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My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

😂

Normally eeh, I no dey like put mouth for husband and wife matter but I go bend the rules for this one time so that other bachelors go learn. Oga your wife dey tell stories!!!!!
Now let me ask you a question: did you meet her as a virgin or the door was wide open. A girl may be the public car of an area where guys ride fast or slow depending on their driving skills 😋, after getting tired of such lifestyle, she will decide to become celibate. Now she starts dressing decent and possibly start becoming active in a particular religion. One guy sees her and he's like "this babe is so so decent, she looks like someone who will make a good wife". The man goes close to her and she comes with tough conditions, making the man feel she's extremely decent. They tell you that "no sex before marriage". They may give you the kpekus just once, so you get a taste of it and make it seem like they just broke their rules because they love you
Bros na lie oooooooo, no fall for those scam atall. If only you know what her kpekus had gone through during her olosho phase, you go shake head. Forget the tightness of a kpekus, it's not a guarantee that she's decent. The only way she can prove that's she wasn't like the picture I painted about is if she's a virgin. But aside that, bros forget it. Most of una dey pay for the sins of una wife's, girlfriend's and fiancee's ex. A girl can be having sex like 10 times weekly in a relationship and when the relationship breaks, she will say "no man will use me like my ex did anymore". The new guy comes and he go dey think say his babe is super decent, not knowing say he's just paying for the sins of the fathers .
E go shock you say this your woman wey dey deprive you of kiss dey give her ex BJ
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

TemplarLandry:
😂

I know why you laff🤣

Is she a microbiologist?

It will shock the shocker out of you by the time you get to know she's a porn start.

ItisWell22:
Is she a microbiologist?

She is a lab scientist but said is just a phobia, she doesn’t allow kissing, no BJ, sex is only done under the cover darkness. I no understand the whole thing.

She doesn't you find you physically or sexually attractive.

Roarke:
She doesn't you find you physically or sexually attractive.

Ab, can you explain more because I am tall and many women find me attractive.

Odingo1:
My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

Na Mumu wife you married (no offensé), how about the body fluid you guys exchange during intercourse.

Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

Phobia of bacteria indeed
Na the same fear of bacteria make her dey fear doggy-style and BJ too?

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

Your own wife o!
Maybe she was sexually abused, confide in her...or maybe she just no like dey fvck you. You sure say you sabi lash well? Try give her better lashing wey go make her legs dey vibrate.

Mumu divorce that bastard, stupid SIMP

Odingo1:

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

she told you for three months but you were just too dull to get the message.

Odingo1:

She is a lab scientist but said is just a phobia, she doesn’t allow kissing, no BJ, sex is only done under the cover darkness. I no understand the whole thing.

and u didn't notice all these traits during una courtship and before marriage?........

Cock n bull stories. You contradict yourself in ur write up and follow up comments.

dynicks:
and u didn't notice all these traits during una courtship and before marriage?........

Thought is because we are not yet married which she use to say that sex is for the married.

TUANKU:

Your own wife o!
Maybe she was sexually abused, confide in her...or maybe she just no like dey fvck you. You sure say you sabi lash well? Try give her better lashing wey go make her legs dey vibrate.

She no Dey gree dey for mood only in the night that I don’t see anything. If I on blue light she lock up

Odingo1:

She no Dey gree dey for mood only in the night that I don’t see anything. If I on blue light she lock up

Confide in her, maybe something happened in her past.

AllBlack:


she told you for three months but you were just too dull to get the message.

How will I know since she always talk about church issue thought she was doing that because of I am not married to her. But she should have told me clearly that she don’t do kissing, don’t give BJ or allow head,don’t allow change of styles like giving doggy and do sex only in darkness.

Her job is impacting her sexual life.

If her lab job involves testing patients samples then, she knows what she is talking about when she says exchange of bacteria will occur.

You have to work on her mind now as you can't make her quit her job. If you can't make her change her mind, be ready for dead bed and such a wife won't even care if you go out to cheat.

