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Make the woman forgive the man. He cares a lot of his first child. He didn't abandon her. He probably had her before he got married .

He isn't a deadbeat (Read 1 Timothy 5:

Kobojunkie:
. You are not what you say you believe or think, but what you do... did you know that? When it comes to Nigeria and Nigerians, we all know that if a woman were to have done this to a man, she would be branded a wh0re and a bi-tch even from her father's house. Please, spare me the talk abeg!

They are typing all this because it is a man that perpetrated the deceit. Turn the table and watch this thread get to 15pages. 😂

I don't see any reason to lie to my woman if I have a child outside, is either she stay or get out. I can't trade my seeds for any bloody human

pocohantas:
➜They are typing all this because it is a man that perpetrated the deceit. Turn the table and watch this thread get to 15pages. 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Emmanuel909090:
Why is she just vibrating and dragging the guy like that.

It's obvious why he hid it from her, he knows she is a mad dog, calm down that's your husband's daughter not a rival

The innocent girl is even kneeling begging.

Werey woman.

You are funny 🤡

If your wife should do that to you

You will not bark like a mad dog,?

Mindlog:
That marriage is broken.

exactly and that's why I'm angry the man allowed his daughter to kneel down and beg. It has happened already so if madam can't stay in the house that night, she should leave or I'll leave with the girl until tempers calm and family elders mediate but my daughter will never kneel down for any woman who's dowry I paid. Of course I can't be ashamed of any child I have outside wedlock, I do tell you straight say I get pikin o, she dey my hand or she dey her mama hand so just let me know whether we go be make we no waste time

pocohantas:


Hahaha. About his new moniker?
I was just telling Coco yesterday that they are oldies. Not juveniles as she thinks. They simply rebrand when one moniker casts. I don't know why they do that. The females they attack are still standing strong on their known monikers. So what are they running from? 😂😂

Maybe, they believe with new moniker everything will be new like naija police trying to re-brand with new uniform that time

How una dey abeg.

Nairaland matter no dey end.

If the woman separates from the man, she's 💯 right


Imagine how many things he has lied to the woman


The man is just a betrayer and idiót

How can you lie to seal marriage vows

If you tell her and she doesn't agree, you marry another woman

It is difficult to understand why people lie about these things. Why would you deny your own child? If you need to remain unmarried for the rest of your life (which, by the way, makes a lot of sense), please do so. Nobody owes you marriage, and people are free to reject your proposal due to your baggage. Accept this fact with honour and live your life.

Obierika:


As a man make sure you work hard and have your money so that the woman you married will never have the effrontery to embarrass you like this.

Tufiakwa!

If my wife tries half of what this woman did she will land in her father's house before 12 midnight of that day!

Rest!
It's easier said than done. I doubt if you are married

descarado:

Maybe, they believe with new moniker everything will be new like naija police trying to re-brand with new uniform that time

How una dey abeg.

Nairaland matter no dey end.

Hahaha. Maybe they are looking for wife here.

We are awesome. Thanks for asking.
And I hope you are good too.

I understand her reaction in the circumstances maybe because i experienced a similar thing in my first marriage where my ex maintained that the boy was his brother only to later find out it was his Son.

Polygamy was a red line for me and for a long time I tried to adjust but could not, such that I cried and cried and was in a depressed state such that I walked out in the end.

Everybody on his side knew of the deception including the boy who wanted to call him small daddy but was discouraged.

Kobojunkie:
She shouldn't have subjected the girl to that sort of treatment abeg! She is, after all, a victim in all of this. I hope the woman finds a way to apologize to that girl and her children for the outburst.

MightySparrow:

This is issue of deception not money. Why didn't the husband tell her the truth from the onset? If the woman wasn't comfortable with such union, she would have another man and the man would have another woman.

How many more children has the man in secrecy? This is a woman, what if the woman has problem of child bearing and the husband feels indifferent? What is her fate?

I think your position is callous. Correct!

GistMedia0:
A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.

According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.

The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”

To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.

