NewStats: 3,262,371 , 8,176,944 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 02:41 AM 6e3w3l

SeeWahala:


Lol, no worry. Just dey observe the entity from today (I know sieving through his past post history will be a Herculean waste of time due to its sheer numbers)

In fact, simply go to the frontpage search bar and type/copy & paste "ASIWAJU JAGABAN 💪" and see the magic in your search results

The boy is an APC minion intern, the type Peter obi says earns N20k monthly for ing destructive politicians and policies

I pity him sometimes

You're actually right. I thought it was just a funny moniker... I no know say na mumu

Na u wan spoil your children life ... Will it kill u to raise your kids by yourself if ur wife is not cooperating with you ... Omo you better carry those children and body and raise your offsprings... If na to pay ur own mama salary to look after them while you are away to work go and do it

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

this your ?? Gan.... How person go carry little children dey sell ogogoro you know the life wet u dey expose them to... See them for Ikorodu na iron Dem don dey pick for ground...Dem say school no pay due to Wetin Dem dey hear those people wet dey drink ogogoro dey talk...

fmlala:





Seems you don't understand how marriages work, the man would have tried effortlessly, all possible means to bring the woman to the right path which eventually did not work. During these periods, the man would not have need to abandon his conjugal responsibilities.

If he had looked before he leaped he wouldn't have found himself in that situation.

Never make the mistake of getting married hoping to change your partner, a leopard never changes it's spots....... People with attitude problem hardly change, they only pretend or hide it for a while and strike when you don't expect.


I don't need a prophet or babalawo to tell me OP was foolishly in love with that woman. I don't pity people like him.

Your story is not balanced. Else, you won't be begging to take your own children. May be you did somethings wrong initially. Your way forward is also not specific, you sound like a man with financial constraints or you are a confused person.
What do you really want? To take your children back and live with them or have your wife or mother-in-law take care of them?
From your narrations, both wife and mother-in-law can't take care of them children, they are most likely not educated themselves.

deltateam:


It's easy to say that until you find yourself in similar condition.

It all boils down to marrying a resourceful, loyal and understanding wife.

It's not about finding myself in his shoes..

I deduced that from his write up.

First he described the stuffs he was asked to bring for introduction as Empire of what what what...

Then the Man has three kids. Sends 50 notebooks, 5kg of rice and 30k to them... Like..?

Bro. I have just 2 kids. I know how much I spend to keep the peace at home.

Believe me, once a man loses his ability to provide, most women will start becoming aggressive.

Read the comment above this...

Ganjafama:
Is 50kg bag of rice not enough for 3 kids?

Na you buy 50kg.

Baba said 5kg.

I have nothing to say but how many tomato cups are in 5kg of rice
Them dey divorce who no marry

Excuse sir, your son is a Mixologist now.

Follow due process and you will get them back (your children)

TechBaron:
It's not about finding myself in his shoes..

I deduced that from his write up.

First he described the stuffs he was asked to bring for introduction as Empire of what what what...

Then the Man has three kids. Sends 50 notebooks, 5kg of rice and 30k to them... Like..?

Bro. I have just 2 kids. I know how much I spend to keep the peace at home.

Believe me, once a man loses his ability to provide, most women will start becoming aggressive.

Read the comment above this...

Despite your spending are you saying your wife doesn't make her own contributions except squandering the money?

You sell your car and give her the money and she can't for how she spent it?

Whatever the case may be, any man that has the heart to sell his car and give the proceeds to his wife is not only a responsible, considerate man but a thoughtful man.
It was after his efforts at setting his wife up failed that he had to rely on his own efforts which isn't enough.

He was just unlucky in marriage.

Toymax88
Did you your marraige in a registry or at the local government?

If not, you are not legally married. You can "divorce" her. This is scriptural. (Read Titus 3:1)

My worry are the kids.

adecz:




Your children don become 'area'.....




