boer, will you have good tips too?

sultan003:


and if she's tswana, sotho, pedi or a boer, will you have good tips too?

Possibly! She would have to reply to my post by herself.

all4naija:
Possibly! She would have to reply to my post by herself.

ok....

MrsChima:
You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

Coming from a Nigerian lady and an igbo lady self. Guess your husband now or to be is/will horrible, terrible, useless and non-functional. Bunch of crap shit.

Charles4075:
Coming from a Nigerian lady and an igbo lady self. Guess your husband now or to be is/will horrible, terrible, useless and non-functional. Bunch of crap shit.

Come here sugar.

MrsChima:


Fvck you horrible Nigerian manbish!

Fuvck you mrs chima. Fuvck your itchy toto! Acting like she's american just because of a south african! Enslaved slave. Idiot savant(stupidity is the only aspect you shine at). Slave to foreigners. Mrs show off. Annoying cunt!!!!!!

Nigerian men, oh well, I'm not one.

so I cant relate with all this "popular demand" of them.

Esdb3:


Fuvck you mrs chima. Fuvck your itchy toto! Acting like she's american just because of a south african! Enslaved slave. Idiot savant(stupidity is the only aspect you shine at). Slave to foreigners. Mrs show off. Annoying cunt!!!!!!

LMAO@itchy toto

I am married to a Nigerian man. South African men are sexy!

all4naija:
@ OP

Are you Zulu or Xhhosa? You need to answer that question before I'll give you good tips on how to make it works.

sultan003:


and if she's tswana, sotho, pedi or a boer, will you have good tips too?

are these all the tribes or did you folks leave some out?

tpiadotcom:
Nigerian men, oh well, I'm not one.

so I cant relate with all this "wanting" of them.

What are you?

Not a Nigerian man.

MrsChima:


LMAO@itchy toto

I am married to a Nigerian man. South African men are sexy!

Na so E dey start, dem go dey seek divorce to actualize their fantasies..... Make your husband catch you..your itvhy Toto go dry!

handsomeclouds:
Na so E dey start, dem go dey seek divorce to actualize their fantasies..... Make your husband catch you..your itvhy Toto go dry!

tpiadotcom:
Not a Nigerian man.

Are you African?

I'm Chinese.