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Genuine desire could come to an end. A woman could be crazy about you today, and in the next 2 years she doesn't see you as the man she needs. Genuine desire in the mud. With women, anything can happen. Well, if there's anything that I've benefited from the redpill, it is the need to be prepared for the worst at anytime

Loneliness can't be cured by marriage or old age. If you are never content with your own presence or love yourself, you'd be a burden to whoever and whatever. No matter how you sugarcoat it, you came alone into this world and you will go out the same. Learn to love yourself and be content with your own presence. As you age, death and illnesses take most of the people you grew up with and could include your wife and even some kids... But a man who isn't sick would always find something to do to keep his mind and body strong. What most people suffer from is not physical loneliness per se....it's the void in their hearts and souls that they can't fill, the emptiness of the spirit. This is why churches and religious houses help out with that.

I'm talking to you, yes you. That girl your heart is bonded with today, one day some guy will off her panty, take out his pennis and insert it into her vagina and fucckk her till he cums. And all this will happen while you're in love with her. You might find out one day or you might be unlucky not to know.

Men have been sacrificing for the collective (society) and women for ages. Why does it get a lot of guys angry (almost into moral panic) when a man decides to put his own needs first, especially when dealing with women? Just why? Men's self-hate is on another level.

Men being protectors and providers is what has brought us to this age and stage of civilization. The burden is instinctual. Men can default to an extent based on how much you harangue them, but because it is an instinct, they will fall back to it. You can't erase the effects of genes by environmental influences. Highest you can do is to redirect behaviors and strict laws. But genes will always find a way to express themselves and you should work with them to a reasonable course

Genuine desire means women are the choosy sex: they choose the men they want to mate with, thereby making it easy for men to reproduce with them. By the way, what do men want from women: sex? Other things that come with it are just additions.

Sex is a woman's highest investment in a relationship because it leads to a risky condition: pregnancy, which leads to a strenuous job: nurturing children. Men don't care about a woman's finance. Men date down, women date high.Or, roughly at the same level for both.

The woman that chooses you will make sexual intercourse with her easy, meaning that she is ready to bear the cost of pregnancy and other consequences as a result of her sexual relationship

If a woman cheats on you, and she understands you are aware she cheated, there's no going back to how sweet things were between you both. That relationship is spoilt, destroyed, broken, and should be thrown into the dustbins of history. There is no amount of redpill strategy that can make a bittch who cheated on you see you as a top man after forgiving her, except of course you replace her with a better woman. And even when you are with this better woman, you will feel no need to downgrade to being with her anymore.

If you are in the proper frame of mind as a man, especially after digesting all these teachings, you will realise something that hits you like an epiphany.

YOU DON'T NEED LOVE.

Respect on the other hand, now that is my bread and butter, my life force. It is on the basis of this respect, especially a respect for self, that men should strive to build their frame over the years. My pride, ego and self respect will always trump any yeye love or feelings and is a very useful check against any simping proclivities.

Skepticus:


The person you tagged is not poor nor average by Nigerian standards plus he is married. Life teaches us all.

I'm not a fan of permanently living with a woman and I have my own reasons for that from my personality to the unrealistic slavery standards set and the dangers lying in it for men in modern marriage. This is not to discourage others from marrying nor engaging with women in some form of permanent relationship. Just know what you are getting into and ways to minimize the risks.

The "hard" patriarchy (Full dominance of the husband or father-figure) which you advocate (I also observe same with young, idealistic red pill converts on this thread and other forum espousing this idea) is highly impracticable in the 21st century (where women rights and emancipation has swept the globe like wildfire from highly conservative societies to the liberal ones) unless you go to some pre-modern society to pick a woman who would wholly worship your feet. One that emmaodet is very aware of being married in this modern age.

DEMZEE, there is nothing beta about a woman contributing in marriage in this modern day. If you disagree, reality will teach you better. If you are meeting a woman in this age, you'll meet one with some form of education, or skill or even both. Where she lacks both, she probably has some exposure. Hard patriarchy was easy those days as survival was basic and at a subsistence level. Society was closed and women's hypergamy was highly restricted. There were consequences for a woman showing negative sides of her hypergamy, so she behaved herself and worshipped the man she was betrothed to.

