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Brand expert Kenny Brandmuse who recently revealed his HIV status, took to his Facebook page hours ago, to announce that he is Gay. He says he was married for 6 years but finally sought for divorce from his wife when he realized he was gay.

Read his story below:

“I first told my ex-wife that I was gay, we were far from being married. I wanted her to find other men honorably, who had a thing for women. I never did. I ‘swear down.’ I was only obeying the popular When demand of traditions. Now, this was my terrible mistake. No one should live their life based on dogmas and other people’s expectations.

As far as I could , even though I was always dating girls, I had always preferred being with a man. I had fought it with every fiber of spirituality in me as a Pentecostal preacher boy (find details and journeys in my book ‘THE EXODUS.’)

The more I fought my sexual preference for men, the more I became more miserable. Unfortunately, as erroneously believed, sex wasn’t the problem. I had been having sex with women as far back as a twelve-year-old. Sexuality is whom we are emotionally present with, not whom we are sleeping with. And oh boy, she really tried to make me a heterosexual. But I'm still not, sadly.

One of those pre-marriage days, while we were with our marriage counseling team, I brought up the issue again – that I had always had a preference for men. I wanted the Ministers to dissuade her from the marriage. I just couldn’t put a ring on a fat big lie. My father taught me one principle: DIE FOR YOUR OWN TRUTH, EVEN IF IT'S UNPOPULAR, BUT DON'T HARM OTHERS WITH IT.


She was so happy to tell the ministers, as quickly as she could, that my feelings for men would all be gone, because she believed it was a childhood disorder. I guess she meant she was going to fck my brains into heterosexuality. This is a mistake a lot of us make. We all want to change people to conform to our preferences. We find it easier to play god in the lives of people we did not make.
After six years together, I knew I was not getting any better. I STILL LOVED MEN.

And one day, because I didn’t want to cheat on her, I humbly asked her that we should go our separate ways. That was when all hell broke loose. She suddenly forgot about how it all started. In court, she told the Judge how she suddenly found out that I was gay, and how it’s against the Law of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. In other words, she wanted me sentenced to the new 14 years jail term served by the Nigerian government.

Luckily, I was in a civil court. Sadly, that day, I had to duck my face in shame as the crowd jeered at me for being whom I had always been. 'You gay' 'Oh what a shameful man!' 'homo!' 'Na wa o ' I still don’t know how I walked out of the court premises that day. ( this case is still ongoing) What about my business.? Tell any client in Nigeria that you are gay, and you lose their business. That’s exactly what happened. I lost friends, businesses, sponsorships and family . I had to start my life all again.

Applied for a new job. Get back to school. Although my ex-wife is one of the most faithful and beautiful women in Nigeria, she is a victim of institutionalized homophobia. Just like many people who are reading this.

It will be exactly a year today, when Nigeria instituted a law to jail people like me. What’s our offense? Because we are simply wired differently. There are only about 5 to 10% of homosexuals in every population as cited by popular findings and documents. Why is a 90% dominant population afraid of its 10%? Shouldn’t you care ? Don’t you think it’s a lot easier to be seen as part of the 90%? And before you throw those religious verses on us for being wired differently, I want to leave you with my favorite Bible verses from Romans 8:Italics mine:

That Nothing Can Separate Us from ( the universal narrative of ) God’s Love
31 What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be agains us? 32 Since he did not spare even his own Son ( in the popular narratives according to the Christian Faith ) but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give us everything else? 33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? No one—for God himself has given us right standing with himself. 34 Who then will condemn us? No one...

38 And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[b] neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. 39 No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in ( in the narrative of ) Christ Jesus our Lord."

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/01/despite-being-married-for-six-years.html?m=1

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Lol! And someone guessed he never got the HIV from having sex with a woman.

Well, happy for him- whatever makes him feel good.

P.S- No homophobes should quote me. Thanks

Truly gay

When it comes to human race this people never waste time in disgracing us. When man is allow to have sex with man and woman are allow to have sex with woman legally then note the human race is coming to an end

Who cares

All I see is a fine guy
Chai...so he uses all his muscle to cuddle his fellow man.
Anyway, I am not homophobic...I am a very accommodating human.
Not that I like them but I am indifferent about them.

