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Why Do Married Men Cheat? - Family - Nairaland 4b92u
Why Do Married Men Cheat? (23674 Views)
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| MONEY247: 12:40pm On Apr 24 |
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I was speaking with a lady colleague and she shared with me a story about her husband... According to her she said she does everything, I mean everything for her husband... From sexual needs to food to respect to whatever you can think of...to please him. When she discovered/suspected he was cheating she went on to learn various sexual styles, even to the extent of watching pornography... just to make the bedroom game sweet for her husband.... This man still went ahead continuing the affair outside the marriage... She threatened to leave the marriage and call it quits when he came back to his senses... And became the family Man... I can tell this woman is still beautiful, she keeps herself clean and classy.... My question is this, what makes a married man to commit adultery or cheat... Just what... 15 Likes 3 Shares |
| Maeve7: 1:24pm On Apr 24 |
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Lack of morals.
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| Kobojunkie: 3:19pm On Apr 24 |
MONEY247:Marriage does not bestow godlike abilities on men and women so expect that married people, even the one married to you could and would do things that every humans could and would. 
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| ValCon888: 6:56pm On Apr 24 |
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Eating fried rice and chicken everyday no matter how delicious will get you tired. If one day you were offered garri and groundnut you will jump for joy.
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| Samantha125(f): 8:27pm On Apr 24 |
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Then we should change our marriage status into an open marriage... We agree to stay married to each other while seeing other people on the side and make it a no strings attached type of a situation. What do you think?😃😃😃 ValCon888: 30 Likes 2 Shares |
| flokii: 9:30pm On Apr 24 |
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Bad habits.. that's the only logical explanation. It's either the man cheats or the wife cheats or both partners cheat. Another reason might be change in taste.. a man that married lepa all of a sudden developed taste for curvy and hourglass-shape. What do you think will happen? 159 Likes 4 Shares |
| frozen70(f): 9:14pm On Apr 26 |
MONEY247: Its just natural for both men and women to cheat But men cheats because they feel it's good to taste different dishes And at the end of it all, they regret it after considering how much they spent on it that yields no profit, yet deprived the family. By that time they have come back to their senses, now come back home to face their family Meanwhile the wife have already moved on with bitterness and the man will no 31 Likes 1 Share |
| frozen70(f): 9:17pm On Apr 26 |
MONEY247: Its just natural for both men and women to cheat But men cheats because they feel it's good to taste different dishes And at the end of it all, they regret it after considering how much they spent on it that yields no profit, yet deprived the family. By that time they have come back to their senses, now come back home to face their family Meanwhile the wife have already moved on with bitterness and the man will now be a visitor in his own house Then the mother and her children already moved to another level leaving him behind It takes the grace of God to reunite a husband who cheats and the wife already know that he gas been cheating 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Sharpsharp00123: 9:49pm On Apr 29 |
MONEY247:law of diminishing returns Another thing is that men are polygamous in nature 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| geoworldedu: 10:23pm On Apr 29 |
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Because married women cheat too. If not, the equation will be unbalanced.
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| axglide(m): 10:23pm On Apr 29 |
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Their conscience has been seared with a hot iron
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| simpleseyi: 10:23pm On Apr 29 |
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Kuku Google am
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| BABANGBALI: 10:24pm On Apr 29 |
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The same reasons why married women cheat.
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| Angelfrost(m): 10:24pm On Apr 29 |
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Marriage can't and won't stop a promiscuous person from being promiscuous...! Only a personal decision and discipline to stay faithful can stop a man or woman from cheating. This decision is usually borne out of RESPECT for oneself and one's husband or wife... Not to mention peace of mind! When you consider the risks involved in infidelity, especially if you are in a country that favors your partner if she sues for divorce with evidence, you go give yourself sense...! Introduce such stringent divorce laws into Nigeria, and watch Infidelity rate plummet massively in less than 6 months. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| geoworldedu: 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
frozen70: It is only a fool that will regret the money he paid to get pleasure. Some are paying 1m to be VIP in a stand up comedy show of Akpororo. Some are visiting stadiums to watch football with 30k, 40k, 50k and none of them regretted it. Even till old age they still visit stadiums to watch football. So why is it sex alone they will regret? 41 Likes 6 Shares |
| Jokerman(m): 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
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Cheating couples are building their castles in hell fire already. Those private parts that is scratching them, hope they know what the demons will use these private parts for in hell. Cheating couples in adultery and fornication should as a matter of fact repent of their sins and turn to God now. There will be no acceptable excuses. We all get tempted, but we are called to overcome such. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
| Bananapill: 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
MONEY247: A disciplined bachelor will remain a disciplined husband. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
| eastOFwest(m): 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
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I'll be blunt. Men cheat in Nigeria due to an oversupply of cheap puna. It's a supply and demand thing. Many Nigerian men are humble abroad because of the complexity involved in cheating. Hotel alone is real money.
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| EyeCumInPeace: 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
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If you are sentenced to eating Okro soup the rest of your life, it will take a lot of discipline not to be tempted to try Egusi soup. 
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| brain54(m): 10:25pm On Apr 29 |
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Ego...
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| jtjohn(m): 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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Lack of discipline and self-control are major reasons men cheat. A man who can't control his sexual urges will always be tempted to cheat.
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| Babatunjo: 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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After marriage, the illusion clears off the men's face. After childbirth, beauty drops. With children in the mix, woman's attitude changes. You use your money to raise children, but children love mama you as they grow. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
| Trustedpronet: 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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| blamingthedevil: 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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Their expectations were not met in marriage . But men don't cheat alone....they cheat with women
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| MaziObinnaokija: 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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| emmabest2000(m): 10:26pm On Apr 29 |
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| Dandsome: 10:27pm On Apr 29 |
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By nature men are not programmed to be with only one woman. Even amongst animals, you will notice that it's one male to about 5 to 10 females. That's why when you want to rear animals y9u bring more females to one male. You can't cheat nature. One man one wife is a "feminist" thing the white man brought to us by using religion to cover it up. African men and men in general are not wired to be with one woman. Now before you say "what if the woman cheats?", you should understand that in this case it's a man's world. Just like how when you hit a woman, the whole world will frown at you. That's a woman's world. One funny thing is that women don't mind if you marry another wife, so far you make it known that's she's the queen mother and other cowives and sidechicks bow to her, she's fine. Let me leave you with an illustration. A key that can open many padlocks is a master key. A padlock that any key can open is useless. Think about that. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Atheistan: 10:27pm On Apr 29 |
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By default men are not raised, trained or expected to be Monogamous. In most Men don't chest because they no longer live their wife, or they have fallen in love with their cheating partner. 90 out of 100 they just want to get laid. Simple. Therefore choosing to be for the sake of Marriage is a one of a kind choice that requires self discipline. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| ednut1(m): 10:27pm On Apr 29 |
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You expect people that have been sleeping with different women while single to suddenly stop because of marriage?
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| MrPresident1: 10:27pm On Apr 29 |
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It is a biological incongruity to say that a man is cheating on a woman. How now, how does a man cheat on a woman 
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