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cr7lomo: 10:17am On Apr 03
Letmecum:
Oga how 1millon wan take rent shop and stacked it up with goods. My friend give his newly wedded wife 5m to start a business renting of shop is not included. Oga u go start business with 1m abi na garri and yam u wan buy for the shop. Rawbish

Ur friend is part of the problem with women in society... that business will not succeed... he will keep on pumping money into it for it to survive.... what does she know about that business, or u think its by pumping alot of money .... u marry new wife , u carry 5m go give am for business, like she is experienced in that trade ... after a few years he will get tired of pumping more money into it and that business will go down ... the reasonwhy men are always more successful that women in business is that they start small and they know if they fail , their live don over be dat ... but some men like u and Friend keep spoiling women like they are babies and they will forever be dependent on that man , and will never give blood and sweat to that business cos it came easy

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Gerrard59(m): 10:20am On Apr 03
Judging from your topics and posts, you don't have one million naira.

Rest in the name of Jesus!

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wellmax(m): 10:22am On Apr 03
My experience is a bit different.

She has money in millions but will never touch it. Will not invest, will not spend, just like to have it accumulating monthly interest. No wahala with that.

But help with home keeping na lie. She will never touch her money to help with anything in the house.

This is putting me in serious debt. If we needed money urgently she can withdraw and LOAN to me. Even if I say it’s her contribution, then all hell will be let loose. She will nag until I repay the LOAN. I’m really tired.


I’m Working two jobs yet no savings.

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Faposky95: 10:23am On Apr 03
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?

See, the problem....
So you is a Princess...in your mind...sha
If hawking made millions, she would not try ?
We need to wake up and smell the coffee.
Time is coming....the female folk write out their constitution and back it by the Law of the Universe

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RillJ(m): 10:23am On Apr 03
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.

The babe no be woman like Natasha abi?

People trade with N500k in Lagos and make over that amount monthly via turnover of sales
SUNNINO(m): 10:25am On Apr 03
dkidd:

I hope say U done pursue her from Ur life before U come here sha?
Michaelkelvin1(m): 10:25am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

You are an illiterate a nicompu!

So as learned u are ? 1milion would not be able to give ur a wife a decent job ! And besides marrying her is not a favor with ur poverty thinking mentality?? Abi u want make she day sell zobo ni? Or na akara? Even provisions would need a store.. abi na pop corn?? ..

Here u are destroying peoples home

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Emeskhalifa(m): 10:25am On Apr 03
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
I can see most people are mentally lazy.

If anyone think 1m is too small to start something, walai that person is lazy in the heart, mind, body and soul.

Such lazy person should be avoided like a plague

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Glowqueen3(f): 10:25am On Apr 03
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Bobodee09:


Someone who doesn't have money must only have eye for starting small.


There are many businesses out there she can start with even 200k but most ladies want to show off.

Swallow pride ,hustle hard and grow.
Oga mi, please give me ideas of such biz,l need to start something asap.

1m is more than enough to start a business for someone who has sense.
GloriousGbola: 10:25am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

do you even know business?


you think those nonsense shops men open for their wives where they sell provisions are anything more than a bribe to sit at home rather than pursue an actual career or REAL opportunities ?
almarthins(m): 10:26am On Apr 03
dkidd:

I hope say U done pursue her from Ur life before U come here sha?

The way I see this guy, him go chop the cookies to his satisfaction before excusing her.
michoim(m): 10:26am On Apr 03
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
You can say that again
Michaelkelvin1(m): 10:27am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

I pitty ur wife bros! U go put ur wife in suffering all in the name of principle. Think well na

Ur no get Sense o
SUNNINO(m): 10:27am On Apr 03
Shut up,if you don't have what keep quiet.
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?

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ShootThemAll(m): 10:27am On Apr 03
Sonnobax15:
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She's right...

1m presently in Nigeria can't do no shiit angry.

Here in Ughelli where I'm,only store rent+ wicked agents fees go collect half of that 1m.......So she's definitely right bro..

Business isn’t just about having capital at the start; the key is understanding the business, building strong relationships, and providing excellent service to the few customers you have to earn referrals.

My wife started her business right from her room—no office, and the goods were on credit. She sold, took her profit, and returned the capital to the supplier. So, only those who lack determination will claim that 1 million isn’t enough. What truly matters is having the drive to start.

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SecretSpy666: 10:27am On Apr 03
Opened a business for my wife in the market. Here is the price:
Shop - 600k
Plastering the shop - 100k
Bought 10 bags of rice - 950k
Cartons of spaghetti - 200k
Bags of semovita - 120k
These are what we started the shop with last year. Now, the shop is full and the goods inside worth 7 millions

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Bobodee09: 10:28am On Apr 03
wellmax:
My experience is a bit different.

She has money in millions but will never touch it. Will not invest, will not spend, just like to have it accumulating monthly interest. No wahala with that.

But help with home keeping na lie. She will never touch her money to help with anything in the house.

