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Why Does Having A Beautiful Girlfriend Seems To Be A Big Deal In Nigeria? - Romance - Nairaland 4m6n2q
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| Bookhub: 1:01pm On Mar 23 |
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I have being going through a lot lately , so my girl is always around for emotional ,but the problem is I am tired of answering numerous questions from people around about this girl. Truth be told my girlfriend is not a 10 in looks I would rate her 6/10 but my brother I don tire for people questions both male and female; is she your girl? I never knew you have a girlfriend?na where you dey spend all your money be this? Infact when we walk down the street even people who don't know me will be starting at us and it can be embarrassing. From my observation Nigeria is a horrible place to live as a broke person,people see it as abnormal for a broke guy to have a girlfriend or be happy,I was born with a totally different mentality of life I don't believe love should be transactional and it's working for me. I know most of Nigerians ladies are materialistic and incapable of loving so I avoid them and stay calm and patient till I get the less damaged ones who are open to love and I always get them. 80% of Nigerian men are single,The average Nigerian man is lovestarved can stay up to a decade without getting a girlfriend they see it as a Herculean task our mentality needs to change honestly. 16 Likes |
| Starz825(m): 1:19pm On Mar 23 |
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yeah..tbh I put my girl for DP one time before i come later commot am ....everybody..is that your girl..omo she fine oo..you are lucky oo...esp for work...oh u don commot her picture , so dem no go steal am for your hand......diff shit...Most still wondering aw i got her........as if say na heaven ,.... Can be annoying sometimes...nothing special abt fine girls ..just normal level... no be say dem get gold down there....mentality has to change tbh....They are nothing special funny enough, most of the guys iring her in your presence would want to have a taste...nothing more... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Sonnobax15(m): 1:30pm On Mar 23 |
 To have a banny who's pretty these days can be frustrating....... 1 Like |
| Bookhub: 1:37pm On Mar 23 |
Starz825:All na mindset,most of these fine girl are overrated, they day you see them naked and Bleep them your mentality of them changed immediately they are just humans like you,they have insecurities and fears but sadly most men see them as goddess. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Bookhub: 1:39pm On Mar 23 |
Sonnobax15: Na lie bro it's all mindset and belief 1 Like 1 Share |
| Zonefree(m): 1:42pm On Mar 23 |
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The painful truth is, most beautiful Nigerian girls don't have sense. The more beautiful they are, the smaller the brain. I know most of Nigerians ladies are materialistic and incapable of loving so I avoid them and stay calm and patient till I get the less damaged ones who are open to love and I always get them. So, you think your beautiful girlfriend is less damaged?.  You're in for a long ride. Brace your heart. 12 Likes |
| muyico(m): 1:44pm On Mar 23 |
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Asking how dey go banny Ur gf bdat
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| CyrusVI(m): 1:59pm On Mar 23 |
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Na because you no get level For my street, dem no born anybody papa to ask me this kin question Me wey be say, even if you dey greet me, I go just dey look you like deaf and dumb, na me you wan dey ask mumu question? That you even react to such useless questions mean you're a kinda person that's easily accessible...U no get level 2 Likes |
| Bookhub: 2:08pm On Mar 23 |
CyrusVI: So that's your definition of level,being rude and arrogant? Sorry our personalities are different. 17 Likes 1 Share |
| AngelicDamsel(f): 2:20pm On Mar 23 |
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An average Nigerian is surprised to see beauty with brokeness. I once visited a friend in a local environ, the hailing and stare was almost embarrassing. Because he was broke, they do not expect to see anyone beautiful around him. Haba! 4 Likes |
| emoboy4u: 2:45pm On Mar 23 |
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"80% of Nigerian men are single.." Where una dae get all these statistics? Back to the topic, the same way girls will marvel at how reach their friend's boyfriend is, that's how we guys marvel at beauty. That's why it is said woman are beautiful and men are handsome..."hand" asin e get plenty money for hand. lol 4 Likes |
| honour7: 2:54pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: he has a point though, be less accessible to people, especially in your hood, let there be an element of mystery around you to avoid see finish. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Starz825(m): 3:08pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: God go bless you bro with that word "overrated" My girl get insecurities die...  .....to her, every other fine lady is prettier than her....i think this happens a lot to pretty looking ladies ...They kinda believe every other pretty looking lady is finer than them...Most pretty ladies No get confidence in their selves...they are not just enough....My girl fit show me one banny for IG ...say make i see...i go say u fine this girl...she go shout......heyyyyyyyyyyyy ..........say i dey whine her.......of which she could look way prettier than the lady in the picture. Infact some average looking ladies can be more confident sef than them... 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Bookhub: 3:38pm On Mar 23 |