Today, growing population of humans and economic unpredictability and other factors beyond the capacity of an individual is putting so much stress on men as sole provider. With women entering the work force on merit and feminist quotas, it gets even tougher for men. In reality, Only a very low percentage of men around the globe are able to wholly provide in life and in death. Men are increasingly getting their wives to bring in income to the family system. A man who don't have that much resources to be able to wholly provide as a hard patriarch in the modern day reality is only a "suffer-head slave" and the more he makes his woman not to "invest" in the relationship will make it easier for the woman to move on, enjoying her "loot" knowing that there is no law even in modern conservative society that will "punish" her for leaving her man (the liberal ones would even "celebrate" her for being a "strong independent woman who knows her right" ).

For me, it is okay for men who seek to marry (or permanently cohabit with women) to do that to take the physical and psychological pressure that comes with a diminishing hard patriarchy and masculine ego in light of social and economic realities but make sure that they work hard to contribute the highest share of provisioning and leading with their partners in tow. I was raised by a dominant father who had that kind of arrangement with my mum. If my mum had not contributed in a way, she could leave at anytime without consequences as she has no "investment" worthy of securing in her relationship with my dad.

The truth is that most women are whores without realizing it? There is no difference between whores in the street and wives like that. The only thing is that such women live with you in your home. You are making the same purchase if you deal with a street LovePeddler because you are buying her clothes, shoes, taking her out, etc (MONEY) which is what you are providing a prostitute but in a different context. That is why such women withhold sex from their husbands because they use it as leverage and to blackmail men. Those marriages will not last or even if they do, will not have substance. You see, those type of women are no different from street whores, they just have different 'packaging'

Women believe that marriage is an investment or insurance. That is why women get married and expect the men to run everything around the house for them. I guess it might be alright if she at least does housework but women or girls of today believe in getting help (househelp, maid etc) to run the house while their husbands fend for money and they go shopping, watch TV and gossip with their girlfriends. Now, what exactly do they offer to the family and the home apart from nagging, billing and financial problems etc? Sex. That's it. Now, what is to stop a man from making his money, remaining single and sleeping with random women or prostitutes etc?

Bateman's principle states that women are choosier due to greater parental investment. Being more choosy , women are overall less interested in any sexual . This, in turn, means men have fewer dating opportunities on average, so men more likely make compromises out of sexual frustration (principle of least interest ). This allows women substantial decision power in sexual matters, which they can exploit by strategically withholding sex.

Females have greater parental investment for a number of reasons.
¶ The production of eggs is more expensive than the production of sperm.
¶ By virtue of having a womb, reproducing is physically risky for women, especially due to the large human head.
¶ Sex is also riskier for women as the pocket shape of the vagina is more vulnerable to STDs .
¶ The offspring has higher dependence on the mother as the mother but not the father is guaranteed to be present at birth, and babies depend on women's breastmilk.
¶ Human offspring is also one of the most dependent offspring of all animals due to the complex socialization process and slow brain development that allows for higher intelligence.

An observation of the Hierarchy of Love shows that love flows downward. That is why a woman will be willing to die for her child than her husband. Ask a man to chose between his Wife or child and he will mostly choose his Wife when in a dilemma. This is vice versa for a woman. This is possibly because man is the disposable sex, men have been going to war for centuries leaving his wife and children. This is nature's way of making sure the man's offsprings live on.
Women are more self-centred than men are in matters of money and love. Man’s love is expected to be sacrificial in nature, woman’s isn’t.
Women love men opportunistically, men love women sacrificially.

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Facts

In the US, Black men are at the lowest rung of the ladder of sexual attraction. Forget the big dick nonsense that porn portrays about white women seeking black men.

Concise researches over the years have proven that women don't consider them attractive as men of other races as they don't do well for long term benefits like financial provision (on average, they earn less than other races) or fatherly presence (a high population of them end up in jails).

Men's problem is not money or whatever. It's women.men can make money well on their own. But it's sex, love and romance where men have headaches. Hence the Red Pill.

