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My Girlfriend Tagged Her Ex-boyfriend On A Facebook Post Twice... (18347 Views)

CrisNews: 7:11pm On Apr 21

My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

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immortalcrown(m): 7:29pm On Apr 21

Take her as she is or dump her. Confrontation in this case is childis and useless.

She tagged him probably because she feels that her present condition is beyond what he expects from her. So, bragging or teasing is probably her intention for tagging him. And if I am right about her intention, she is a bitter soul.

She didn't tag him with an intention to get back with him. If getting back with him was her intention, she would not have tagged him on public posts because she knew you would see the posts. She would have secretly found a way to reconnect with him.

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advanceDNA: 7:36pm On Apr 21

Guy....dem no dey run woman matter like that......She will just turn the whole thing around by calling u jéalous and ínsecure...she will even add their usual mánipulative ínsult like chíldish, t0xic, and cóntrolling, all to make u feel more gúilty and make it look like she did nothing......

she's probably still húng on her ex in a way
.do like say u nor see anything...u will see more....

give yourself brain, reduce how you spend your money on her ......time will set you free

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thuxzwda1: 7:43pm On Apr 21

All because of tagging d ex on a post u won confront woman grin

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LavenderPetals(f): 8:02pm On Apr 21

I find that pretty much disrespectful. IMHO.

If the tables were turned, I'm sure she wouldn't like that.

Might be just a harmless move. But it's a senseless one albeit.

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GOFRONT(m): 8:04pm On Apr 21

Okafors Law of Congoelastcity about to take place!!!

Op, be very wary of Okafors Law!!

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Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Apr 21

She is your girlfriend, not your property. If you don't like her tagging her ex, calmly let her know. And if she continues, then you can easily decide to move on to find yourself a girlfriend without an ex or who would unfriend her Facebook friends/exes for your sake. undecided

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Kobojunkie: 8:18pm On Apr 21

Not true at all. There are people who don't even mind being friends with the other partner's exes as they do not believe in being jealous of that which, in their mind, should no longer matter. So, focus on you and making decisions for your happiness, not trying to impose your ideas of happiness on others around you including those you date. undecided

LavenderPetals(f): 8:34pm On Apr 21

Being friends with em is different from showing off your fancy new clothes and stuff to them by 'tagging' them in a public space like Facebook.

Different strokes for different folks anyways.

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Mariangeles(f): 8:35pm On Apr 21

Games people play on themselves on social media. undecided

Let me tell you; the less social media you use, the better for your mental health.
The less available you are, the better for you.

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Helpout12345: 9:13pm On Apr 21

Don't confront anything. You too have ex na? You too start tagging them and let your girlfriend know about it.

The problem will solve itself from there.

To avoid heartbreak, take the relationship the way the girl takes it. If she takes it serious, be serious. If she takes it like a play around or game, you too take it like that.

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bukatyne(f): 10:12pm On Apr 21

What's this?

Your girlfriend did something you don't like; aka tagged her ex.

Address it and set boundaries.

And ensure that the boundaries applies to BOTH OF YOU.

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KillahPriest: 10:39am On Apr 22

why confront her ? You've been given green light to play your own music and you're talking about confrontation undecided

Does she have any beautiful friend or sister giving you green light ? Get that one's number and Facebook profile then be tagging that person constantly to your posts especially when you hangout. Testify with a crate of Goldberg Black later cool

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Dronedude(m): 6:06pm On Apr 22

Useless post. This is why Nigeria is far from even Top 100 countries with highest IQ level.

See link below if na lie I dey talk

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8406071/countries-highest-iq-levels-2025

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Arostar2023: 6:06pm On Apr 22

Chai... heartbreak is real.

purrgold: 6:06pm On Apr 22

You are on a spaceship bro

Friendzone level

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bunmioguns(m): 6:06pm On Apr 22

I felt you should let her know your feelings

since you claimed she is your girlfriend

Ask her the need to be tagging her Ex in every post

she might even mean no harm self

just talk things with her

the thing we do for love en grin

This issue might have even weighed you down before you posted on nairaland......

Again, express your mind to her

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onadana: 6:07pm On Apr 22

Run... you're being played.

purrgold: 6:08pm On Apr 22

funny.... she still have traits of feelings for the ex bf

She is using the current guy to stay up to date... trust women at ur own peril.

If the ex put a call across... she will rush and meet up with him and enjoy herself

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yang(m): 6:08pm On Apr 22

You mean our girlfriend

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Sucolee(m): 6:09pm On Apr 22

Tell her you want to use her phone for something and walk away with her phone. If she follows you, it is time to move on my guy

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Fiscus105(m): 6:09pm On Apr 22

Do ur own and leave the meat for others to taste as well. Nobody can coner to himself alone, what belong to the public.

I have come to realise, "since there is category of lady that are extremely hard to get", 'there must be opposite as well', those category are extremely easy for everyone to have access to.

Some ladies I know, cannot say no to men advances, ...........age, handsomeness, money, are not reason for them to follow men, just show interest, they start following you like bambiala.

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tunjijones(m): 6:09pm On Apr 22

Do like say you no see anything.

You will surely see more and then you wld decide weather to continue or not.

I no dey do confrontation, I just quietly walk away

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ideatoprince18(m): 6:10pm On Apr 22

She's slipping from your hands bro and there is nothing u can do about it.

Let her go

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OgbeniOptional(m): 6:11pm On Apr 22

Lol, high chance she isn't even aware she tagged someone. If not careful, u can tag anyone on fbk

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Kobojunkie: 6:11pm On Apr 22

Your red flags are not the next person's red flags. Know this and level up on the social intelligence scale! undecided

dagbas: 6:11pm On Apr 22

Leave that matter JOOR

You talk as if you've paid a bride price on her.
Chop front abegi

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TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:11pm On Apr 22

You should be talking of disengaging her. What are you confronting her for? For she to deny or accept when you already know the truth? Or for she to tell you that nothing is going on between them (you can't expect her to say otherwise)? Or for she to tell you that you are insecure?

Be a man!

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Amayabor1: 6:12pm On Apr 22

When I see posts like this, I just shake my head for the kind of man will have today.

Op, please answer these questions;

1. What are your red lines in a relationship? What can't you tolerate in a relationship?
2. Can you stand your gf posting her pictures and tagging her ex?

I hope you are not the type that uses money to get women? Your gf is still into her ex.
You better start looking for someone else who knows what a dedicated relationship means.

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MaziObinnaokija: 6:12pm On Apr 22

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Uthmandanfodio(m): 6:12pm On Apr 22

Big deal ….. cry baby insecure man …

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God is love

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