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Great100000: 9:37pm On Apr 05
The fitness culture has taken Nigeria by storm, and while fitness centres provide a space for enthusiasts to improve their physical health and well-being, concerns are, however, being raised about these centres becoming hotspots for romantic encounters.

In separate interviews with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Saturday in Lagos, some gym-goers said that the fitness culture had evolved into something more complex than just a space for physical exercise.

Mr Folarin Adekoya, a gym-goer in Ikeja area of the state, said that some enthusiasts seem more focused on socialising and taking photographs for social media than engaging in actual workouts.

“Some women are seen wearing revealing and provocative gym outfits, which leads to questioning the motivations behind their choice of clothing.

“But it’s not just the clothing that’s causing a stir. Some gym-goers use these spaces to hook up with romantic partners.


“I’ve seen women wearing gym outfits that are quite revealing; it can be distracting, especially when you’re trying to focus on your workout,” Adekoya said.

Also, Jason Onwuka, a regular gym-goer in the Festac area of the state, shared his perspectives on the evolving balance between staying fit, distractions, and the growing influence of social media.

“I prefer going to the gym to work out because I’m more motivated there, but I have seen people meeting up at the gym, and it’s clear that they’re not there to work out.

“They’ll spend hours talking and laughing together, and it’s just not what the gym is meant for.


“As society becomes increasingly individualised, people are looking for new ways to connect with others.

“The gym has become a space where people can meet new friends, find romantic partners, and feel a sense of community,” he said.

Onwuka noted that while the gym had become increasingly popular, with more social interactions, it was up to individuals to remain focused on their goals.

“Whatever it is you do, there will always be distractions. If you go to the gym with a clear goal to train and focus on your workout, it’s up to you whether you allow distractions to affect you.”

He also observed that the professional women who come to the gym are more focused on their workouts and do not dress provocatively.

“They wear comfortable leggings or tights that are easy to work out in,” he said.


Recently, a former Big Brother Naija star, Teddy A, weighed in on the issue of indecent dressing at the gym.

In a video posted on his social media page, Teddy A expressed displeasure over the trend, stressing the importance of covering sensitive body parts during workouts.

“I’m not trying to be insensitive, but we don’t want them to start banning girls from the gym because of indecent dressing,” he said.

Teddy A’s comments sparked a heated debate on social media, with some arguing that gyms should enforce stricter dress codes, while others saw it as an overreaction.


A manager at a popular fitness centre in the Ajah area of the state, who pleaded anonymity, told NAN that they have had to implement rules about appropriate clothing and behaviour in the gym.

“We want to create a welcoming and respectful environment for all our .

“But despite the efforts of the management, the trend shows no signs of slowing down.

“People are using the gym as a way to meet new people and have fun, and as long as they’re not disrupting someone else’s workout, I don’t see the harm,” he said. (NAN)

Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/04/lagos-gyms-turning-to-hookup-spots-visitors/

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slimfit1(m): 9:49pm On Apr 05
These people will start loosing business very soon.

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immortalcrown(m): 10:14pm On Apr 05
Ironically, the business will start booming. Isn't night club booming?
slimfit1:
These people will start loosing business very soon.

Remove indecent dressing from anything and lose over 80% of those who fan that thing. Remove indecent dressing and many women will stop morning road walk.

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Finquas: 10:16pm On Apr 05
Lol . I got a lot hook up from gym centers.. the bannies there are easy always ready for a rump grin

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kokoA(m): 10:22pm On Apr 05
slimfit1:
These people will start loosing business very soon.
Abi gaining customers.

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JASONjnr(m): 10:33pm On Apr 05
The gym spot in gwarinpa that I visited some years ago.... a guy walked upto me and started to toast me.

That was how I stopped going out to workout.... I do few dumbells and press-ups and sit-ups... I sweat and go to work...

Before person go come initiate me for bobrisky association.

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fickleawolowo: 10:48pm On Apr 05
JASONjnr:
I gym spot in gwarinpa that I visited some years ago.... a guy walked upto me and started to toast me.

That was how I stopped going out to workout.... I do few dumbells and press-ups and sit-ups... I sweat and go to work...

Before person go come initiate me for bobrisky association.




Seriously?

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motymop: 12:49am On Apr 06
It is good.

Let everyone be doing hookup.

Sabi it is all about sex.

I also noticed that everywhere is now a lounge, bar, gym and eatery

And everyone is hooking up themselves in those places.

Nowadays, you can not chill normally without someone selling their body or doing something to draw attention

Women are competing for other women husbands and boyfriends

While men are competing for other people wives and girl friends.

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floss(m): 1:03am On Apr 06
Gymnastics leads to bedknackstics

Why will you go to a gym house as a woman when you can create such environment in your home or within your neighbourhood.


People don’t know that they can still keep fit by easing mental stress, eating right, good hygiene and having up to 2hours sleep daily before nightfall.


I encourage morning jogging if you’re living inside a secured estate, you mustn’t go to a gym centre to keep fit.

If you can’t convince your partner to you as you’re going to the gym just know it won’t be long you’ll be bend over backwards to collect or to receive.

