NewStats: 3,259,422 , 8,170,048 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 10:25 PM 395n1m

What's wrong with Zulus?

mysticwarrior:
As long as he is not a Zulu I don't have any problem with that.

This one is wise he catch a ripe fruit before it fell on the floor and rotten.
May God bless there union🙌🙏

They are known by who?

omoharry:
Nigerian girl married to a SA man! This is very strange. SA men are known to be lazy, bitter, irresponsible and unkind to their own women . Well,I wish her all the best . I would rather be with any other African man than a xenophobic south African .

Typing:



The same way we will rule all Yoruba people in Ilorin forever and there is nothing any Yoruba man can do about it



By the time we finally enforce Sharia law in Yoruba land. We will install our brothers from North to serve as Emirs in every Yoruba City


As for your incompetent Tinubu. The North made him President and the same North can kick him out in 2027

aboki malu creating his own happiness

If you don't praise your self, who will?

We shall see in 2027.. tinubu till 2031, or be ready to have your backward arewa republic

The Guy is cute sha

Samantha125:
Nope, her parents are living in Nigeria and only visit SA every now and then.

what is their Instagram (name)?so I can check them up.

I don't know, I just came across their YouTube channel this week and they only stated their names without including their surname.

ultraviolet27:


what is their Instagram (name)?so I can check them up.

Most Nigerian men are hypocrites. They spend on foreigners and treat native ladies with less attention. Charity should begin from home.

Shattuck:
Nigerian men are known to be big spenders by women from around africa, in contrast south Africa is the unofficial capital of Rape and femicide are you ready for that, lol

janeedema:
Most Nigerian men are hypocrites. They spend on foreigners and treat native ladies with less attention. Charity should begin from home.

Yeah .. Nigerian men are always the faulty one ..

When they spend big on you , what do they get in return ??

What you got to offer??

😏😏

Well, it would make no diference to her. The same fate awaited her if she had married a Nigerian. Nigerian men are only generous to foreigners because of what they want from them.

Afolue:
left for me there is nothing special about these combos here. Nigerian men are by far better off. She even know it. She is a good girl anyway, for opting this kinda of choice. The babe go miss us no be small. She has gone for a lesser grade as far as Am concerned. SA girls be chasing Nigerian guys, are they now the fools?

Funny enough, SA economy is good, but the generosity of Nigerian guys is 100x beneficial to an average SA girl that her country and it economy combined. Fact!

That Nigerian girl will keep on working for her money with little or no significant from her SA man. Stingy fellows who have nothing but bad belle for those who flex in large. On real doings..! No level…

Silentgroper:
your answer has an aura of deceit ... I can smell it from a mile away..

I go lie for you?

1Sharon:


I go lie for you?

omoh I no trust you oo

janeedema:
Well, it would make no diference to her. The same fate awaited her if she had married a Nigerian. Nigerian men are only generous to foreigners because of what they want from them.

I don’t know if you’re a Nigerian babe or SA babe, but your reason /comparison is not justifiable at all. If you have a wealthy Nigerian husband and you the lady (his wife) does not come from a wealth to do family as such, confirm it that not only you but also your family will live in comfort. Take it or leave it, Nigerian men are generous. Money dey shark dem, they spend. They involve in doings… flex in large! The (wealthy) man can build a house for his wife’s parents (his in-laws) buy cars for his wife as well. Set up a standard business on his wife’s behalf for her to be in control of. You dey whine.!

Nigerian girls don’t appreciate their men (Nigerian men), they often feel a sense of entitlement. And a sense of, could as well hav others who are capable to doing more for her. Most of them end up at the loosing end.

SA girls, Kenya girls & likes are not fools for itting publicly online. And It is true! Aside for the papers. We are loving, especially to beautiful Ladies of choice and spec!

A Nigerian man’s mother will be selling pepper and tomatoes in the market place but his wife is driving the kids to school in a Range Rover and the likes….

Haven’t you seen a Nigerian man buy a latest automobile for his wife as push gift alone?.

Which SA guy will try such “is he mad” .

janeedema:
Most Nigerian men are hypocrites. They spend on foreigners and treat native ladies with less attention. Charity should begin from home.

of course it should begin from home, but defense they claim foreign ladies are more appreciative of these gestures while native ladies are more entitled.

It's not rare to see SA/Nigerian marriages.
My former boss's neighbors were a South African man with a Nigerian wife.
My present boss's wife is a South African. She's very fluent in Yoruba language.

My former boss, though white, is married to a Nigerian Igbo lady. He understands Igbo.

PoloG:
you are right. Yoruba girls only marry Yoruba or white men. Other black men are inferior to them.

Why the Yoruba men only thru rush Igbo women

Afolue:
I don’t know if you’re a Nigerian babe or SA babe, but your reason /comparison is not justifiable at all. If you have a wealthy Nigerian husband and you the lady (his wife) does not come from a wealth to do family as such, confirm it that not only you but also your family will live in comfort. Take it or leave it, Nigerian men are generous. Money dey shark dem, they spend. They involve in doings… flex in large! The (wealthy) man can build a house for his wife’s parents (his in-laws) buy cars for his wife as well. Set up a standard business on his wife’s behalf for her to be in control of. You dey whine.!

Nigerian girls don’t appreciate their men (Nigerian men), they often feel a sense of entitlement. And a sense of, could as well hav others who are capable to doing more for her. Most of them end up at the loosing end.

SA girls, Kenya girls & likes are not fools for itting publicly online. And It is true! Aside for the papers. We are loving, especially to beautiful Ladies of choice and spec!

