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There’s an unspoken pressure in modern masculinity to treat sex like an athletic event. We now talk about it as something measured in rounds, stamina, and output. But reducing intimacy to a performance metric misses the point entirely. The most transformative moments of connection aren’t about quantity. They’re about depth, the kind that lingers long after the act itself.

The expectation that men must "last longer" or "go multiple rounds" frames sex as a test of endurance rather than an experience to be shared. But pleasure isn’t a numbers game. It’s the unscripted laughter, the way skin reacts to touch, the sudden intensity of being fully present with another person. Memory doesn’t catalog repetitions, memory it holds onto what felt real.

When sex becomes about proving competence, the body turns into a machine calibrated for output rather than meaning. But true intimacy isn’t mechanical. It’s improvisational. The best lovers aren’t the ones with the most stamina, but the ones who understand that sex isn’t something you do but it's something that happens, an exchange that can’t be fully controlled.

What if one deeply felt encounter carries more power than a dozen routine ones? The insistence on multiple rounds as a measure of skill misunderstands what makes sex unforgettable. It’s not the duration, but the way it reshapes you. A single moment can leave you different than before.

The defiance lies in rejecting the performance trap, to be free from the tyranny of expectation. The most electric experiences often arrive unplanned, slipping past technique and flourishing on their own .

True competence isn’t about repetition. It’s about recognition. It's about that ability to see and be seen, to let the moment matter more than the method. Great sex isn’t manufactured; it’s felt. And what makes it unforgettable isn’t how much of it there was, but how true it was while it lasted.

Because in the end, performance can be faked. Real connection can’t.

CodeTemplarr:
^^^ the kind of discussions we love as blâcks.

You don get. Sexual and relationship matters. The worst part is that we never get tired of it no matter how old we grow.

lols, I can go 4

This one dey misyarn

Especially with ur wife or girl friend u see all the time

If i manage do two round dat is it.... even d two round no b immediately i go need rest

Dey play, I have done it severaly

dahmie2013:

Exactly. Whites don't glorify sex the way we do. This is why they are light years ahead of us.

Dey play. Na dem dey do the nonsense pas. Who introduced pornn and legalised it? Who made it a professional job?

dangermouse:
Some dey go 5 rounds oga. Including me.

We should just learn to stop generalizing personal issues.

You can't do it does not mean others can't.

U fit go 7 sef. Na body go tell you

There is actually a correlation between your heart, brain, sex organs, arterial flow, age and your sexual drive.

Younger men of less than 30 should be more sexually active.

Once you are above 40 years and still see this topic as a thing, then you are very jobless.

Proserpina:
He's right though.

how is he right?

does he monitor every man?

More than three rounds is possible,one, if you're in your early twenties, secondly if it's your first major sex as a man. I my first time, I went UpTo seven times.

SeeWahala:


Let's forget about the burantashi, tramadol etc . . . So even you're telling us that's even after releasing BLOOD in your 3rd and 4th round you still pushed ahead?

I have done 7 rounds when I was about 24yrs old and I didn't even know what is burantashi or any sex enhancement drugs.
I'm over 50 now but I can't do more than 2 rounds at a go.
That doctor doesn't know what he's saying

The bookies dey go reach twenty rounds for uyi guobadia (guobe) buttocks. The guy don too suffer for their hand.🥱

Mariangeles:


He's a very busy man, you're not.
That is the difference.


It is not something to be proud of, by the way.

how do you know that the dude is not busy?

why should he not be proud of his sexual proficiency and stamina?

Treadway:
says who? Lol

Very funny doctor 😂😂😂😂. May be he read that in school and not practical.

The right people who should debate this are ladies. Not men. Even pigs can fly here

Mariangeles:


If most of you men use most of your God-given energy for what it was truly intended for, Nigeria will be a better place by far.

Now, imagine farmers and doctors going 5 rounds most of the time...

what is their God-given energy truly intended for?

how is the present state of nigeria a product of most men not using their God-given energy for what it was truly intended for?

dangermouse:
Some dey go 5 rounds oga. Including me.

We should just learn to stop generalizing personal issues.

You can't do it does not mean others can't.

I did 4 rounds in 2011 I was 22 years then.

Presently the highest is two. If not one is ok for me

dangermouse:
Some dey go 5 rounds oga. Including me.

We should just learn to stop generalizing personal issues.

You can't do it does not mean others can't.

hmmmmm without using drugs yes I follow the man

dangermouse:
Some dey go 5 rounds oga. Including me.

We should just learn to stop generalizing personal issues.

You can't do it does not mean others can't.

You mean you can ejaculate 5times a night or you don't understand what 5 rounds mean?
It's not you going in,you get tired,then you continue.He means a man releasing 5times a night:even with different women,maybe 2 or 3 max,5 times is impossible.

NA LIE YOU LIE
WHEN I'M STILL SINGLE I USE TO GO 10 TO 12 ROUNDS

You no fit no mean say another person no fit.

No go dey do yourself.

Make I no cast abeg

Sorry Doctor, with due respect sir, you are wrong here sir!

If I meet a new girl I like a lot, I can go five!