The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔

One member of a church I used to attend, when he was a young man, he dated a girl who was basically the ideal woman. Unfortunately he found out her mother was loose. That ended the relationship.

I believe the Genesis of their quarrel has to do with the non charlant attitude of the wife.

That's why it takes 2 functional adults for marriage to work.

No matter the amount of money you make, you need somebody who makes her own money too no matter how small so that she will appreciate your efforts.

grandstar:
Toymax88
Did you your marraige in a registry or at the local government?

If not, you are not legally married. You can "divorce" her. This is scriptural. (Read Titus 3:1)

My worry are the kids.

how can I divorce your sister if i am not married to her?

was there even a marriage?

CivilEngineer90:
Have we noticed how the police do everything but solve any issues these days? When last has anyone taken a case to the police and actually got a solution. Even my sister that is one whatever issue i tell her she be giving civilian advice. Smh

Ganjafama:
Is 50kg bag of rice not enough for 3 kids?

He said 5kg sir!

Op, I took a look at the miserly items you sent your wife and kids out with, 5 kg of rice and #30,000, will that money be enough for their transport or upkeep ?

How long will the 5kg rice feed them, you are not financially stable to run a divided home, if you can forgive your wife, bring your family back and take care of them yourself !

EDGEof2MORO:


how can I divorce your sister if i am not married to her?

was there even a marriage?

That's why divorce was "divorce."

He should dump her but the kids will be an uphill task. She might weaponize the kids.

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

Savagery....

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

Are you an ogogoro man?

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

You missed the point. The man is worried that his kids are not enrolled in school, but rather they are being used as helping hands to sell “Ogogoro.”

Anyway, I believe that any normal parent would want his or her children to be educated.

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

Are you smoking?
He said his children are not enrolled in school!

Had to confirm if it was 50kg I saw not 5kg
30k, 50 exercise books.hmm.

Adextomzy1:


They're not In school. Didn't you read that part?

Bros, what is the 30k for, upkeep or school fees for the 3 kids?

adecz:




Your children don become 'area'.....




The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔

No mind the mumu he go marry IB girl with big nyash and breast. He will learn the hard way that there is more to marriage than big nyash and breast

Bahamas95:
If he had looked before he leaped he wouldn't have found himself in that situation.

Never make the mistake of getting married hoping to change your partner, a leopard never changes it's spots....... People with attitude problem hardly change, they only pretend or hide it for a while and strike when you don't expect.


I don't need a prophet or babalawo to tell me OP was foolishly in love with that woman. I don't pity people like him.

Pity the poor innocent children.

deltateam:


Yet he had a car that he sold which the ogogoro raised wife squandered.

#Just assuming the writeup is true.

There is always two sides to a story.
the man that raised alarm through social media that a judge in Abuja was using her influence to detain an oppress him over 100m. He even went as far as shouting out to VDM. By the time his statement of was revealed, it was shown that the man na complete criminal, the whole 100m he got as loan to execute a phony contract, he use am buy "benz" as yahoo boys say.

nedekid:

There is always two sides to a story.
the man that raised alarm through social media that a judge in Abuja was using her influence to detain an oppress him over 100m. He even went as far as shouting out to VDM. By the time his statement of was revealed, it was shown that the man na complete criminal, the whole 100m he got as loan to execute a phony contract, he use am buy "benz" as yahoo boys say.

Of course I know there are two sides which I even recognized by saying: "Assuming the write-up is true."

In real life, we'll hear her own side but since that's not available we'll go by what we're given since it's online talk otherwise no input will be made.

TechBaron:
Go and prepare for Jamb. We're talking about marriage and parenthood here not DLS.

Hmm who nor go nor know..indeed, marriage and parenthood. Okay o. I wish you well. Men like you is the reason why this women lack coordination. Simple clear explanation that the op gave, you are twisting and wanting to give your baseless assumptions like you know 1 tin. Oga nor worry, u go learn.

Toymax88:
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family , even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

Take charge of your family...bring your kids back