NewStats: 3,261,361 , 8,173,785 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 12:43 AM 1s3d3c

nedekid:

I thought of that too, why not relocate to naija and start a new life? Well guess he was probably born in the US and may not know the Nigerian terrain. Also the US justice system may declare him wanted since failure to pay child is a jailable crime. The 15k will just be accumulating, waiting for him. They could even issue interpol warrant. The Dr probably has hundreds of thousands in student loan debt now ed with 15k monthly igbese, his mortgage on his house his wife will collect yet he will still be paying, the cars nko, the monthly payment, all these with his loosing his licence to practice. Hmm, wahala..

I bet you, once he escapes to Nigeria, no interpol can arrest him. I can assure you that. He was probably scared of returning to Nigeria because of how Nigeria is being painted on Social Media.

He has a good profession and from Anambra. In future he might even be ed to establish an hospital. It is very painful. If he had come home for Detty December he would have still been alive because he would have gotten a girlfriend whose thought would have reduced depression from his divorce scenarios.

I believe some Nigerians in US secretly undergoing similar situation should be thinking of coming home especially now that Trump is in power.

koladata:
It's actually not about the judge; it's about the template and how the country is structured. You can't hide your income unless you are a businessman or a musician and can declare some kind of bankruptcy. There's a template to follow when there's a divorce, and there's a sharing formula that mostly favors women. It is working for them because, in most cases, men won't take care of the children just to spite the woman, and that's how you raise uneducated children and Boko Haram

But why can't he just leave USA and go to another country to start a new life. I just feel there are several options instead of suicide. I know America is a good country but there are cases you just have to run for your life.

We get it that is their system but another judge might not be that harsh, there is no actual formula or template like you insinuate. It is mostly the discretion of the judges

Decidetolive:
Too bad. Have made it clear to my wife that I can only take them to west for vacation but relocation ? Never

I’m here with my wife in Europe, if she messes up, I will leave her here and move to Australia. I will start a new life with another younger bittch. If she too messes up, I will leave there and move to Dubai, the Arabs will not give the world to a woman, you can be sure of that

hosemujica:


He was probably born and raised there so he felt he had no option.

SSpeter:
To be a cardiologist at that age, he was definitely born in the US

Also, Erinne, who recently got his Doctor of Medicine from the Morehouse School of Medicine in Atlanta, Georgia, United States was said to have made Nigeria proud by his outstanding performance.

According to a statement, the old boy of Navy Secondary School, Port Harcourt, Rivers State and alumni of Portland State University, Portland, Oregon, U.S.A., at his graduation ceremony, got highly revered awards in Pathophysiology; First Year M.D Curriculum; Alpha Omega Alpha Honor; M.D Graduate Award Magna Cum Laude; Pharmacology; and Medical Microbiology.

Erinne, who has since commenced his six-year residency and fellowship programme in internal medicine and cardiology at the University of Maryland, Baltimore, U.S.A, hails from Ikija in Anambra State.

https://guardian.ng/news/nigerias-olasunkanmi-erinne-shine-in-uk-u-s-varsities/

Here is the picture of the the Man.
RIP.

owobokiri:
Stop marrying these wayward gals that have been totally traumatised during their run gal days. Avoid them. They have damaged themselves beyond repair and are nothing but walking disasters. The ex is somewhere having fun. Jezebel has moved on and will never feel any pain over this. Men! Save yourselves!!!

Look for cultures that are still traditional and marry from there. Whether in Africa or Asia oo. Marry her and treat her nice. But you see most of these "money for hand back for ground" girls you guys pick off the streets once you visit home, they are wild hyenas. You can't domestic a wild hyena.. Loyalty is not the strongest point..

Some of them have repackaged themselves and are now Choir and fake prayer warriors in different Churches

Just leave her and come back to Nigeria to practice. Make she chop dust.

I have a friend who became a Consultant Family Medicine practitioner at a Federal Teaching Hospital in the S/W of Nigeria.

He also became the HOD of Family Medicine, he was aged 31years here in Nigeria.