TUANKU:

Confide in her, maybe something happened in her past.

I have ask her, she said she is not a sex freak. That one of her ex boyfriend ask her that this one she is married hope she will be kissing the husband.

A305:
Her job is impacting her sexual life.

If her lab job involves testing patients samples then, she knows what she is talking about when she says exchange of bacteria will occur.

You have to work on her mind now as you can't make her quit her job. If you can't make her change her mind, be ready for dead bed and such a wife won't even care if you go out to cheat.

She is testing samples but she said she developed the phobia before she even graduated a lab scientist. Other non activity in bed she will say she is not a sex freak. But she itted that she use to have sex with ex’s that their prick will just stand and they shook prick on her and do and release.

Odingo1:

How will I know since she always talk about church issue thought she was doing that because of I am not married to her. But she should have told me clearly that she don’t do kissing, don’t give BJ or allow head,don’t allow change of styles like giving doggy and do sex only in darkness.

I repeat. SHE TOLD YOU for three months but you refused to see the writing on the wall.

Okay you were waiting for her to say something like this.
ANNOUNCEMENT :
HERE IS A LIST OF ALL THE THINGS I DON'T DO
1. I DO NOT KISS
2. I DO NOT ALLOW PENIS TO ENTER MY MOUTH
3. I DON'T ROLL OVER OR BEND OVER, JUST CLASSIC MISSIONARY STYLE ONLY.

was that what you were waiting for? good luck.

Your marriage is still young and she is the shy type give her time to be free with you

I don't know what to say on this topic. Am not a sex freak. I only do sex for procreation!

I have many things to do which can substitute sex. Swimming is one of dem.

Odingo1:

She is testing samples but she said she developed the phobia before she even graduated a lab scientist. Other non activity in bed she will say she is not a sex freak. But she itted that she use to have sex with ex’s that their prick will just stand and they shook prick on her and do and release.

She's truly not a sex person but on the other hand, you should have figured this out before marriage. You two dating timeframe (3 months) was too short to figure each other's compatibility and mismatch.

Sex greases the friction in marriage and if she can't fulfill that aspect with you, the friction will always be felt even if every other areas of your life is thriving.

You are married to her, that's done, Now be apprehensive towards the issue and press the issue hard with her. Gentle and never raise your voice; Tell her, your marriage may fail if she isn't flexible to change.

Tell her you willing to learn her body with her by fore play to see what set off her mood.

If she declines all these approaches: Go harder with this: She has to find a compromise. Now make her understand you willing to only have sex with her when you two want to pro-create and aside that; she should turn a blind eye when you decide to go satisfy your urge with another willing female outside your marriage.

If she greenlight this idea. Tell her, the marriage should end and file for divorce immediately, you are young and you still have a long way to go in life, you can still get another woman because you can't be paying for what you have freely in the house, Your wife only agreed to get married to you because of her age or because of the financial security you can provide NOT because of affection she has for you.

Failure to take drastic actions now, you will live the rest of your life in regret or broken marriage.

She might even have other guys she's dying to kiss but denying you. Our girls need reorientation about kissing. I don't know the kind of mgbeke girls we're having nowadays! You can't claim to love someone without desiring to kiss them. Kissing is impulsive when you are with someone you truly love

If she truly Love you she would kiss you even without your permission anyday and anytime without phobiaring of anything 🤒

No pre-intimacy??😂😂
If una wun nack, like how e Dey start
I Dey curious gan

Love800:
I don't know what to say on this topic. Am not a sex freak. I only do sex for procreation!

I have many things to do which can substitute sex. Swimming is one of dem.

You shouldnt have sex at all...procreation ko, pocreation ni, that you are not a sex freak is ok ..but there is no rational human that dont love sex except you dont have sexual hormones such as testoterone or oestrogen.

Even animals do enjoy sex...so if you dont is either you are not getting the required quality from your partner or you have health issues.

Lastly swimming can never and will never be a substitute for sex weather direct or indirect so stop deluding/decieving yourself seek help.