This is putting me in serious debt. If we needed money urgently she can withdraw and LOAN to me. Even if I say it’s her contribution, then all hell will be let loose. She will nag until I repay the LOAN. I’m really tired.


Working two jobs yet no savings.

Women are naturally very stingy.

It what most of us family men are facing......It is well my brother.

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saysoo: 10:28am On Apr 03
Letmecum:
Oga how 1millon wan take rent shop and stacked it up with goods. My friend give his newly wedded wife 5m to start a business renting of shop is not included. Oga u go start business with 1m abi na garri and yam u wan buy for the shop. Rawbish
Those selling garei and yam have built storey buildings and sent their children abroad for a masters programs. What is wrong in selling garei and yam?

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popp(m): 10:28am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

Stop bragging and typing balderdash.

One million is like three hundred thousand last two years.


Obviously it can't open any good Shop.

Rent alone is how much?

If you enter any Super Market or even a local food stuff market in your neighbourhood, 40k stuff will just be in a small nylon.
pocohantas(f): 10:29am On Apr 03
It pays to start small and grow organically in business. Many new generation businesses are crashing because they want CEO chair and table inside a chop selling noodles and groundnut oil.

GloriousGbola:


do you even know business?


you think those nonsense shops men open for their wives where they sell provisions are anything more than a bribe to sit at home rather than pursue an actual career or REAL opportunities ?


There is one in my area. She opens when she likes. I looked towards her shop yesterday and thought to myself, this woman's husband must be rich. 😃😃😃

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appleous: 10:29am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

"Someone that *have* not seen 1m in her life saying this"

Dude, you don't know the difference between have(plural) and has(singular).

So keep your smelly advice to yourself.

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Valuepaints20(m): 10:31am On Apr 03
I did not expect her to reply like that there’s always a business someone can do with even a 1000 naira.

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Bobodee09: 10:32am On Apr 03
Glowqueen3:
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I will advise polythene business.

There is serious money in that business and lesser competition.

I don't know which state you are residing....if you are in lagos all you just need is learning how to cut and map out your distribution route.

The gains might be lil from the beginning but trust me within 6month you be surprised with what you realize.

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SalamRushdie: 10:34am On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

She told you the truth under Tinubu govt 1m is 625 dollars.. You move on and find another woman she Will get that fits her
chidiokay: 10:35am On Apr 03
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.


You are right but i dont think toxicity is the man here, the guy is probably not expose enough, infact i think Poverty background is the problem

Someone well raised with money will not wail in 2025 over 1m to do business, owo iphone 14 one piece
Xisnin(m): 10:35am On Apr 03
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
If She has never seen 1 million in her life like OP claims, then she is clueless business wise.
Regardless of location, not every business must start with a multi-million Naira capital.

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Bittersweetnig(m): 10:37am On Apr 03
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
don't mind them oh, run for your dear life
Bobodee09: 10:39am On Apr 03
chidiokay:



Are you right but i dont think toxicity is the man here, the guy is probably not expose enough, infact i think Poverty background is the problem

Someone well raised with money will not wail in 2025 over 1m to do business, owo iphone 14 one piece

This the problem we have.

Yahoo Boys with Bleep up mentality.

Proud over nothing......1m is small money.

No one who genuinely clean hustle money will ever say 1m is small.

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tommy589(m): 10:39am On Apr 03
Bobodee09:


Not every part of Lagos is expensive.

What happens to starting small??

1m is more than enough to start a business in lagos but ladies want do show off business.

I no a lady who makes over 500k every month on her nylon business and this cost 200k capital to start.

I was telling someone the other time that Nigeria will still create billionaires that started business with less that 100k

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yemmit90: 10:40am On Apr 03
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.

Mayb you guys are still being fed by your parents or just so ignorant of current reality. The fact that you mentioned frozen food business is enough to say you know absolutely nothing about reality.

The girl is obviously telling him the truth, she didn't say she can't start business with 1m, she was only telling him that 1m can't start a business that she have to rent a shot. A shop at good location these day will gulp nothing less than 400k total package from that money. Instead of him to encourage or teach her how to manage the fund, he is here accusing her wrongly.

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Newgoodkk(m): 10:40am On Apr 03
Oga Run now , I Introduced a Lady to one Uncle who gave her 500k ,A Graduate ooo , She sharply look for a Space at a Junction, Bought Gas Cylinder , Pots etc , hire one Lady , she started Frying Pof pof and burns .

She has hired 2 more ladies now , Bought white transparent buckets for them to sell.

the lady Is Planning to Rent a Big shop now .

OGA that Lady will ruin your life .. Run now

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chidiokay: 10:41am On Apr 03
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.


Is either you dont understand the discussion or you dont understand yourself

there is no business you want to do in lagos, that requires you rent shop that 1m can fund expect you will rent shop and leave it almost empty, ... virtuous, wife material 6yards have nothing do with economic reality

even container shop now, by the time you settle 1m go remain how much ... naira don cast

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