SSpeter:
To be a cardiologist at that age, he was definitely born in the US

drstranged:

https://punchng.com/us-based-nigerian-doctor-allegedly-kills-self-over-15000-child-/

na only crase person Dey do family matter with western women.i don’t have rip to waste on him.we go abroad we see the system we come naija come marry.we no be goat na.

koladata:
It's actually not about the judge; it's about the template and how the country is structured. You can't hide your income unless you are a businessman or a musician and can declare some kind of bankruptcy. There's a template to follow when there's a divorce, and there's a sharing formula that mostly favors women. It is working for them because, in most cases, men won't take care of the children just to spite the woman, and that's how you raise uneducated children and Boko Haram

But why can't he just leave USA and go to another country to start a new life. I just feel there are several options instead of suicide. I know America is a good country but there are cases you just have to run for your life.

But the children are also his own nau!

The report did not say the licence was restored after the judgement. Where will he work? They just want to drain his savings and get him frustrated roaming the streets like a mad man. What a pity

quote author=helinues post=133969885]
How much is the guy earning? Or you think the judge would be insensitive before making the decision [/quote]

DiasGodinHeaven:


He can never rest in peace. He is a disgrace to Men and Igboland.
We have warned Nigerians if you must travel, don't travel with your wife for your sanity and health but they refused and call us all sorts of derogatory names.
Another person will fall victim today and tomorrow they will not learn.
I hope Trump will address this issues

Where in this story did they say he traveled with his wife from Nigeria?

He could have met her there in the US and married her, so what are you saying?

Looking4Trouble:


Some of them have repackaged themselves and her now Choir and fake prayer warriors in different Churches

Odi egwu ooo
Na like this person go just carry him leg go marry gal wey don stay 6 years for hotel with over 500 body counts!
Egwu adigo ooo

Looking4Trouble:


Some of them have repackaged themselves and her now Choir and fake prayer warriors in different Churches

You are right ooh. I know one that is now a spiritual seer in her church

DonEd:
Now that the man is gone, let's see how she does the magic. She can now have all the kids and the $15k dollars.

Women sha

In as much as I do not suicide, the way women in Europe and America treat their husbands calls for caution and review. The laws are skewed in favour of women. Very unfortunate incidents.

Now that the young guy had taken his life, how does she intend to get the monthly of $15k?

May God forgive the soul of the deceased 😭😭😭 even though I don't his decision.

To me, going to jail for inability to pay or run back to Nigeria would have been a better and cheaper options. At least the children would one day look for him.

Can nairalanders help us on this forum with the pictures of the wife who got the Child ?

aieromon:




https://guardian.ng/news/nigerias-olasunkanmi-erinne-shine-in-uk-u-s-varsities/

Looking4Trouble:


I’m here with my wife in Europe, if she messes up, I will leave her here and move to Australia. I will start a new life with another younger bittch. If she too messes up, I will leave there and move to Dubai, the Arabs will not give the world to a woman, you can be sure of that

each time you leave to another place, you are starting afresh

Abagworo:
Trump needs to look into marriage law in America and make things very difficult for divorced women. Many women are now using marriage as business for easy financial settlement

men are in love, women are in business that modern day Marriage. Only fxxls get married nowadays, the secret have been uncovered.

helinues:


Rule 2

I'm sure that you have their names stored on your keyboard already, na just copy and paste u dey do anytime you want to report someone . Coward!

MasterJayJay:
The judge and the exwife can now go into the grave and get the monthly 15k dollars.

You guys aren't being logical. This is what Chimamanda Adichie calls a single story. A doctor's license was withdrawn and he was asked to pay $15k per month. Where is he supposed to get the money from when his license has been withdrawn?

There's more to this story. The funny thing about these kinds of stories is that we don't hear from the ladies' end. For a doctor's license to be withdrawn, slammed $15k and denied access to his children, that doctor must have done something terrible.

Lanruze:
Can nairalanders help us on this forum with the pictures of the wife who got the Child ?

I searched but couldn't find it. I know that we have gurus on NL that can find that info. Guys we are counting on you gurus

Ikenna why? Why didn't you just return to Nigeria and let the gold digger of a wife suffer alone in raising the kids in the IPOBs saner clime

SmartPolician:


You guys aren't been logical. This is what Chimamanda Adichie calls a single story. A doctor's license was withdrawn and he was asked to pay $15k per month. Where is he supposed to get the money from when his license has been withdrawn? There's more to this story. The funny thing about these kinds of stories is that we don't hear from the ladies' end. For a doctor's license to be withdrawn, that doctor must have done something terrible.

