| telim: 10:19pm On Apr 20 |
Dpsychologist:
Let’s talk about something every man (and even many women) can relate to—but few truly understand.
There’s a reason why, after orgasm, especially during casual or risky sex, you suddenly feel a wave of clarity, guilt, or even regret. That feeling isn't just emotional—it's biological.
What just happened?
When you're turned on, your body floods with dopamine—the same pleasure chemical you get from cocaine, gambling, or winning a jackpot. Your brain becomes singularly focused on one goal: release. Rational thinking takes a back seat. You ignore red flags. You override morals. You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth.
But as soon as you cum, your dopamine levels crash, and a hormone called prolactin spikes. Prolactin is associated with sexual satisfaction—but also kills sexual desire. Suddenly, the fog lifts. And now…
📌That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.
📌You start thinking about consequences—pregnancy, STDs, emotional attachment.
📌You begin to feel shame, disgust, regret or confusion.
You ask yourself: “What was I thinking?”
Congratulations. You’ve come to your senses. Literally.
This isn’t spiritual hype—it’s backed by neuroscience. The post-nut clarity is real. And it can be powerful.
But here’s the deeper question:
Why do we need to “nut” to see clearly? Why not pause and think before the act?
That’s where emotional intelligence, discipline, and long-term thinking come in.
Many lives, relationships, and reputations have been destroyed by a few minutes of unfiltered pleasure. People cheat, betray, and even ruin their futures over something they don’t even want once they “come.”
Next time you’re in that heat-of-the-moment tension… pause.
Ask yourself: Is it worth it?
If you’re unsure, wait. Because if you wouldn’t feel good about it after, you probably shouldn’t do it before.
As can be seen from the image. The guy was regretting after wasting his money on what he thought was worth it but as soon as he cum, he came to his senses.
Moral of the story: Don’t let your dick decide what your brain will regret.
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| GravityDefier: 10:21pm On Apr 20 |
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You will always come to your to your senses whenever you cum. Sex is overrated, don't make irrational decisions because of few minutes of pleasure. Be wise guys.
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| Teeman13: 10:22pm On Apr 20 |
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There's this os I dey knack sometime I enjoy it sometime I regret it, why's that
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| Maj196(m): 10:24pm On Apr 20 |
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No wonder... Sex na scam
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| REALretep(m): 10:24pm On Apr 20 |
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In life, we learn in either of two ways...soft way or hard way
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| nedekid: 10:26pm On Apr 20 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart 
Even those that have money still have regrets. Ask dangote his regrets and he will tell you, same applies to Elon musk. Abi did IBB not talk about his regrets in his recent book launch? Abi are those men poverty striken? Bros every one has regrets unless you are not old enough. The older you get the more your look back and have regrets.
Gani fawehimi had regrets he did not travel out early to diagnose cancer, he said he went to local hospitals and they were treating him for maleria and other illnesses.
So many rich men have been lost to prostrate cancer all because they were not doing the yearly PSA test, by the time they find out, it is already stage 4 and their billions cannot save them, before they die, they talk of regrets not doing the yearly full medicals. Some big men will tell you their regrets was not spending quality time with their kids, before you know they are all grown and have left the house, no relationships with the parents.
People have regrets in older years they did not follow a career they had ion for, eg teaching, aviation, baking, music etc.
My papa at the last few years of his life built a studio, employed professionals just to be making his music. He was a member of a band in his teens, he regretted not following his ion.
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| SirJerrie(m): 10:29pm On Apr 20 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart
Comprehension = 0%
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| Reggzy: 10:30pm On Apr 20 |
akwesenana:
Why is everyone being banned unnecessarily ?
shey you sef chop am?
E be like say na seun new AI implementation be that
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| jojothaiv(m): 10:30pm On Apr 20 |
akwesenana:
Why is everyone being banned unnecessarily?
No be Nairaland again.
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| Maitunbi: 10:38pm On Apr 20 |
Talkisneeded:
Not every sex you regret, not even
He said causal or risky sex. You can't be regretting sex with your wife nah.
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| sontoly: 10:38pm On Apr 20 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart
Oga, why do you think everything is about money, you can have all the money and still be complacent. You may forget to do that STD test. And after the sex, every thought start flooding through your mind.
Not everything is money my guy.
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| Dpsychologist: 10:42pm On Apr 20 |
Jman06:
Imagine diving in raw because you got a chance to knack your crush when you don't have any condoms with you, and afte that you realize the risk you just took. The risk of contracting an infection or getting the girl pregnant.
My guy got gonorrhea from this example you gave. The thing show am shege because he didn't try to treat it on time.
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| femi4: 10:43pm On Apr 20 |
Dpsychologist:
Let’s talk about something every man (and even many women) can relate to—but few truly understand.
There’s a reason why, after orgasm, especially during casual or risky sex, you suddenly feel a wave of clarity, guilt, or even regret. That feeling isn't just emotional—it's biological.
