NewStats: 3,263,309 , 8,179,730 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 12:57 PM 286g3y

U be leaner

ammyluv2002:
smh

he just booked a one way ticket to hell.

Trust me, after all is said and done, your heart is what you gonna listen to.

Advice are meaningless in cases like this.

Be truthful 2 urself nd don't let it affect ur studies

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Hmm, the foundation was destroyed from the onset, u were dating a cultitst n knew he is a cultitst? Says much about u i guess.

henryhemon:

All of a sudden she re he is a cultist,all along she was eng d D she didn't know?what's the guarantee the new guy isn't? Girlsually don't know what the want.

you know how you go to the market with the intention of buying a particular shoe, only to get there and find that the shoe you've wanted for so long has some defects nd there's a better, more attractive one on sale?

Same thing happens in relationships. Sometimmes you think you want one person, only to find there is someone out there far better for you. It's not like the first guy is bad, it's just that the second guy suits her more and he might be the one she was really waiting for while the first dude was a distraction

There are 2 reasons why pple get killed in school,WOMAN & MONEY,i advice you if u lyk ur new bf's life,leave him alone,cuz that system man will murk him,trust me i knw wat am saying.

Mtscheew..abeg who don see eclipse for in area?

You need to leave the both of them. Do not endanger yourself or another person.

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Nigeria is now so bad that you find yourself with a cult guy and you termed him "nice".

There is no nice cult guys. They can kill by any minute.
You don enter one chance

equlibrium:


elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon

lol mumu, wen did their let u go off quarantine center

U r simply confused, didn't u knw that he was a cultist b4?

The devil u v known is far better than d angel u v jst met# if u can make him quit smoking, u can make him quit d cult tin# if he is ready to keep u#dis is my 2kobo

samflexxy:
My advice for you will be to go back to your cultist boyfriend you might need his backup someday like when you get your sorry ass in dip shiit he'll be there to rescue you.

Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH

Be focused.......take the stairs one after the other. You aren't on the stair of marriage yet. Infatuation is what you have for both guys.

tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick

Blasphemy!!!
Blast Femi

You were dating a cultist for 3 years. What did you expect?

Well, I think you should continue with the cultist for the sake of your safety and that of your 'new love'

Or, you could pray the cultist gets killed.

Ditch the both of them

Don't worry, let experience teach you miss lover.

since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.


Thought u said u met him recently how come u av been crushing on him since sec.sch days abi na dream u bin dey c am?

Davo93:
Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH

common am just trying to be enthusiastic you can't take everything you see here serious

slap1:
You can't truly love two people at a time; because if you really love the first, you won't need the second.


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I know you won't take my advice but I'll just give it anyway: LEAVE BOTH OF THEM!
Why? You are sitting on a time bomb by dating a cultist. ( What kind of girl are you self?!)

I also feel the second guy knows you're crushing on him and is waiting to crush you back.

For safety sake, leave the second guy completely and pretend you still love the first one...maka ndu gi.

henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.

if to say u de close to me nw I for blow u 7 hot but I jux de fear 14yrs. as for d topic? she will hate u b cos of dis gud advice

wey i fit see captain black?
my ship is hovering around the bermuda triangle. abeg holla me if u c am.

justmag:
Leave them both n take ya asss to church. You need jesus!

yes bro. 7 tuale for u

young lady, the blind truth is that you are a thief! if not, you won't ditch a guy you dated for 3yrs for a guy you knew as a kid. yes the guy is a cultist which automatically disqualified him but you didn't breakup with him when you found out until recently when you met ur old crush. Wat u feel for this new guy is infatuation and not love. FYI, you don't know anything about this new guy. he might be far worse than your cultist BF.

*the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know*

my advice, maintain a neutral stand and think of more important things like your academics and personal self.

Don't you worry, you will love to meet me too.

This is the problem we women have. Who made u super man thinking u can change a man. Same reasons women marry wrong men believing he will change after marriage. Do you think it's easy to modify a behaviour. If u cannot cope wiv something don't stay and cry wolf when wahala start. As a young girl, u should never go into a relationship thinking u can change the man. In no get family member? Why they no fit change am.

Secondly, u have 2 options it's either u leave both of em or u stay wiv the cultists. Ma lo ba ye omolomo je o. Don't go and spoil the other guys life because of ur lost. Your cultists bf can do something nasty to the new guy. The choice is yours. Next time don't date a bad boy. Leave the bad boys for bad girls.



Sorry for being a bit harsh. U seem like a young girl from ur dp. We all make mistakes. U no won no d kind mistake I don make. just becareful. Cut them off totally or stay alone. Lastly you can scripture union. That's another easy way of running.

Davo93:
Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH

nah advice him give na

tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick

idiat

henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.

CONTENTED ,INFATUATION.