I am not saying you are wrong. Have you also considered that the stress of divorce may have impacted his work negatively,hence, contributed to the lost of his license?

drstranged:

https://punchng.com/us-based-nigerian-doctor-allegedly-kills-self-over-15000-child-/

That judge must have been high or something. How do you make a man pay $15,000 child when he has no job?

May Dr Ikenna RIP.

Na wa O, so he killed himself , what of the wife picture

Royalexquisuite:
Here is the picture of the the Man.
RIP.

He was depressed,to lose family and work is highly depressing,he should have just come back home

Okoroawusa:
This man died a fool. He gave up on life too cowardly. This is nothing like "a worst-case scenario". Nothing you can come out of. He is even educated and a doctor.
You are a Nigerian right? America took your license right? Fvck that! Come back to Nigeria and start again. At 35 many people are still dilly-dallying on what to do with their lives but you have yours sorted out already.

I am very glad my divorce case was in Nigeria. No carry woman go obodo oyibo especially America una no dey hear.

SpaceX:
men are in love, women are in business that modern day Marriage. Only fxxls get married nowadays, the secret have been uncovered.

You don't have to be a fool to get married nowadays, there's prenaup agreement in countries where women have been made to see divorce as cash out means. Don't insult us who got married because I'm not at disadvantage beyond the traditional practice of providing for the family

FuckYeyeMods:
I can only take my present wife to relocate abroad if only I just want to help the family take their daughter abroad to them in due time..
Because I know say, after getting there she will be worst than devil.
From Airport self, she go change em for me.. not because I have ever treated her badly but but...
My choice, my conscience...

You are wise man, my brother.

The man must be a really emotional being.

Rip

owobokiri:
Stop marrying these wayward gals that have been totally traumatised during their run gal days. Avoid them. They have damaged themselves beyond repair and are nothing but walking disasters. The ex is somewhere having fun. Jezebel has moved on and will never feel any pain over this. Men! Save yourselves!!!

Look for cultures that are still traditional and marry from there. Whether in Africa or Asia oo. Marry her and treat her nice. But you see most of these "money for hand back for ground" girls you guys pick off the streets once you visit home, they are wild hyenas. You can't domestic a wild hyena.. Loyalty is not the strongest point..

You're wrong oh, the ex will also be in pain now. Imagine someone that's already celebrating of getting free 15k dols monthly now wake up the next morning to hear that the source of that money is dead.

nedekid:

I thought of that too, why not relocate to naija and start a new life? Well guess he was probably born in the US and may not know the Nigerian terrain. Also the US justice system may declare him wanted since failure to pay child is a jailable crime. The 15k will just be accumulating, waiting for him. They could even issue interpol warrant. The Dr probably has hundreds of thousands in student loan debt now ed with 15k monthly igbese, his mortgage on his house his wife will collect yet he will still be paying, the cars nko, the monthly payment, all these with his loosing his licence to practice. Hmm, wahala..

professorPABX:


I bet you, once he escapes to Nigeria, no interpol can arrest him. I can assure you that. He was probably scared of returning to Nigeria because of how Nigeria is being painted on Social Media.

He has a good profession and from Anambra. In future he might even be ed to establish an hospital. It is very painful. If he had come home for Detty December he would have still been alive because he would have gotten a girlfriend whose thought would have reduced depression from his divorce scenarios.

I believe some Nigerians in US secretly undergoing similar situation should be thinking of coming home especially now that Trump is in power.

That's a bit stretch, interpol has better work to do than looking for a man who ran out of the country because of child .
There might other reasons he didn't consider running back home but interpol or fear of interpol could never be one of the reasons.

Fiscus105:



The trash you guys doing here, claiming Africa man, need to be cut into size over there.


If you behave like good man and caring husband over there, you won't have problem with ur wife.

I know several guys that married over there and still enjoying their marriages, those guys that often encounter marital problems are the one that doing shit, they known them for in Nigeria.

There are all manner of reasons for marital problems to assume that the man is always at fault is nonsense.

There are terrible men who no woman should marry but because of "female nature" they end up married anyway. On the other side many a good man has had his life shattered by an undeserving woman.