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7 Wrong Places Young Men Look For A Wife By Elonaires (24487 Views)
Nicoddemus(m): 5:05pm On May 09 |
uchkochi:In summary you're saying every where niggas put head to look for wives is a wrong place. In fact you're indirectly saying niggas should remain single forever ![]() Na God go judge you op ![]() 4 Likes |
Kobojunkie: 5:06pm On May 09 |
Thazard:Your earlier comment suggested more than what you now claim here, though. Thazard:You sounded like that suggestion was the absolute solution for all unmarried people rather than just for you to be willing to test in your particular situation. ![]() |
Thazard(m): 5:07pm On May 09 |
Kobojunkie: Mistake noted. 1 Like |
pansophist(m): 5:21pm On May 09 |
emmaodet: Yes, arranged marriage is good for men that work offshores, or men that lives abroad. Of all the broken marriages that I knew of with Diasporeans who imported their spouse, their relationship either started online, or they met somewhere and just kicked it off. There was no thorough background checks from those who knew her from when she was little. This is how lots of men marry problems without knowing. 10 Likes 1 Share |
olutund(m): 5:22pm On May 09 |
pansophist: Nicely put.... However, can a referee truly know a girl thoroughly? For example a descent girl in the neighbourhood who lives a different lifestyle while in school but composes herself when back home. meanwhile, only those who have experienced her, know what she is capable of, or has done in the past? in this case, won't you be falling into the same trap you were trying to avoid by choosing through referrals?? How about dating multiple women, and keep spinning plates until you find the one whose characteristics or integrity makes you want to settle down? I would like to learn 3 Likes |
pansophist(m): 5:29pm On May 09 |
olutund: The more people that knows her, the better for you. How arrange marriage works is when your grandma refer you to the grand daughter of her friend who grew up in the neighbourhood there with her. Your uncle, grandpa, village people all know her. They knew when she was born, the school she went to, if she is stubborn and hang with boys in corners at night, etc etc. The likelihood for such girl to turn out bad is very low. Extremely low. It is about probability, not absolute. So its up to you to increase your chances of marrying a good woman, and arranged marriage so far is the best. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
olutund(m): 5:31pm On May 09 |
pansophist: gracias 1 Like |
pansophist(m): 5:34pm On May 09 |
olutund: Your strategy is also the reason for the dwindling amount of wife materials. You cant be sleeping around with other men's future wife, without expecting another men to be doing it to your future wife. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
malaria(f): 6:19pm On May 09 |
Blitzking:And it all depends on what you view as good . I may say a man is good because he just pay my bills ,another woman may say a man is good because he is physically present . One woman's good man is another woman's bad man and vice versa . As a friend will always tell me ' One woman's stingy man can be another woman's Atm . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Nemesis0147(m): 8:10am On May 10 |
pansophist:how I wish I can communicate with you in a private space 1 Like |
Fiscus105(m): 8:52pm On May 12 |
Nemesis0147: I guess on nairaland. Apart from club, the rest, you can see a good wife thre, people you see in church are the one on social media, in market, wedding event, professional event and in the school. The guy who wants to marry is the one who will look out for what he wants in a woman he is planning to marry. 2 Likes |
Omoawoke(m): 8:52pm On May 12 |
So where we go come find wife? Make we go osun river? 1 Like |
jayce232: 8:54pm On May 12 |
richmond500:I totally agree with u All the married people that I know of got married either through one of these 3 u just listed. 1 Like |
McLizbae: 8:56pm On May 12 |
I think we should rather ask OP where he thinks one can rightly look to actually find a wife.
richmond500: 1 Like |
Johnn74: 8:58pm On May 12 |
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jericco1(m): 8:59pm On May 12 |
Honestly to find wife dey hard I won't lie. You have lots of people that you know nothing about 2 Likes |
frankson1(m): 9:01pm On May 12 |
You should have attached '7 Right places young men look for a wife' since you know too much ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
naijapikin2(m): 9:01pm On May 12 |
And you has to make church number 1 Antichrist. Even the other places have been proven to connect men with good wives. Many cases abound. So this piece is a load of dunghill |
Godblessme1: 9:02pm On May 12 |
A useless Muslim like you. Why didn't you mention mosque?
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Mumusaphire: 9:03pm On May 12 |
So tell us where we should look for wife. Since u abolished those places.
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Burgerlomo: 9:05pm On May 12 |
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Nazgul: 9:06pm On May 12 |
Nemesis0147:Same question I wanted to ask. The op ended up not telling us where to search. 3 Likes |
QuinQ: 9:06pm On May 12 |
Nemesis0147: FIRST, decide the type of wife you want (it is not one size fits all). Then decide where such a person will likely be found, then go hang out there. If you don't want a church-obsessed wife but you go find a wife in certain churhes, blame yourself Nazgul: OP only knows where NOT to look ![]() 1 Like |
Meti99(m): 9:08pm On May 12 |
You may have had bad luck finding wife in the church but not everyone.. The Church is still the best place for Christians (Note: Christians) to find partners 1 Like |
MrIcredible: 9:09pm On May 12 |
FACTS! NO LIES DETECTED. If she's not a virgin, she's a red flag. 1 Like 1 Share |
QuinQ: 9:10pm On May 12 |
Meti99: Depends on what kind of church and the kind of wife you want (see my post above) |
emmansus(f): 9:10pm On May 12 |
Oga this your ards not follow I have seen marriages that work so well which wife were gotten from your ards Life na gamble e fit work for you no mean say e go work for someone else I have see a wife gotten from the street and become a good wife and a blessing to the man. 1 Like |
goldmatrix(m): 9:10pm On May 12 |
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olarent: 9:10pm On May 12 |
Jumia or konga
Omoawoke: 1 Like |
maik: 9:16pm On May 12 |
uchkochi: Ah!you don't want our young men to marry again. |
Godwritten: 9:17pm On May 12 |
Think your thought. Don't allow people think their thought into you. There's no social setting you can't find a good wife or husband. 2 Likes |
papyjaypaul: 9:17pm On May 12 |
Kobojunkie: Be a good person. Stop all these. A poster above said it. A good man can marry a bad wife too so stop sermomizing us on the sexes as if it's only men that go bad. There are bad and good men and women. Just be a good person. 1 Like |
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