What just happened?
When you're turned on, your body floods with dopamine—the same pleasure chemical you get from cocaine, gambling, or winning a jackpot. Your brain becomes singularly focused on one goal: release. Rational thinking takes a back seat. You ignore red flags. You override morals. You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth.
But as soon as you cum, your dopamine levels crash, and a hormone called prolactin spikes. Prolactin is associated with sexual satisfaction—but also kills sexual desire. Suddenly, the fog lifts. And now…
📌That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.
📌You start thinking about consequences—pregnancy, STDs, emotional attachment.
📌You begin to feel shame, disgust, regret or confusion.
You ask yourself: “What was I thinking?”
Congratulations. You’ve come to your senses. Literally.
This isn’t spiritual hype—it’s backed by neuroscience. The post-nut clarity is real. And it can be powerful.
But here’s the deeper question:
Why do we need to “nut” to see clearly? Why not pause and think before the act?
That’s where emotional intelligence, discipline, and long-term thinking come in.
Many lives, relationships, and reputations have been destroyed by a few minutes of unfiltered pleasure. People cheat, betray, and even ruin their futures over something they don’t even want once they “come.”
Next time you’re in that heat-of-the-moment tension… pause.
Ask yourself: Is it worth it?
If you’re unsure, wait. Because if you wouldn’t feel good about it after, you probably shouldn’t do it before.
As can be seen from the image. The guy was regretting after wasting his money on what he thought was worth it but as soon as he cum, he came to his senses.
Moral of the story: Don’t let your dick decide what your brain will regret.
The below is not always true. If you are sexually attracted to the person, you can never get enough of them
Some sexcapade looks more like an aguero moment or hitting a jackpot That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.
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| Godsonkemz(m): 10:45pm On Apr 20 |
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It's only when you don't have money, fear comes in. Fear of baby pam, fear of in-laws coming on your neck or fear of raising a home when you are not capable of doing so, fear of std knowing that you have no money for treatment.
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| Dpsychologist: 10:49pm On Apr 20 |
Ringstonermasks:
Lil Wayne rap, "as soon as i cum, i come to my sentences..."
give credit to the original owner of the saying
Yes.. I know the song.
Bitches love me ft lil Wayne, future and drake.
But lil Wayne isn't the real originator.
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| NNEVERAGAINN: 10:56pm On Apr 20 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart
That's just a smart response from you, but then how many people can afford such lifestyle? Even you ain't up to such. The truth is, it not just about poverty, but then flee from such. Pray against temptation and do the right thing.
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| obaidan: 10:57pm On Apr 20 |
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It is called POST-NUT CLARITY, sense will fall on you
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| SugarRay001: 11:05pm On Apr 20 |
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| efemena5050(m): 11:15pm On Apr 20 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart
Na ur type Satan dey use play bet sure game over 2.5 .....continue to justify ur folly
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| meobizy(f): 11:31pm On Apr 20 |
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That moment of madness when it comes to mating is why there are seven billion humans on earth. Nothing to learn here.
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| Shomek(m): 11:42pm On Apr 20 |
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🤔
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| VaginaAcademic: 11:43pm On Apr 20 |
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In street lingo it's called the post nut clarity
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| illicit(m): 12:40am On Apr 21 |
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I go still do second round...
Senses or no senses
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| Amsickindahead: 2:14am On Apr 21 |
Dpsychologist:
Yes.. I know the song.
Bitches love me ft lil Wayne, future and drake.
But lil Wayne isn't the real originator.
He is bro
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| Bayelsarep(m): 3:01am On Apr 21 |
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I don't understand....
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| naturefellow(m): 3:19am On Apr 21 |
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?
If yes then you need to work hard…
In life money is the master of all things…
Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…
About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.
So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.
Leave English and work Hard and Smart
an unwise take
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| naturefellow(m): 3:22am On Apr 21 |
nedekid:
Even those that have money still have regrets. Ask dangote his regrets and he will tell you, same applies to Elon musk. Abi did IBB not talk about his regrets in his recent book launch? Abi are those men poverty striken? Bros every one has regrets unless you are not old enough. The older you get the more your look back and have regrets.
Gani fawehimi had regrets he did not travel out early to diagnose cancer, he said he went to local hospitals and they were treating him for maleria and other illnesses.
So many rich men have been lost to prostrate cancer all because they were not doing the yearly PSA test, by the time they find out, it is already stage 4 and their billions cannot save them, before they die, they talk of regrets not doing the yearly full medicals. Some big men will tell you their regrets was not spending qiality time with their kids, before you know they are all grown and have left the house, no relationships with the parents.
People have regrets in older years they did not follow a career they had ion for, eg teaching, aviation, baking, music etc.
My papa at the last few years of his life built a studio, employed professionals just to be making his music. He was a member of a band in his teens, he regretted not following his ion.
school him
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