Don’t use your hand start what will scatter your life and family, at the end you’ll notice that DEPRESSION IS THE BEST WAY TO LOSE WEIGHT AND KEEP FIT grin

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papyjaypaul: 1:17am On Apr 06
Girls from good and bad girls turned female hostels into pickup warehouses for sugar daddies who are Directors of Extra Marital Affairs, Fornication Unlimited but did that stop the focused girls from graduating?

What you are looking for is looking for you. My only problem with Nigerians is that they behave like Fulani Herdsmen cows. They follow the crowd. If tomorrow, someone says you can start making money by preaching at bus parks, preachers will be more than the engers. That's how we are. We like vitality like viruses, that's how we abuse things.

Canada
UK study route
Libya
MMM

Zero initiatives, 100% copy cats

Edit: there are women only gyms in some places abroad. That's a new business opportunity. Some guys don't like the distraction of women and insta influencers and some women don't feel safe around men. Win win for all

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eepeepook: 1:29am On Apr 06
I work out at home. I don’t face any of these.

Teddy A’s comments sparked a heated debate on social media
Na their workout; trolling online. Bored children. They don’t know what a gym looks like yet them chook mouth for the matter.

The problem is, after uni, women chase men for romantic intentions. As such you see them loiter in places men are known to frequent. If women haven’t made themselves available to you, it’s your fault. Those of us who improve on ourselves routinely get approached. Men go for what they see. The tighter the clothes and the more skin shown, the higher the probability of catching a man.

Churches are hookup spots too. Why don’t they make news headlines?

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owobokiri(m): 1:58am On Apr 06
Oloshoism is the new Pandemic shaa..
They utilise every oppurtuinity to hoarde their "wares"..
And with poverty level going up, it's going to get worse..
The level of immorality going on in this Sodom and Gomorrah of a country is mind bogling

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TulsiGbardusa(f): 2:04am On Apr 06
The Changing Face of Fitness Culture in Nigeria

Over the last few years, fitness culture has taken off in Nigeria, with gyms becoming the go-to places for those looking to get in shape. However, what was once a straightforward space for exercise has evolved into something more complex, with some people now seeing gyms as social hubs—sometimes even for romantic connections.

The Distractions of Socializing at the Gym

Mr. Folarin Adekoya, a gym regular from Ikeja, shared his concerns about the shift he’s noticed. While gyms used to be places where people could focus solely on their fitness goals, he says that things have changed. Many gym-goers are more interested in socializing or posting workout photos for social media than actually working out. Adekoya also mentioned the growing trend of revealing gym attire, questioning whether some are more focused on appearance than on their health.

“It’s hard to concentrate on your workout when there’s so much going on around you. Some outfits, especially, can be distracting,” he said.

The Rise of Gym Romance and Friendships

Jason Onwuka, who works out in the Festac area, echoed similar sentiments. He pointed out that, while gyms are great places to stay motivated and improve physical health, they've also become spots for people to meet others and form relationships. According to him, some individuals will spend hours chatting, laughing, or simply socializing, rather than actually working out.

“People are going to the gym not just to stay fit but to meet new people or even find a partner. It’s a space for connection, and that’s fine—but it takes away from the original purpose,” Jason said.

Despite the increasing social activity, he also reminded everyone that it’s up to each person to stay focused on their workout. “At the end of the day, if you’re serious about your fitness, it’s your responsibility to ignore the distractions around you,” he added.

The Role of Social Media in Gym Culture

In today’s world, social media plays a big role in shaping how people use gyms. Some people go as much for the photo ops as for the exercise. With many documenting their workouts and sharing them online, the gym can sometimes feel less like a space for personal growth and more like a stage for social media content.

It’s no surprise that some gym-goers now seem more interested in capturing the perfect shot than breaking a sweat. While socializing and connecting are natural in any space, the gym was originally designed as a space for health and fitness, not as a social venue or content factory.

Teddy A’s Take on Gym Fashion: The Dress Code Debate

Recently, former Big Brother Naija star Teddy A stirred up a debate after posting a video where he voiced his concern over the “indecent” outfits some women wear to the gym. He emphasized that it was important for people to dress modestly during workouts and not expose too much of their bodies.

“I’m not trying to be disrespectful, but we don’t want gyms to start banning people because of their outfits. There’s a line,” he said in the video.

This sparked a flurry of opinions online. Some agreed with Teddy A, calling for stricter dress codes in gyms, while others saw his comments as an overreaction. Regardless, the issue of appropriate gym attire has become a hot topic, raising questions about how gyms should handle this evolving trend.

Gym Management Responds to Changing Dynamics

A gym manager from Ajah, who spoke on condition of anonymity, shared that his facility has had to put in place specific rules regarding attire and behavior to maintain a respectful environment. However, despite efforts to set boundaries, he itted that the trend of socializing and even forming relationships in the gym is showing no signs of slowing down.

“It’s clear that people are going to the gym for more than just fitness. They’re meeting new people and having fun, and as long as it doesn’t disrupt someone else’s workout, we don’t see it as a big issue,” he said.

