| ednut1(m): 7:53pm On Feb 10 |
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May we not raise wayward daughters 🤮
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| meobizy(f): 8:31pm On Feb 10 |
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Should I read? Bleep this. It will be one out of the many hundreds of similar stories posted here. I .
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| jocelynor: 8:34pm On Feb 10 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
If she tries to pin it on u, no wahala once d child is born tell her to pay for dna testing only then u will say yes I will take care of the kid.
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| BABANGBALI: 8:37pm On Feb 10 |
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Bad boy. You're a very wicked boy.
I need ur help. I am participating in a Bible quiz in church. The fish that swallow uncle Jonah, was it TITUS, KPANLA, CATFISH or KOTE fish?
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| zoghys: 8:39pm On Feb 10 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
You've a wise friend ,listen to him more
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| BABANGBALI: 8:40pm On Feb 10 |
meobizy:
Should I read? Bleep this. It will be one out of the many hundreds of similar stories posted here. I .
come. Let's do our own too
I need ur help. I am participating in a Bible quiz in church. The fish that swallow uncle Jonah, was it TITUS, KPANLA, CATFISH or KOTE fish?
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| Babangidapikin: 8:45pm On Feb 10 |
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It is complicated and same scenario,the only problem is at least she should be more educated to use protection, but after youth service they all want to settle down in their husbands house..I bet she offered you a free sex and told you to go raw.
Scenario 1 she could be pregnant before
Scenario 2 You could be the baby's Daddy
DNA is the only solution
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| Expensive2000(m): 8:45pm On Feb 10 |
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Bro you acted well, it's either she's never pregnant or she wants to give another man pregnancy to you.
Don't be deceived
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| adeniyi65(m): 8:47pm On Feb 10 |
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The girl intentionally didn't use the contraception because she planned it. It's either she wanted to have child now or she brought another person's pregnancy for you to sleep with her so that she can sell the pregnancy for you. It's what they do most. You can never tell if you are responsible for her pregnancy in this case.
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| Ishilove: 8:48pm On Feb 10 |
brain54:
Well, I don't think I am making excuses for her per say...
A baby is growing inside of her. It's unfair to think she isn't pressured. She isn't like the op who is here deciding whether to abandon the consequence of their bad decision. The consequences of their bad decision is growing inside of her. She can't abandon or run away from it.
It's also not fair enough to judgement based solely on what op has said. we have not heard her side of the story yet. It is only fair to try to balance our judgment by cutting her at least a small slack.
Lastly they have been together for 3 years and he didn't specify whether she has been this irrational in the past period. Or acted carelessly with her comments. So I take it its her first acting that way hence I attributed it to hormones. (By the way, women do act out of place in the presence of others including their bosses, sometimes people just don't pay attention to notice)
If she has acted irrationally in the past 3 years and it had been a constant behavior and he stuck with her till now only to abandon her now she is pregnant for being irrational then I think he is been the irrational one here.
Life is not always a straight line. That's why we must at least try to balance things... Especially life judgments!
^^
When a mature person who has seen life talks, it is always so obvious
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| hakeemhakeem(m): 8:49pm On Feb 10 |
James4358:
My wife can't even get pregnant... And I'm reading this. Chia... 'Inside Life'
Keep calm bro yours is coming soon I am playing you Fido joy is coming
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| Ishilove: 8:49pm On Feb 10 |
BABANGBALI:
Bad boy. You're a very wicked boy.
I need ur help. I am participating in a Bible quiz in church. The fish that swallow uncle Jonah, was it TITUS, KPANLA, CATFISH or KOTE fish?
It was Mangala
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| Okortor: 8:51pm On Feb 10 |
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Get her to terminate that bastard whether the pregnancy is urs or not! Such lady is desperate and intentionally kept the pregnancy to have not taken pills immediately else u raise a son or daughter that will never love you as a father. The choice is urs!!!!!!!
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| Temitunz(f): 8:52pm On Feb 10 |
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Abortion is a Sin!
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| abobote: 8:52pm On Feb 10 |
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That your friend is good friend. If you are capable, you can her and take care of the pregnancy. Then when the baby comes, you can confirm if it's yours.
Just to avoid some regrets in future
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| faithfull18(f): 8:52pm On Feb 10 |
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The marriage bed undefiled, the marriage bed undefiled.
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| Deepthoughts: 8:55pm On Feb 10 |
Lakebib:
I would say it's likely to be mine though I'm not certain, I feel a bit guilty because we've been together for 3 years but then her utterances and actions leaves much to be desired.
Guy I will suggest you do this,call the girl in question and give her this option,if she is very sure the pregnancy is yours then let her keep it but after delivery she must accept a DNA test to clear all doubts,if the DNA test returns positive for you ,you pay her #2m but from now till when is would be ready for the DNA test she is completely on her own.This doesn't mean you must marry her though,give her this option n start looking for money,her choice would give you your answer
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| boxypane: 8:56pm On Feb 10 |
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Run o... Run
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| OgideAgu: 8:59pm On Feb 10 |
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The truth is that no woman that is not stupid forgets to take her morning after pills.
