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The question is are you a virgin? If yes the only thing I will tell you is toto na toto. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.

Good luck finding one in this hyper-sexual generation and time.

While there is nothing wrong in wanting to be the first eat that nature's cookie, you should also realize it doesn't always guarantee the following:

1. Sexual fulfillment and satisfaction
2. A blissful and peaceful marriage
3. Successful marital partnership
4. Respect and Virtue
5. Marital Faithfulness and Loyalty


You ought to be more invested in looking for someone that will complement you in every way possible: physically, mentally, spiritually and even financially.

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
To even see the virgin from 13 years upward in Nigeria hard self. All of them na extra wide products

See what i mean with this virginity fixation? People who obsess go as far as even judging the virginity status of children. They are themselves not what they desire, but have no boundaries when it comes to sizing up others, including babies in extreme cases.

There is no benefit bro it's just like buying a car if u marry a virgin with serious mental health issue your marriage will suffer. Virgins and entitlement mentality na 5&6 if u misbehave they can even kill you. If u buy a new KIA motor and tokunbo Benz c series 4matic my brother u go discover the KIA na nonsense. Virgin with close mindness and terrible attitude is worse than a cooperate borehole woman

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
To even see the virgin from 13 years upward in Nigeria hard self. All of them na extra wide products

virgins dey but u won't like their attitude they are usually introverted and very awkward in behavior infact nerdy

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

Correct. I’ve been on this platform for almost 18 years and Kobojunkie is not one few old timers to have a reasonable conversation with. So this response is very befitting.

sprints1:
virgins dey but u won't like their attitude they are usually introverted and very awkward in behavior infact nerdy

Is he himself a virgin that he would go about checking whether your child is one or not?

The girl I got married to, told me that it is only one person that she had sex with.. but I have to multiple 1x 20persons to get the actual figure

Some guys here are taking this topic so personal.

Virgin or nothing

My advise you for: God to primary 5 or JSS1 and pick a wife and pay her price, when she clocks 18, marry her as a virgin.

Just go with a woman you can live with her character..
A woman been a virgin doesn't guarantee that she will make a good wife..I am a living witness okay

There is no difference between a virgin and the regular! When a woman menstruate her virginity is restored in fact you will enjoy the experienced ones better

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

You have time to even respond to that fool. He/she is always on the side of wrong. I’ve never seen any sense coming from kobojunkie post here. Always better. Always on the side of wrong.

4tomandchi:
The question is are you a virgin? If yes the only thing I will tell you is toto na toto. Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage.

But poor girls marry rich men?

Wetin I wan take virgin do...?

sprints1:
There is no benefit bro it's just like buying a car if u marry a virgin with serious mental health issue your marriage will suffer. Virgins and entitlement mentality na 5&6 if u misbehave they can even kill you. If u buy a new KIA motor and tokunbo Benz c series 4matic my brother u go discover the KIA na nonsense. Virgin with close mindness and terrible attitude is worse than a cooperate borehole woman

You're a big liar. Very big liar.

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

I really don’t know why it’s hard for you to find one.

Two of my lovers are Virgins (I confirm one, haven’t had the time to confirm the second) but it won’t be hard for me to confirm if I want to.

Maybe change your environment. And it is not even a matter of age. While one is just about 20, the other is in her mid twenties, and also very beautiful.

I’m not a virgin myself. And they know. Abd they even know that I am sexually active, but they don’t mind.

I think it’s how you relate with women. Thats very important.

But while I will never say it to any man or woman (that knows me) - I will never keep a woman that is not a virgin at home, even if she had children for me.


Before anyone quote me about “I am not a virgin.” First go and learn what a “Man” is and what a “Woman” is.

Like someone pointed out about genetic pollution, I think one key indicator of a virgin is a woman without a troubled soul. If you are cool headed enough to handle a reasonable woman, you should not find it difficult to find a virgin. Non. Virgins has lots of drama (mostly) and trust issues.

Just be a man, and be responsible, they will come to you themselves. You don’t even need to look for one.

Osanoghodua1:
✓ My advise you for: God to primary 5 or JSS1 and pick a wife and pay her price, when she clocks 18, marry her as a virgin.

This is what I have been highlighting. This fixation on virginity has turned Nigeria into a haven for predators such as this one here. They have practically become part and parcel of the culture down in Nigeria, something folks used to think was only found among the Muslims in the core north is now rampant in all parts of the country.

Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size.

On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her.

Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs.

, a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet.

But the pièce de résistance is, no man can satisfy a woman; man does not owe a woman satisfaction. What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but your expectation is that there would be virgins everywhere else abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

I wonder how this makes sense to you. Does this relate in anyway to what he asked?

EdiskyHarry:
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I wonder how this makes sense to you. Does this relate in anyway to what he asked?

🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

The best response

Some virgins don do anal sha

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

It’s not an unhealthy fixation. Not every lady is from a troubled home. And not every lady needs to climb dick or rub Toto with their fellow women to eat.

If he is a responsible guy himself. He shouldn’t find it difficult to find one.

sarkinbauchi:



Your comment is rubbish.
If person want marry virgin, let him marry a virgin.
If you didn't marry a vrigin, allow him to marry a virgin. Stop castigating people who want to do the right thing.

neolboy:
No benefits.

And if you want to marry a virgin, then you will grow old because meeting them is by luck

No benefits, right?
That is why you almost fathered the child of another man.

Keep being woke.

Antoeni:
➜Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size. On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her. Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs. , a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet. But the pièce de résistance is, no man can satisfy a woman; man does not owe a woman satisfaction. What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

Yet, time and time again, we have read of numerous cases of women, formerly wedded as virgins, eventually going on to abandon or even cheat on their husbands. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Why do you folks resist the need to learn? There are numerous examples of why what you have worming in your head there in the year 2025 does not hold, and never has held at any point in history. Yet you resist the need to abandon ignorance. Is it genetic or something? Why?

SIRKAY98:
You have asked a beautiful question,but you see, marrying a virgin is good but not paramount, just watch out for some of this factors when considering who you will settle with, make sure the person is not a single parent raised person, it always ends in regret.Watchout, and make sure there upbringing is topnotch,if they had a bad experience through marriage from there parent you will see sege. Virginity is nothing compare to a good upbringing and the person also retrained there self to be a good personality on there own.You can marry non virgin and still be happy if they have a good character and fear of GOD.

Thanks

Me feels the likelihood of getting a female virgin in big cities like Lagos, Port-Harcourt, and Abuja, is very slim.

Again, as much as I hate to it it, I feel there are more pious ladies among the muslim community than the other religions. I stand to be corrected though!

My guy, I'll advise you to seek for those ones with character.

Just pray to meet your wife that was destined for you rather than putting emphasy on virgin. You never can tell, you might still be lucky to meet your woman a virgin