Don't get it twisted. The Red Pill is not some virtuous movement that will uplift society. If every man became redpill society will collapse in record speed. Red Pill is basically selfishness that preserves the man but that ultimately harms society. individual men will improve their lives by becoming red pill but if enough men become red pill society will go to shiit. No man will want to go to war to fight and die for country. No man will self sacrifice. Etc. The RedPill are shortcuts to life that benefit individuals but harm the collective. Just like gold digging. If enough women become gold diggers everything will collapse

It is called pre-selection and has strong roots in our evolution as humans. It is also noticeable in other animal species.

Having a woman or having women around you signals to the subconscious biological instinct of other females that you have superior genes. It could be aggression/violence, looks, social charm or bed game at base level. This attract these females to share in your genetic superiority.

For the modern day naïve male with none of these, money could do same but in the end, it only attract money-hungry sluts when the man has no red pill frame. The man is still at great disadvantage.

No matter how red pilled you are, you'll still periodically fall in love with women.
If you understand the body chemicals responsible for "Love", you'll realize that you can't/may not be able to help it. However, the difference between a blue-pilled man and a red-pilled man in love is that: the red-pilled man realizes that the things MEN IN LOVE do, are so stup.id that only MEN AT GUNPOINT should do --hence a red-pilled man is more aware of himself, and maintains his sanity when his body system releases the chemicals responsible for "Love." He knows it will ; so he takes a chilled bottle and continues observing life.

More like a red pilled man loves with his sense of reasoning still intact and functioning effectively but a blue pilled folk loves without his using his sense of reasoning.

As a rule, I disengage from girls that I find my self attracted to, I recognise the danger she poses and I choose not to be party to it.

Frolicking with a girl you are in "love" with is the fastest way to fall into simping. Sure you may be able to maintain frame, but you will only struggle to do so, and the chances of your emotions getting the best of you is very high.

The one who loves more in the relationship suffers more.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

A woman is truly in love with you when she has invested more into the delusion that both of you would be together forever. A girl that invests her money into a relationship, her time, emotions, committment and a lot of sexual fetishes will not leave you easily

Having money sometimes makes one very stupid enabling the person make costly and painful mistakes, having scarce resources makes you very prudent, calculative, cautious because you have a lot to loose, small mistep and you can become abjectly poor and start begging shamefully hence you manage well and wisely, now let's relate it to the redpill when you are broke you don't simp easily and love irrationally especially as a redpill aware man because you don't have the luxury, means and time, you are concentrated on surviving, but when money comes all your sexual fantasies, all your repressed feelings for women, all your sexual frustrations can now be satisfied hence abundance even if it's from women who don't love you and are using you just for security, you don't care, your ego takes charge and replace the logic that kept you wise when you are broke, you overhype yourself thinking you are alpha and can fully command the attention of any woman, you can simp easily, during brokenness it was cheap prostitutes and porn maybe managing that ugly/ average girlfriend but now you have means which naturally attract women in third world survival driven countries, you open your heart to any woman even the most ruthless, cold-hearted gold digger just because you can afford her

Sometimes your body hormones makes you crave for sex or intimacy badly, sometimes loose focus and simp stupidly making mistakes when dealing with women even with redpill awareness

As her body counts increases; the lesser her ability to pair bond with her husband or desired partner. You can't find faithfulness in a woman that dated and had several partners in the past.

You will have to compete and outwit every simulacrum of her past partners before you can be able to tame her and the probability you can be able to carryout this task as her partner is equal to zilch.

the Red Pill is too vast, too wide, and too deep to present in a single post

Don’t ever build her ego. Ladies are more egoistical now than past generations because they receive excess validations on social media and real life, don’t be among those bluepilled guys stroking her ego

(1) Women don't and can't love you. They are only attracted to what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
(2) Women see men as expendable utilities (it could be for money, sex, attention and ego boost, etc). An expendable utility serves and makes sacrifices for the women, it doesn't happen the other way round.

Women love men the way we love phones. If you can afford a better phone, you trade up no matter what the previous phone have done for you. Having a phone doesn't stop you from having other phones or checking out other phones if the opportunity presents itself, and you do such without remorse. It's the same way with women

Nothing builds resentment and disrespect to a husband greater than when his wife brings home the bacon (ie. when she is the breadwinner). The resentment and disrespect will come from the wife"