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| royalamour(m): 9:00pm On Feb 10 |
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1. First off, go for STD tests.
2. I don't think the pregnancy is for you. She's a cheat and a manipulator.
3. Stand your ground until DNA proves otherwise.
4. Don't stress yourself over anything.
5. The fact you heard a guy's voice in the background and she refused to pick your calls shows that she's a vvh0re.
6. Don't fret over anything that is capable of taking your peace.
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| OBIDIENTNAIJA: 9:01pm On Feb 10 |
James4358:
My wife can't even get pregnant... And I'm reading this. Chia... 'Inside Life'
Oga check yourself medically. I mean full medical checkup for the both of you. So you know whose fault it's. Some sterile men do blame their wives for the crime they never committed.
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| NEUDUDE: 9:03pm On Feb 10 |
 guy man don marry okpo
James4358:
My wife can't even get pregnant... And I'm reading this. Chia... 'Inside Life'
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| OBIDIENTNAIJA: 9:03pm On Feb 10 |
SINisSIN:
Have you tried local ways?
You should be asking him to check his medical records to know whether he's capable of impregnating a woman. Which local ways are you talking about. Both he and his wife should do fertility test. A thorough one. Nawa for una oo
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| Uche559(m): 9:04pm On Feb 10 |
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U get mind lash corper serving in another state raw? ....
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| pocohantas(f): 9:06pm On Feb 10 |
ednut1:
May we not raise wayward daughters 🤮
Amin!
And sons too.
They are not scared of things greater than pregnancy. Just cross-knacking.
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| Johnn74: 9:07pm On Feb 10 |
meobizy:
Should I read? Bleep this. It will be one out of the many hundreds of similar stories posted here. I .
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| Tightpussy2024(f): 9:07pm On Feb 10 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
Obviously her character isn't worth it as a gf or wife. But fatherhood is non negotiable (if the baby is kept).
It is better to care for her and the unborn child for nine months while saving for DNA than to wa away only to realize the child is yours.
Such guilt never leaves.
It is better to feel betrayed when the DNA test comes out, than to feel guilty if you walk away then it's proven the child is yours.
Such guilt never leaves.
Alot of aged men and women are regretting children they abandoned
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| kennie2015(m): 9:08pm On Feb 10 |
brain54:
If it's confirmed it's your pregnancy...
Then I think it's not right to abandon her. You ought to be responsible for your actions. I can never advise anyone to abandon a woman carrying his baby. Even though I am sure you aren't ready to keep it.
To think she made that statement about pinning the pregnancy on any guy she sleeps with is quite chilling. It says a lot about the kind of person she is.
Who knows if she is trying to pin the pregnancy on you?
First you need to let go of the superman in you and the Ego, so that an idiot won't complicate your life. If get a pregnancy test done, then you can decide whatever step you want to take together
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| OBIDIENTNAIJA: 9:08pm On Feb 10 |
Gotocourt:
Early this year is January, which is last month. It's too early for bump to show, it's not your pregnancy. Forget the Werey girl
If she's pregnant, the pregnancy may have occurred last year November.
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| Rexymania(m): 9:10pm On Feb 10 |
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Imagine if you were the one in that stomach and your father is calling for an abortion, how will you feel?
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| Mercylike: 9:11pm On Feb 10 |
brain54:
Well, I don't think I am making excuses for her per say...
A baby is growing inside of her. It's unfair to think she isn't pressured. She isn't like the op who is here deciding whether to abandon the consequence of their bad decision. The consequences of their bad decision is growing inside of her. She can't abandon or run away from it.
It's also not fair enough to judgement based solely on what op has said. we have not heard her side of the story yet. It is only fair to try to balance our judgment by cutting her at least a small slack.
Lastly they have been together for 3 years and he didn't specify whether she has been this irrational in the past period. Or acted carelessly with her comments. So I take it its her first acting that way hence I attributed it to hormones. (By the way, women do act out of place in the presence of others including their bosses, sometimes people just don't pay attention to notice)
If she has acted irrationally in the past 3 years and it had been a constant behavior and he stuck with her till now only to abandon her now she is pregnant for being irrational then I think he is been the irrational one here.
Life is not always a straight line. That's why we must at least try to balance things... Especially life judgments!
You are actually a phoool...... Giving excuse for a lady sleeping with multiple guys and lying on hormones...
So it was hormone dt made her say she can sleep with any guy and pin the belle. On him without being stranded..
You be big phoool
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| prophetfire: 9:14pm On Feb 10 |
Lakebib:
I would say it's likely to be mine though I'm not certain, I feel a bit guilty because we've been together for 3 years but then her utterances and actions leaves much to be desired.
Leave her to sort out herself.
DON'T BE A SIMP!
However if she somehow carries the pregnancy and delivers and you become aware,go for DNA.
But from what she's saying, she sleeps around and if she's really pregnant, it could be anyone's pregnancy.
You have been sleeping with a public toilet.
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