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annolomy(m): 11:02pm On Feb 20
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?

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atoliman: 11:07pm On Feb 20
then wake up and stop dulling yourself- go and find another girl who will not bill you. There are many girls out there, why focus on one that you are not even sure that she like you

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budaatum: 11:11pm On Feb 20
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me.

She loves you before you give her money, and then stops loving you once you've given her money and she's received it?

Now that's simple. If you want her to keep loving you, just stop given her money, since from the above you sound like you are paying her to not love you. But if you want her to keep not loving you, just keep making sure she receives money from you.

Those other questions you asked are above my pay grade, but to be honest with you, a relationship where you have to decide to buy or not buy love is not exactly solid, I would have thought.

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Carndidlaydid(f): 12:26am On Feb 21
Threads like this makes me wanna puke

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fadal(m): 1:54am On Feb 21
U a foolish loc

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MaziObinnaokija: 2:04am On Feb 21
sad Leave her ALONE and regain yo SANITY/EXPERIRNCE PEACE OF MIND

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imagrg(m): 6:12am On Feb 21
Stop fooling around with a Community Girl. If she doesn't love you, she can't love you. Pay only for your fvcking session with her and stop treating her like a girlfriend.
Your can buy her a big "Happy Birthday To You" card and a bottle of cheap wine to test her loyalty.
Dem nor dey buy birthday gift for ashawo. Be Wise!
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?

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Goodmarlian: 7:08am On Feb 21
Nigerian guys are the most love starved men in the world hence they have become desperate,why are you desperate to be loved,Nigerian women don't love,once a collects money from you all the time she doesn't love you.

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isan(m): 8:27am On Feb 21
You need find a way to Bleep her at least once the you'll will be the one controlling the relationship

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Lanmonfishery(m): 9:21am On Feb 21
What a SIMPle man

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Jesuspistol(m): 10:37am On Feb 21
Stop being afraid and stop winning her heart by giving her money and gifts at least for a moment. I'm sure her real person will surface

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EmperorIsaac(m): 12:20pm On Feb 21
So, would it take us to beg her to love you?

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Memberclub(m): 1:22pm On Feb 21
You are suppose to find another girl not ask us questions

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mecuries(m): 1:45pm On Feb 21
"Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?".. The best gift to get her is moving on. For your own peace of mind and hers

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Exceed15: 1:46pm On Feb 21
Grade 1 simp. . Continue

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Greenlandz: 1:48pm On Feb 21
Give her money!Give her more money! Infact give her more and more money please!

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duduade(m): 2:17pm On Feb 21
If at this stage and time you don't know what to do
Then I am sorry
Our gender has lost one man


Mayday mayday

One man down

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chopnaira: 3:20pm On Feb 21
Go and make money oga. When you have money, multiple girls will love you.

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NaijaGoBetter2(m): 3:20pm On Feb 21
Between you and Nairalander who do you think is in best position to make decision on your relationship.
Your is relationship is yours make a wise decision
CrownedPhoenix: 3:20pm On Feb 21
On one lip, she doesn't love you. On the other, what gift should you buy for her?

You're a contradiction.

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phr0nesis(m): 3:21pm On Feb 21
Just make sure you power the relationship with money and gifts.

When she double-dates - Pump in money

When she provokes you - slap her with money

Whenever you doubt her love for you - make sure you buy her something expensive, you'll regain her love.
You don't have to wait for her birthday to buy her gifts, buy buy and buy everyday.

You will learn eventually

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Father4all: 3:21pm On Feb 21
You can't force someone to LOVE you

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TechCapon(m): 3:22pm On Feb 21
What kind of broad daylight simping is this Jesus?
God forbid. I'll curse any son of mine with this kind of weakness and simps around after girls like a fool. Spit on your head angry

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DiasGodinHeaven: 3:22pm On Feb 21
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?


Kill yourself immediately

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SmartPolician: 3:22pm On Feb 21
Don't bother testing her loyalty because she will fail. Men are loved for what they can offer.

The day society realises you have nothing to offer, nobody cares about you anymore. That's why every man is encouraged to work hard.

As for the ladies, that would've been the case, except that every day can offer that thing in-between her thighs by default.

To answer your question, just stop giving her stuff and see her reaction. That's the only test you can put her through and she's likely going to fail.

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Factcheck0001: 3:22pm On Feb 21
For u to come out openly n say this, it means u have seen things that have make u doubt her loyalty n love.

I will implore to leave her for your sanity

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FreeSpirited: 3:22pm On Feb 21
Break up before she deal with your simpy ass.
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Someone doesn't love you, and u still one waste money on top her head.....
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If u like buy car for her, u are just pouring water in a basket...
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joromii: 3:22pm On Feb 21
Lol. You people are still doing relationship? Anyway. How do you know she doesn't love you. Does she behave in a kinda way. You didn't drop enough details for us Nairaland in-laws to work with

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Finename(m): 3:23pm On Feb 21
Cease giving Ego kudi. grin


annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?

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SmartyPants(m): 3:23pm On Feb 21
So many idiots all around.

My advice is that you should give her all your money asap because foolish people shouldn't have any money at all.










But then is one of Seun's fake engagement seeking topics isn't it? Rubbish.

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CoronaVirusPro: 3:23pm On Feb 21
Get a loan and buy her a Range Rover.

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israelmao(m): 3:23pm On Feb 21
Love isn't by force it is by choice.If a woman doesn't love a man there's nothing that man can do that will make her love him if you like splash your entire life savings on her she will not still not love you.

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