While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSAJWHxqPVE

The heart of man is desperately wicked

gabbytabby:
➜ I understand her reaction in the circumstances maybe because i experienced a similar thing in my first marriage where my ex maintained that the boy was his brother only to later find out it was his Son.
➜ Polygamy was a red line for me and for a long time I tried to adjust but could not, such that I cried and cried and was in a depressed state such that I walked out in the end. Everybody on his side knew of the deception including the boy who wanted to call him small daddy but was discouraged.

OMGosh! 😦😦😦😦😦😦😦😦😦

2. They all knew!! I can't even imagine how you must have felt. I hope it is all in your past at this point, abeg! 😧😧😧😧😧

MightySparrow:


I didn't watch the video. Anyway, people marry for trust, the peak of love but where there is betrayal of trust, the foundation of love is destroyed. Any right actions, so to say, would be by social obligations not out of love again. There are homes where the husband or wife are tired of themselves, still staying together because of other things binding them together not love again.
If I were the man,, I would find my way to her heart again.
He wrronged the woman.

I agree with you. He's apologising profusely. Let be kind

MightySparrow:
The truth has finally come out. It has gone viral.
Now what?

Why did he lie?
Will the woman kill the daughter?
He just ruined the natural love that would have flowed from the wife to her step daughter.
Men are scumbags.

ImoleNaija:




Omo! I've always thought this happens only in movies.

So real, fear women 👌💯. Have you noticed that single mothers are damaged, e get why they are avoided. Widows have better respect 🤷

Newton1045:


I agree with you. He's apologising profusely. Let be kind

Cos he apologised?
Let's flip it?
Will you be kind if it's the lady?

GistMedia0:
A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.

According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.

The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”

To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.

While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSAJWHxqPVE

I WAS SO PISSED WHEN I REALISED THAT IT WAS
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Team

"I can't marry single father" this is update... Single fathers don dey hide their children.

I never would have thought Nigerian man who is polygamous in nature and can get any woman he wants would HIDE a child. Phew!

Reality is always different!

I sincerely hope this family's case is not thoroughly investigated because if otherwise happens their stay is shaky.

The dude looks so much like Nonso Diobi.
That woman needs to calm down, I hate when people start screaming when they have disagreements, will that solve the issue? No.

Skits, make nna de get sense

VHILL:



I WAS SO PISSED WHEN I REALISED THAT IT WAS
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Content?

Obierika:
It appears the woman is the main breadwinner of the family that's why she's vibrating like a generator that is about to knock engine!

no she is not. In the US women own the house, women are favored by the law.

Not everybody wants to marry baby papa and baby mama. If you are one, be proud of it. Don’t go and deceive innocent people into a situation they don’t want. That small girl is going to suffer in the hands of his wife because of the father’s deception. There are many people out there who don’t mind baby mama and baby papa.

Some of you think that life is sweet until you mature and start looking for husband or wife but everyone is running from you! You now get desperate and start telling stupid lies. The whole union is built on deceit and she has every right to do what will please her. Dem no de marry with lies. Soon or later it will all come out.

Emmanuel909090:
Why is she just vibrating and dragging the guy like that.

It's obvious why he hid it from her, he knows she is a mad dog, calm down that's your husband's daughter not a rival

The innocent girl is even kneeling begging.

Werey woman.

foolish woman.

Problem of women is that they cannot control their emotions. That woman over reacted.

yewit37486:
➜The dude looks so much like Nonso Diobi. That woman needs to calm down, I hate when people start screaming when they have disagreements, will that solve the issue? No.

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Bringbackmandat:
Problem of women is that they cannot control their emotions. That woman over reacted.

When you discover that the boy that has been living with you is not your wife's brother but her actual son, let us know how you would calmly react to that news then.

Kobojunkie:
When you discover that the boy that has been living with you is not your wife's brother but her actual son, let us know how you would calmly react to that news then.

So after all the screaming, what has changed?

yewit37486:
➜So after all the screaming, what has changed?

Hopefullly, the union ceases with it.

Obierika:


As a man make sure you work hard and have your money so that the woman you married will never have the effrontery to embarrass you like this.

Tufiakwa!

If my wife tries half of what this woman did she will land in her father's house before 12 midnight of that day!

That is if it happened in Nigeria. In the US there is nothing you can do, if you touch her you will be in prison