Starz825: This is what most men dont know, women see themselves less attractive as you see them,this is because most beautiful women grow up the mentality that they are too fine to be dumped or cheated on by their boyfriend until one day he proves them wrong by cheating with a girl more finer than her or dump her ,her self esteem drops instantly after that bitter experience. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Bookhub: 3:42pm On Mar 23 |
emoboy4u: You can do the survey yourself,how many of your bachelor friends are in a relationship at the moment?I can bet you the ration 2/10 1 Like |
| AllBlack: 3:51pm On Mar 23 |
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my wife fine like a black latino babe with amazing skin and wonderful behaviour but I no send am with her beauty. She seff dey naturally humble and kind and I love to spoil her but still no send her papa. On the other hand, you will see men that can't rest if they don't set their eyes on their fine babe/wife for 20 mins. They will call & call and even start driving around town looking for wetin no lost. If she pulls her hair back and puts hand on her waist, the man will kneel down and beg even in public. 2 Likes |
| DeeScan: 5:18pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: . Lmao .. Are fine girls aliens before .. 😂😂😂😂 Most times if you as a guy do not have good looks, most people find it odd for you to be with a beautiful girl and it's not about being broke but if you happen to be broke and not good looking, people are always stunned and shocked as to how you got a girl like that then question like twice that pops up .. But if you broke but you be fine boy normal, people go reason say, normal, na because you fine na why she dey with you... 4 Likes |
| DeeScan: 5:21pm On Mar 23 |
AngelicDamsel:being broke might raise question like that but it's mostly about not being good looking for the guy .. The stare then would be extraordinary .. You could even be hearing murmurs about you two .. |
| specialmati(m): 6:21pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: na you get time they reason what agent of bitterness thinks about your business
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| PantShifter(m): 6:45pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: Why do you have a pretty girlfriend if you're broke? If she crosses my path I will fûck her |
| Wimkeh(m): 7:39pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: 80% of Nigeria girls are being banged by 20% of guys in Nigeria. The remaining 80% guys are sex and love starved. 1 Like |
| MrCork: 8:00pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: 
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| MrCork: 8:01pm On Mar 23 |
Bookhub: Is yor girlfriend lightskin?
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| dkidd: 11:20pm On Mar 23 |
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Me wondering the essence of this thread fgs!
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| StillDtruth: 7:03am On Mar 24 |
honour7: Story! It does not work. It is a case of "how dare you have a beautiful girlfriend?" |
| TheBreastSucker(m): 7:03am On Mar 24 |
AngelicDamsel: Make this kind babe I dry like suck their breasts
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| StillDtruth: 7:10am On Mar 24 |
Bookhub: You are wasting your time explaining to these fornicators Your problem is that you do not know what you are doing and that what you are doing affects those who are not doing what you are doing,. You have not seen anything yet just marry her it is then you would know that your family are pagans and that from your father to your brothers and uncles and cousins every dick wants her in her bed. And now you would real eyes that the people around you are looking at you like you are stupid and that you do not know why it is bad to have a beautiful girlfriend? so, they want to show you. |
| StillDtruth: 7:28am On Mar 24 |
specialmati: E suppose reason am oo. If not dem go chop am and hin go shock transformer |
| 2cribz: 9:25am On Mar 24 |
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Student face yur books Idio t |
| FitCorper: 10:06am On Mar 24 |
Bookhub:God bless u bro. That nigga sabi cap vertixes. 1 Like |
| Cousin9999: 6:26pm On Mar 24 |
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1. Beauty is subjective. However, a lot of people are...not well. That's why they'll swear a bleach monster or white woman is sexy. 2. Some people lack confidence and sense, so they care a lot about the opinion of random strangers and dingbats. 3. Regardless, you should still want a healthy partner that takes care of themself. Obesity and not grooming isn't healthy, for them or your relationship. But if they're broke, it's different. They'll just have to do what they can. 4. Don't let delustional people change how you move. You're making the right decisions. Be patient. When you get your money up, you'll have more options for who you're around. |
| Dogalmighty17: 9:43pm On Mar 24 |
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Because majority of Nigerian women are ugly. Let's not sugar coat nothing. So if there's a fairly beautiful woman, she tends to stand out.
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