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Life As A Bachelor! - Romance - Nairaland 623y17
Life As A Bachelor! (14993 Views)
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| LoneSoldier(m): 6:09pm On Jan 24 |
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Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it... I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family , some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture..... A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders.... Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor..... BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR: I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items...... CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR: Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO! Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...! So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours! 48 Likes 8 Shares |
| Nyascobar1414: 7:56pm On Jan 24 |
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Naturally, vvomen have inherent hatred for men,so I wonder why a man will give up his friends,money and freedom for his subconscious enemy😹.. Una go learn naa,happy wife,happy life😹.. My experience is that I'm aware of the manipulative techniques of the gynocentric society and vvomen.. So I keep to myself,do my things for myself... Emily Cioran said"For an orgasm that last not more than 9secs,man is born to suffer for 70yrs.. Religion played a major role in this marriage of a thing that doesn't benefit man.. Again,live for yourself.. If man has not,no one will be with him.. So why have something and be with people.. If you fall,you fall alone,so therefore rise and rise alone🚶 Peace ✌️ 66 Likes 10 Shares |
| TINUBUISMAD: 8:18pm On Jan 24 |
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Marriage is a scam seriously Mind you, I am married Married men are made to suffer till death do them path 68 Likes 8 Shares |
| TINUBUISMAD: 8:20pm On Jan 24 |
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Marriage is a scam seriously Mind you, I am married Married men are made to suffer till death do you path 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Sleeknigga: 8:21pm On Jan 24 |
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Dey console yourself, if you don clock 40 your a sucker You mates don marry born pikin for sec schl you Dey hear Dey do finebobo single boy 26 Likes 7 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:17pm On Jan 24 |
Sleeknigga: Baba I have all I need in life, fu-uck women.... Bachelor for life!!! 52 Likes 7 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:19pm On Jan 24 |
Nyascobar1414: Is a waste of man's time to settle down with one serial killer called woman all in the name of marriage.... 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:20pm On Jan 24 |
TINUBUISMAD: Marriage is a path to man's untimely death! 16 Likes 1 Share |
| marlow1962(m): 9:24pm On Jan 24 |
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Marriage becomes a scam the very first moment you bring in a stupid jobless woman into your home all in the name of wife. The frustration that is bond to happen is massive and it can never be avoided except you divorce. 44 Likes 6 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:25pm On Jan 24 |
marlow1962: They are an embodiment of suffering 
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| Silentgroper(m): 10:10pm On Jan 24 |
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Look it's baby mama or nothing ... I need to squander all my money on myself and i 10 Likes |
| flokii: 11:12pm On Jan 24 |
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You won't be a bachelor forever.. If you have the means to settle down, please do.. the merits of getting married are far more than the demerits. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
| Baronthecelebri: 6:47am On Jan 25 |
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Who get time for marriage
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| Nnamdipapa(m): 6:51am On Jan 25 |
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My biggest regret was never living the bachelors life. I never lived alone all my life. Lol I crave the bachelors life more than anything else. 22 Likes 1 Share |
| FunnyDude(m): 6:55am On Jan 25 |
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Keep consoling yourself
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| Yemike(m): 7:40am On Jan 25 |
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I'm a bachelor but nah because I never make am. I don't have the mental strength to be seeing someone suffering or unhappy not to talk of the person being someone I love and care about. There was a time a news was trending about a man whose skeleton was found on the bed with his hand trying to reach his phone after two years. It was when the people of the community see that the bushes in the compound poses a community hazard was when they thought of cutting the bushes not knowing the man didn't travel but was actually inside the house. There are advantages and likewise disadvantages of being a bachelor but the greatest disadvantage comes at the latter end of a man's life. 48 Likes 2 Shares |
| duduade(m): 9:20am On Jan 25 |
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Continue to massturbaate to stupor
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| Princesslee: 9:29am On Jan 25 |
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You still need a woman in your life. Wake up from your delusional mindset. A woman completes a man and gives him sense of responsibility.
LoneSoldier: 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:45am On Jan 25 |
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| LoneSoldier(m): 9:45am On Jan 25 |
Nnamdipapa: Bachelor's life is the way to freedom...! 5 Likes |
| Silentgroper(m): 9:48am On Jan 25 |
Princesslee:sense of responsibility ... You think a bachelor ain't got sense of responsibility?? If I may ask ask , sense of responsibility to what . 😕😕😕 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:50am On Jan 25 |
Yemike: Good narrative tho, being rich or poor doesn't take away the benefits and enjoyment that comes with living a bachelor's life..... Sometimes you save yourself the stress of having a wife who turns out to be a pain in the åss, you just leave your best life, focus on making money.... If you feel stressed out just go to some cinemas or something or if you need a companion, buy some pet.... That's how life suppose to be for a man not the other way around.... 15 Likes |
| LoneSoldier(m): 9:55am On Jan 25 |
Princesslee: These bullshit word of a woman completes a man and give him sense of responsibility, which responsibility actually are you talking about.... See let me tell you something, there is nothing the female gender offers a man rather than suffering, you guys where created to put burden on the men, you aren't here to help rather you are here to suffer we men..... Am not a delusional person, I speak facts..... 28 Likes 5 Shares |
| Yemike(m): 12:23pm On Jan 25 |
LoneSoldier:You've got valid points tho'. Always do what'll make you happy not what makes others happy. Life shouldn't be stressful. 10 Likes |
| DonroxyII: 12:48pm On Jan 25 |
Nnamdipapa:Something that has tired me. |
| Fahvvy: 1:05pm On Jan 25 |
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Whilst I understand that the average modern woman has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to offer a man, it doesn't change the fact that they are women of substance who will literally make a man's life feel like heaven on earth ...Getting married to such a woman is the best thing that can ever happen to any man ...So don't condemn the institution of marriage simply because majority of the females are utterly useless, cause not all of em are the same ...Im summary, dig a little deeper and don't settle for dirt till you get the gem ...
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| Tjra: 2:49pm On Jan 25 |
TINUBUISMAD:Children school fees wan kill this man here. It is well my brother 😂 20 Likes |
| Deepspirituals: 2:51pm On Jan 25 |
marlow1962:Very True . Only Hypocrite Rejects the Truth. 2 Likes |
| parkervero(m): 2:51pm On Jan 25 |
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The challenges are far more than the benefits. My challenge is commitment. I find it difficult to commit to a woman with all her shenanigans. That's why I'm still single till now in my late 30. 14 Likes |
| oxygenlove(m): 2:53pm On Jan 25 |
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Bruh…. loneliness will choke you ooo…
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| Love800(m): 2:54pm On Jan 25 |
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False! A child is what complete a man. A wife is always a stranger! Princesslee: 8 Likes |
| Lanshile(m): 2:54pm On Jan 25 |
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Na because say u u never meet an hardworking and humble woman By the time u drop ur alpha male vibe and humble urself u will meet dat woman that will change ur life and thinking 8 Likes 1 Share |
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