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baralatie:

And i am not God to judge
What i am saying is the story is not true
It is true that infidelity happens even amongst some ministers I have seen Wella
But to say the wife is a worker in church and the husband is the pastors p.a and the husband is fighting the wife for going to church.tye story get k leg

Nothing is impossible in this world. Also there is nothing happening now that has not happened before in history, in some form. Just know that human being are very flawed and very imperfect. Whether they are pastor, priest, reverend sister or Bishop is irrelevant

eastOFwest:


Exactly. Sadly, some women need to cheat first before they realise the value of their marriage. Some just have to get it out of their system and will never do it again. Sort of "marriage character building." Don't ask me why

You seem experienced in this field.

baralatie:

And i am not God to judge
What i am saying is the story is not true
It is true that infidelity happens even amongst some ministers I have seen Wella
But to say the wife is a worker in church and the husband is the pastors p.a and the husband is fighting the wife for going to church.tye story get k leg

Oga... The thing is... I even have the full record of our discussion while she's unaware..cos I wanted to use that to focus my thought on the advise I was dishing.. . I don't have to prove anything to u.... Even with the voice record, after I stopped it, I still almost messed up at some point due to her vulnerability

ItisWell22:


You seem experienced in this field.

I have experienced life to an extent and come to certain conclusions. Sadly, there was a time that I viewed married women as easy targets and I wasn't proved wrong

This is funny

Once story one comment box, pure lies incoming.

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Danielomisco:

the story please

There's no story
It's all jonsing to farm engagement

So you didn't knack her...

What are u now telling us, oya give me her number


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MrOreo:

Oga go in to details na! What's with all this small small gist you're dropping??

Hahahahahahaha...my guy ear dur open waaa

Okay

Women are not rational. They think with their emotions. That is why just words is enough to make them fall.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

There's one rugged pastor I know who resides in my neighborhood. His case is quite different; he seduces women by wearing revealing clothes that accentuate his physique. The pastor would wear only shorts to the public tap where women fetch water.

Bad guy!

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Rubbish.
You must be a lustful human being to even contemplate compromising your pastoral work to want to sleep with not just a lady that comes to you for counselling,but a married one at that.
Be deceiving yourself that you are being tempted when it's the lust in you that's driving you.
Any woman even going to a Nigerian pastor for marriage counsellor is a big f ool and is not going actually for counseling but to see if she will see her fellow sexually starved pervert

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Pastor or no pastor,.... people should endeavour to stay distance from opposite sex who is not husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend.

Two people who are still sexual active and who aren't blood related, cannot come closer without sexual emotion spring out.

More reason you shouldn't take anyone who insist on opposite bestie serious.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

It is not only a pastor thing per se.

Whenever a male is counseling a female facing a relationship crisis, there's bound to be temptations, Women are like that,too emotionally charged.

Within the twinkle of an eye,if you're not disciplined,a woman can destroy all what you have worked for, that's why some people call them the devils advocate.

All women are quilty of this, for you to escape from their temptations, you have to set boundaries

FreeSpirited:


From our discussion, she says her husband is kind of mean... And lady is frustrated.. Seems a broke church man is an angry man.
She says husband has locked her out twice for going to church program. The last one that happened two days ago husband ejected some of her belongings to the verandaa before she came back from program btw 6 and 8pm....

Go and read Proverbs Chapter 7

Your choice of word, "naking" is nothing befitting an aspiring pastor

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

FreeSpirited:


From our discussion, she says her husband is kind of mean... And lady is frustrated.. Seems a broke church man is an angry man.
She says husband has locked her out twice for going to church program. The last one that happened two days ago husband ejected some of her belongings to the verandaa before she came back from program btw 6 and 8pm....

This woman now, she would never tell you, what's she is doing that making husband angry and treating her badly, she would play victim all through,...... your husband asked you not to go to evening church programme, you disobeyed him, yet claiming innocent, ....to make it worse now, OP will never tell her she erred, by disobeying her husband .

House wife that so love her God to the extent of disobeying her husband by going to church, the same church woman is ready to Bleep a total stranger. What an hypocrite!

Which is more severe, don't go to church or defying ur bed?

Did you kiss her and press her breast or not. Oga, tell us the full story or shut up. Pastor kor minister ni. Mtchew

women Not All are mostly very selfish and manipulators so if u like fall na u sabi. Those tears and begging mean absolutely nothing when the chips are down.

FreeSpirited:


Met her last month in a Keke on a Sunday.
I don't know how and why I broke my rules where I promised not to collect ladies numbers anymore
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As much as I tried to be focused.. The subtle green light was serious.. She's mature looking, bold and tall.. Immediately I broke the ice, she just flowed into the conversation. At the end I broke my rules and asked for her number.
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I thought she was just the normal working class ladies who want relationship... Until yesterday when she came calling and pestering to come see me for encouragement/succor, I never knew she was married!

And you didn't care to ask her.

seborrhic:

Rubbish.
You must be a lustful human being to even contemplate compromising your pastoral work to want to sleep with not just a lady that comes to you for counselling,but a married one at that.
Be deceiving yourself that you are being tempted when it's the lust in you that's driving you.
Any woman even going to a Nigerian pastor for marriage counsellor is a big f ool and is not going actually for counseling but to see if she will see her fellow sexually starved pervert

We learn everyday
I was naive or think I could handle it
But this issue of temptation during counseling is a human thing, I don't know why u make it a Nigerian pastor thing. So you don't think such scandals are rife in Western world or what do you mean.
Everyone has to give to God their record of stewardship

UrPapa:
Seems this op will soon fall or has already fallen sef
The way he even palash the “knack” word sef

lol the way he use the word knack shows he is bad guy.

Wolves in sheep clothing. This is one of the reasons I don't give pastors access to my family. Most of them take advantage of cracks in homes to perpetuate evils under the guise of being tempted.

Don't know what your story is....you are not a counsellor from what you said...so why are you counselling an unmarried woman....are you even married yourself to be counselling a single mother alone.

Safeguarding acts are designed to prevent story that touch either deliberately or lied against.

If a woman has issues make sure there is another woman in the room to hear the story...preferably your wife. Don't ever be in a room alone with a woman who is not your wife while she's sharing her deepest emotional pain. If your hug her in that situation it can be rightfully called taking advantage of a vulnerable woman.

This is really not temptation but lack of wisdom. "Wisdom is profitable to direct" - Ecc 10:10

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

You don't need to crash, you need to avoid counseling people of the opposite gender in private. You delegate it to same gender or do it with your wife physically involved or others in open space. Don't give them your number for follow up. You are not the saviour of the world. Even established pastors like Kumuyi and Adeboye don't play with fire.

Ogbeni koshi!!!

If you like fall for temptation, if you like, dont.

Should we now clap for you?

If there were any jobs in Nigeria, you would not be cosplaying a man of God.

Better find something more constructive to do with your life before it's too late.

TheBreastSucker:
Next time you find yourself in such a situation just suck her breasts and move o because it is not considered as cheating

It’s not necessary to always air your opinion, especially when the discussions are for adults/intellectuals.

I understand it better when they said...my Lord and my God!

My sincere advice n prayer is that you should flee from temptation as the bible suggest.
May God be with you Always to deliver you!
Amen.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Never you dare counsel a woman/lady in that situation alone. Let your wife or one or two brethren be present; otherwise, you too are looking for temptation to test your ability to resist, which is very dangerous.