The Challenge of Balancing Fitness and Socializing

In the end, the key takeaway is that the gym is no longer just a place for exercise—it’s a place where people come for community, connection, and even personal relationships. While this transformation reflects a broader societal trend of seeking new ways to connect, it also presents a challenge for individuals to stay focused on their goals.

Whether it’s fitness, friendships, or romance, balancing all the elements that come with a modern gym experience requires personal discipline. However, as the gym continues to evolve into a space that blends health, socializing, and self-expression, one thing remains clear: gyms are no longer just places for workouts; they’ve become multifunctional hubs where fitness and community go hand in hand.

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Reverseng: 2:18am On Apr 06
Living healthy is understanding that there are different classes of food so there should be different rules to combining them

There are rules to food combining. You disobey these rules and you make yourself susceptible to germs.
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8304162/humans-starve-themselves



People eat junk because they believe they can 'burn it out'
If only they knew how wrong that is

Clean your system and start afresh. You don't pour 'clean water' in Dirty water bottle. You'll only end up with 'dirty water'

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hakinamor: 4:06am On Apr 06
This has been going on for long. May be you just observed it

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ZombieDredd: 4:39am On Apr 06
All gyms in Nigeria.

The kind of outfits the women wear makes you wonder if it's just exercise or something else they are up to.

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Anijay1212(m): 4:56am On Apr 06
angry angry angry
It is the married women who dress up showing their 🐪 toe, acting up and generally behaving like single ladies who are ready to mingle that terrifies me the most. Their shameless and disgusting displays often makes me wonder if they have 'men' or 'ment' at home.
Nonsense.

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Baronthecelebri: 5:17am On Apr 06
I'll soon start going to the gym,so that I can Bleep as many women I like.

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ARISHEM: 5:25am On Apr 06
Every leisure and recreational centers you go in Lagos especially the newest ones they are there to distract you with their eye popping provocative dressing.

And when some men open their mouth to tell folks how they met their wives. When they mention some places they met them I just wonder how they are not ashamed

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JackDaAlienz(m): 5:25am On Apr 06
Especially all those Yam legged ladies from the rising solar in the east.
Whenever dey squat you can see the their yams in all its glory.

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Egalitarian1: 5:26am On Apr 06
Olosho centers disguising as fitness centers.

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rinzaugustine: 5:26am On Apr 06
They always turn something good into something else

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Asonaijaaso: 5:26am On Apr 06
Some people are there to work out their private parts, not just their muscles!

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Fiscus105(m): 5:27am On Apr 06
floss:
Gymnastics leads to bedknackstics

Why will you go to a gym house as a woman when you can create such environment in your home or within your neighbourhood.


People don’t know that they can still keep fit by easing mental stress, eating right, good hygiene and having up to 2hours sleep daily before nightfall.


I encourage morning jogging if you’re living inside a secured estate, you mustn’t go to a gym centre to keep fit.

If you can’t convince your partner to you as you’re going to the gym just know it won’t be long you’ll be bend over backwards to collect or to receive.

Don’t use your hand start what will scatter your life and family, at the end you’ll notice that DEPRESSION IS THE BEST WAY TO LOSE WEIGHT AND KEEP FIT grin


How many Nigerians like to do things for exact intension/reason it's created? Gym, religion, politics, internet,even schooling? We must find way to abuse and make it looks as if, those created it, had ulterior motive for establishing it. Just tell Nigerians, this is latest things now, and see army of followers rushing to grab it, even if such things is what they hitherto hated, they must find way to link such things to sexual exchange.


Married women going to gym without her husband beside her, isn't it awkward? If you raise such opinion now, Genz-republic would come after you and shout you down. The same people would also be complaining skyrocketed marital infidelities and lamenting "marriage Na scam".

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Antichristian2: 5:27am On Apr 06
Satanic spots!

Only females wey devils don enter dey go there!

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SAMBARRY: 5:33am On Apr 06
Smh women can you at least respect yourself. Must you turn yourself to sex objects everywhere and in every situations. Na una go say men are promiscuous and indecent but na una go dey distract these men and when una see wetin una dey find una go dey play victim

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binary01: 5:33am On Apr 06
most gyms have been that way for the longest time.
add malls, churches, fastfood and other public centers to the list, hookup girls and boys would always be available any where money is being spent, or an expression of wealth exists. it's just the game, play it or don't play it, just don't hate the players.

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gerrardomendes(m): 5:36am On Apr 06
Everybody dey hustle

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Fiscus105(m): 5:41am On Apr 06
MoneyMarket:
Socialization is niceee.

Anywhere humans converge, (sexual) interactions are bound to happen.

Relationship might prop up and not turning it to sexual market.

They are two different words.(Relationship & hook up)

Brothel/night clubs is supposed to be different from other gathering.

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UselessBuharist: 5:44am On Apr 06
I know of one guy that used to take women on aerobic exercise in Lakeview Estate Amuwo, that guy knack both married and single women. Na there you go know say women nor get direction

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