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Every relationship that has the prospect of blossoming into something tangible strives to have its foundation built on trust, love and understanding!

In this regard, would you, as a guy, want your lady to tell you about the guys hitting on her on daily bases so as to gain your trust?
Would you trust her more if she does this?

As a girl/lady do you tell your boyfriend about the guys that hit on you?

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Am i suppose to laugh?

Any girl madly in love does that without being asked.

It is necessary..

echobee:
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I think it's important a lady let's her guy know about other guys hitting on her.

Although it may spring up a little jealousy,,but it's important.

It's important to be free with each other in a relationship.

What for? If the girl is pretty I'm sure he already knows that

NO!!!! Are guys even worth it??

ok ok i get it, all guys are not the same, stop quoting me already!! thanks!!

Why not? thats y its called Relationship.you share everything........no secrets.

I personally have no problem with knowing/not knowing that. If she says it, fine. If she don't, still fine.

To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

I will certainly tell him about other guys that are hitting on me





only if...






He tells me about other girls he is hitting on too

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

Interesting, but don't you think that by telling him you could strengthen his feelings of love for you and make him believe that you love him and chose him above everyone else, especially if you show that in actions also? Don't you think it would strengthen the bond of trust! Or perhaps telling him has nothing to add to building trust?

Rival:


Interesting, but don't you think that by telling him you could strengthen his feelings of love for you and make him believe that you love him and chose him above everyone else, especially if you show that in actions also? Don't you think it would strengthen the bond of trust! Or perhaps telling him has nothing to add to building trust?

Telling doesn't build trust. It mostly destroys it. What is the point in rubbing it in your man's face that he's got competition? Men have big egos, they want to be known as sole proprietors. Why deflate the ego?

Not wise, if you ask me.

It's good and sometimes not nice.

there is no point in telling ur bf abt guys hitting on you every now and then.
it's so immature and with time, it becomes boring listening to such tales.

some guys might even see you as bragging about yourself.

My girl tells me sometimes when we gossip about our days.
Its a good thing...i feel it goes a long way in building trust between both of you.

Evina:


Telling doesn't build trust. It mostly destroys it. What is the point in rubbing it in your man's face that he's got competition? Men have big egos, they want to be known as sole proprietors. Why deflate the ego?

Not wise, if you ask me.

Sorry if I have to disagree with you, but the difference is where and how you choose to tell him!

In my opinion telling your man does not deflate his ego, rather it inflates it because he would think that he has in his possession what others want but can't get!

It makes him feel that you want him to be with you because he has some qualities you saw that the others do not have.

He'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that he's important to you and you want him to have complete trust in you; he'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that you'd not cheat on him and that he's everything you desire in a man.

Anyway, it's your opinion and I respect it!

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

Exactly.....sum guys wl even think you are lying or u want dem to be jealous.

How come we have so much in common?

DaGC:
I personally have no problem with knowing/not knowing that. If she says it, fine. If she don't, still fine.

chop knuckle. Only immatured fellows bother about that.

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

well said

mizzkeji44:

Exactly.....sum guys wl even think you are lying or u want dem to be jealous.

How come we have so much in common?

Ohh sweetim, I couldn't respond to this post sooner cos I was banned from posting on the romance section

Unbelievable I am not even sure what rules I flunked

I think it is cause I type in French sometimes

Rival:


Sorry if I have to disagree with you, but the difference is where and how you choose to tell him!

In my opinion telling your man does not deflate his ego, rather it inflates it because he would think that he has in his possession what others want but can't get!

It makes him feel that you want him to be with you because he has some qualities you saw that the others do not have.

He'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that he's important to you and you want him to have complete trust in you; he'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that you'd not cheat on him and that he's everything you desire in a man.

Anyway, it's your opinion and I respect it!

You mean you guys actually want your gf to tell you about every guy that hits on her, flirts with her, and etc.

That is just super weird.

EnlightenedSoul:
You mean you guys actually want your gf to tell you about every guy that hits on her, flirts with her, and etc.

That is just super weird.

If my girlfriend did that, I'd get the idea that she wants to get a reaction out of me or perhaps make me feel a little jealous.

ArtanK:


If my girlfriend did that, I'd get the idea that she wants to get a reaction out of me or perhaps make me feel a little jealous.

I've told mine about one or two in the past, but they were either really notable, or he was in the vicinity and/or asked. He's told me too, and I even watched him get cornered once lol (waitress at brunch)...but then again we do talk a lot, and tell each other almost everything. I don't think it's a good habit to form tho. It's not positive, and it seems tedious and counterproductive.

If ever she does, don't get all jealous

Wetin concern agbero with overload.

Evina:


Ohh sweetim, I couldn't respond to this post sooner cos I was banned from posting on the romance section

Unbelievable I am not even sure what rules I flunked

I think it is cause I type in French sometimes

Sorry dear....glad to have you back,i miss ur views&ideas abt romance.

mizzkeji44:

Sorry dear....glad to have you back,i miss ur views&ideas abt romance.

Awwww *in Kim Kardashian's voice* theeenk you. Lol

Evina:


Telling doesn't build trust. It mostly destroys it. What is the point in rubbing it in your man's face that he's got competition? Men have big egos, they want to be known as sole proprietors. Why deflate the ego?

Not wise, if you ask me.

it is good to deflate that ego sometimes. Having an ego is not something one should be proud of. He should know that if he isn't treating his girl right, there are many others willing to do it.

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.