A Nigerian man’s mother will be selling pepper and tomatoes in the market place but his wife is driving the kids to school in a Range Rover and the likes….

Haven’t you seen a Nigerian man buy a latest automobile for his wife as push gift alone?.

Which SA guy will try such “is he mad” .

The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car .

There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.

SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra....it's not your entitlement, a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" ....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.

The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *

There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating theie chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do . Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste . Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world .

With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.

There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million . And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves . Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know . Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado . There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) .
And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ? . And there are reasons why your Nigerian wives give you the middle finger when you reach abroad ...they can take care of themselves now, what's the use of having you around in q country that empowers them?

And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids ...you even rent their love . A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.

And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde .

🙌

Samantha125:
Good day nairalanders, when I logged out of this forum a couple of days ago, I had no intentions of coming back online until later on in the year, I even deleted my nairaland app.

But when I came across this YouTube channel during the week, I had to wait until it's the weekend so that I can re my nairaland app since I didn't delete my nairaland , because this requires the options of the jollof nation... ... For me it's quite shocking because I've never came across a black SA guy who's not only dating a Nigerian lady, but married to one because it's quite rare seeing black SA guys dating foreign African ladies the same way it's rare seeing Nigerian ladies dating SA guys.

In my opinion, this guy has made history for not only black SA guys, but for Pedi guys because he's Pedi and not Zulu, so don't come for Zulus...😅😅😅... And I like the fact that he's been teaching her Sepedi and she understands the language, she probably speaks it as well.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neuFedb6DRU?si=zwF595JS2gPgLJVa


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYE6pUa0f8I?si=cIUUMxXS0X8M0iG0

This Nigerian girl doesn't look like ordinary Nigerian ladies, she doesn't even have Nigerian accent.

Maybe she grow up in South Africa.

Again this kind of a relationship is a rare to pedi nations.

BendedPrick:
On Kpiiii my bended prick, the very first of its name, I can swear that,

This Samanatha lady is the only sensible SAn I've come accross on this forum. At least she doesn't attempt the nonsense her countrymen do here.

Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe.
Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.

Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow of your pedis

zhike:


Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe.
Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.

Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedis

zhike:


Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe.
Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.

Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow pedi's

Lionessza6:







The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car .

There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.

SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra , a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" ....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.

The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *

There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating his chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do . Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste . Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world .

With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.

There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million . And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves . Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know . Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado . There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) .
And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ?

And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids ...you even rent their love . A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.

And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde .

🙌

Well said, I 100 percent agree with you

zhike:


Indeed Samantha is different from many South African and she is from pedi tribe.
Pedi tribe are well known with tribalism, is difficult to see a pedi person getting married to other tribes such as Zulus in South Africa.

Thank you for not following tribalism of your fellow of your pedis

I knew it .


She has stint of tribalism in her ..

I wonder she never mentioned it..


Xhosa happens to be the most liberal tribe of all I guess

Silentgroper:
for the xenophobic fvcks that wakes up to beer every morning..


Right, keep going that route .. your lots deserves that ..

You seem mad .

Atleast they wake up to beer but still beat you on all indices that matter ....you are always rated below them in everything but soccer . Imagine of they weren't waking up drunk every morning ...they'd colonized your lazy arses

EndBuhariNow:
Some people from kuvikiland will unalive themselves this evening 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Because of outliers ?


SA vs Nigerian marriages are the least popular in SA.

zhike:


Well said, I 100 percent agree with you

you sound like you don't, but you just gotta your own ..


You seem the calmest of all male South African nairalanders on the forum ..

Never have I seen you go crazy around here like the rest...

Federalis:
No go kill her ooo. E no dey hard una

Why don't you teach him how to kill her and sell her body parts as it's a norm over there ?

wiseoneking:
Why the Yoruba men only thru rush Igbo women

Yoruba/Igbo marriage is less than 1% . In a lot of Yoruba families, you dear not bring an omo igbo as a spouse.

Lionessza6:



You seem mad .

Atleast they wake up to beer but still beat you on all indices that matter ....you are always rated below them in everything but soccer . Imagine of they weren't waking up drunk every morning ...they'd colonized your lazy arses

Still best us on what ..


Hahahahaha, Even s south African man would never dare utter that statement...


Let me not start.. she said except from soccer ...

😁😁😁😁😁😁


Funny ..

omoharry:
Nigerian girl married to a SA man! This is very strange. SA men are known to be lazy, bitter, irresponsible and unkind to their own women . Well,I wish her all the best . I would rather be with any other African man than a xenophobic south African .

South African men go for natural and pretty women.....bleached queens like you wouldn't make the cut anyways ....you overrate yourself too much ,hardworking one living in extreme poverty and underdevelopment

Silentgroper:


Still best us on what ..


Hahahahaha, Even s south African man would never dare utter that statement...


Let me not start.. she said except from soccer ...

😁😁😁😁😁😁


Funny ..

LMAO


Look up

1. Education
2. Infrastructure
3. Health care system
4. Water & sanitation
5. Citizen welfare
6. Policing
7. Gdp per capita
8. Black dollar millionaires
9. Middle class
10. Organized soccer league
11. Highest paid blacks after USA etc.

Overall standard of living. Which is more important ....noise making online or the above?


But you also win on over- breeding .....so don't stress

highchief1:
it’s not likely to end well.we have lived in South Africa we know their story.

Relationships between SA females and Nigerian males never end well ....we all know why, no?. Nigerian men try to turn hoes into housewives and alway get burnt...simps of Africa