*continues listening to Born Sinner By J.Cole*

Redoil:
When it comes to human race this people never waste time in disgracing us. When man is allow to have sex with man and woman are allow to have sex with woman legally then note the human race is coming to an end

Says who? Your biblical God?

We have been hearing these same lines since centuries ago.

His life!!! His choice!!! If it makes him happy!!! Then cool. All d best

FrancisTony:

Says who? Your biblical God?

We have been hearing these same lines since centuries ago.

It haf tey

The police should arrest the guy since he has itted to a crime under the Nigerian law. They shouldn't forget to arrest corrupt officials while they are at it

FrancisTony:

Says who? Your biblical God?

We have been hearing these same lines since centuries ago.

you need help

i hate gays

hahn:


It haf tey

The police should arrest the guy since he has itted to a crime under the Nigerian law. They shouldn't forget to arrest corrupt officials while they are at it

Arrest him on what basis? Taar!

By the way, he's not living in Nigeria.

Redoil:
you need help

If you can prove the existence of your God.

Maybe

FrancisTony:

Arrest him on what basis? Taar!

By the way, he's not living in Nigeria.

You didn't get the sarcasm

I can't help but feel pity for him...
Is this another prank nature plays on us?

If after six years of marriage,he's still gay then rehabilitation can't help either...

They should just let him be...he derives no joy in banging punanis

We Gays Are Hot. No Wonder We Have Frustrated Female Homophobes Like Firsteva.
Good

If this is true,my take on it.

The horrendous law has done nothing but continue the aged long tradition of many women suffering in silence.Even if your husband treats you well and you don't know,there will always be something missing,that's true love between two heterosexual partners.

I feel your pain bro.There's always an age of enlightenment,don't know when Naija's own is coming.

All the best,you've proved to Nigerians what it means to be strong.Dispell their insults.

We should lead a life that makes us happy but not at the expense of others

Not surprised. HIV is very common amongst gay folks

FrancisTony:

If you can prove the existence of your God.

Maybe

whether their is God or not is a topic for another day.
Woman thing that is sweeter than honey will be left for fellow man sh.it hole that person need an emergency brain transplant

Why are they all having HIV? First bisi now this one.

7th....his life,his decisions.

CyrusXandria:
If this is true,my take on it.

The horrendous law has done nothing but continue the aged long tradition of many women suffering in silence.Even if your husband treats you well and you don't know,there will always be something missing,that's true love between two heterosexual partners.

I feel your pain bro.There's always an age of enlightenment,don't know when Naija's own is coming.

All the best,you've proved to Nigerians what it means to be strong.Dispell their insults.

We should lead a life that makes us happy but not at the expense of others

are you a lesbian no insult intended

Superleo:
We Gays Are Hot. No Wonder We Have Frustrated Female Homophobes Like Firsteva.
Good

and you keep spreading HIV.

Redoil:
are you a lesbian no insult intended

Chai,Lesbian Odikwa crazy.

ooo boiy

this is serious o

Redoil:
whether their is God or not is a topic for another day.
Woman thing that is sweeter than honey will be left for fellow man sh.it hole that person need an emergency brain transplant

1) The quote you quoted is directed at his bolded which says "the world is coming to an end". Not about shìthole or punnäny whatever.

2) The dude said he preferred a man than woman. I don't know when you started acting as his spokesperson.

3) Sweetness Feelings is determined by the person doing it. And the dude said he prefer Man.

firstEVA:
and you keep spreading HIV.

I'm not a perveted gay.
Same way perverted gays HIV is the same way perverted straight men also it.

Superleo:

I'm not a perveted gay.
Same way perverted gays HIV is the same way perverted straight men also it.

ok

FrancisTony:
Lol! And someone guessed he never got the HIV from having sex with a woman.

Well, happy for him- whatever makes him feel good.

P.S- No homophobia should quote me. Thanks

Desperately looking for likes from fagggs, btw its homophobe.

vizkiz:
i hate gays

They don't envy you either

OK.... you are gay!!!!!! has that changed the price of garri in the market.

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