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missyblissy: 5:23pm On Jan 08
Op as you are checking to know if she's fertile, you too check yourself so she will know if you are not shooting blanks. Chavk if your sperm is okay
TheBreastSucker(m): 5:25pm On Jan 08
Name her breasts be my main concern
Brilliancepower: 5:25pm On Jan 08
ipex:
Is it advisable to marry a woman who is circumcised?
I need an advice please?


Don't try it. The way they come if they wanna come may break your dick. And when you come ad they don't, drama begins. Just don't do it.

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Ofodirinwa: 5:28pm On Jan 08
ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.

I suspect my first girlfriend was circumsized, but I was young then and had nothing else to compare her to.
An unspoken challenge in marriages is women's sex drive fade rapidly after children, especially because by then she has 'seen you finish'.

That being said, I'm just speculating and I didn't marry my first GF. We had a very intense intimate relationship even with her situation. I said what I said earlier to let you know that whether officially circumsized or through time, most women's sex drives will change, and as a man, yous will generally stay the same but your temperment and self control may (possibly) improve. So if you marry a circumsized woman, it really won't be different from anyone else lol.

But a human's 'sexual organ' is their brain, the body is just responding. I'm assuming you and her don't have a problem becoming intimate and if she's able to now, you'll be fine.

Good luck, I can relate.
IMPARTIAL: 5:28pm On Jan 08
I used to chop a circumcized lady who had a boyfriend.

To cut story short, she loved sex!
IamAsiri: 5:29pm On Jan 08
GeneralPula:


Not so true. Complications in child birth is applicable to female gender, it’s not about being circumcised or not..

Lack of pleasure in sex you say? No! They’re like normal women o and they’ll even bang you to stupor self 😃

Painful sex… Once the Puna is wet, nothing like painful. Banging goes easy! A nice pre-intimacy will get the Puna wet..

Then you don't know so much about FGM.
Type 3 and 4 FGM can lead to serious complications, though the type 3 is very rare in 30 year-old ladies now. It's unfortunate that she still got mutilated even as mutilation was much common in the 80s then, even in the hospitals.
vexing(m): 5:30pm On Jan 08
ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.
There is nothing to it. She will live a completely normal life. That doesn't mean I circumcision though. A lot of people that married women that grew up in villages end up marrying circumcised women but they will not mention it.
Celestialsword: 5:30pm On Jan 08
ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.
you are lucky,marry her for uncircumcised women are very promiscuous.

Check the women of those ethnic groups that are not circumcised, you will notice that promiscuity is very rife among them.

You can never satisfy the sexual urge of an uncircumcised woman.
Karence(f): 5:30pm On Jan 08
brain54:
Not meaning to discourage you...

But it could lead to complications and difficulty during child birth.

Also painful intercourse and disinterest/lack of pleasure in sex totally.

But don't let this discourage you o. If you love your woman go ahead. Even some women that aren't circumcised still experience what I stated.

And she might not experience any of it. Nothing in life is certain.

But test run... Or at least talk to her concerning her reaction towards sex. Has she had sex, and does she enjoy it? Ask questions like that.

That's if you believe in no sex before marriage.

Sexual compatibility is equally important in marriage!
It depends on the severity
mindtricks: 5:31pm On Jan 08
exe0:


Well, no biggie but there are certain things that should be established before moving on


Female circumcision is different in different cultures; I mean, the extent of incision & excision

Thus, the symptomatic presentation is also different

Question like: does she feel pain or finds it difficult to urinate should be asked


She may also be evaluated by a Gynaecologist



Then , there is the psychological side of the equation depending on how old she was when she was circumcised and how it affects her mind and thinking


If everything is clear, marrying her is not a challenge


And even if there are any issues, you can still Marry her- just that it is good to be aware of the likely challenges you may face and be ready to face them squarely

Very matured.
Ayo8(m): 5:32pm On Jan 08
Samantha125:
Why would women get circumcised in the first place?🤔🤔🤔
C'mon! Like she chose to circumcise herself??
Ironbull: 5:32pm On Jan 08
Young man nothing is a big deal in that it is never a sin, it is a cultural norm to some society and not to some society so pls that is not an excuse to say can you marry her?

She is circumcised does not stop her from having baby so what is the headache here?
Entanglement: 5:34pm On Jan 08
Angelina996:
I'm a woman...

...and I can tell you, just because a woman is circumcised does not mean she'd have low sex drive or have complications during childbirth (except in severe and intense circumcision). Infact, she can climax during sexual activities sef. It depends on her personality. When she thinks of sex, how does she perceive herself?
You'd be surprised she might end up liking sex more than you can even imagine after her first time.
There are ladies that were not circumcised but does not like sex that much.

And that she's a virgin at 30 does not mean there'll be any issue in the future.
So far all the important compatibility tests are checked okay, please go ahead and marry her.
you are a woman we know! But have you been circumcised to jump into this unscrupulous conclusion undecided
Eriokanmi: 5:36pm On Jan 08
Samantha125:
But what's the reason behind it?
So you'd not be addicted to sex. Since the practice had been forcefully abolished, the cravings for sex amongst our women is unimaginable. In the olden days, women would see a man's genital involuntarily and move on. Nowadays, the brief sight at it will remain in the woman's memories for days.

I had a female friend who told me she can't stay for a week without sex and I told her to seek deliverance. In same vain, I had another one who bought a dildoo. The day she sent me her video unsolicited, I warned her never to do that again. She still sent another one but when I threatened to block her, she stopped.

I noticed something about her each time she calls to discuss something neutral, she'd be talking and pause suddenly. I'd be hearing a different sonorous sound and I'd end the call. It takes the spirit of God and discipline to escape such ladies Nowadays. How can a lady brag of doing 10 men at a time? Such weird practices were never in place when female genitals were being circumcised. Western culture's disadvantages far outweigh their advantages. They say the practice is bad and can lead to a VVF and women wont enjoy sex, lies. Everything should be ok if handled by professionals.

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OChimex: 5:36pm On Jan 08
ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.
Its called FGM, female genital mutilation.
Google it and read in details, then discuss it with her.
Urgent1Million: 5:40pm On Jan 08
Bookhub:


She can still cum just locate her gspot scrub it wella
gspot that they've cut off or which one?
Except you don't know what they do during female circumcision.
lailo: 5:40pm On Jan 08
Bookhub:


She can still cum just locate her gspot scrub it wella
Look at mentality! Is it all about cum? What of character and capacity to be a wife? Why should she cuming be the man's worry, when he is not the cause? And the lady sef won't even have any outrageous sexual feeling. Those kind women are even the best bcs she can never cheat on you as she will usually have very low urge. Men will always want to slave themselves to please women.Simps

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Looking4Trouble: 5:42pm On Jan 08
brain54:
Not meaning to discourage you...

But it could lead to complications and difficulty during child birth.

Also painful intercourse and disinterest/lack of pleasure in sex totally.

But don't let this discourage you o. If you love your woman go ahead. Even some women that aren't circumcised still experience what I stated.

And she might not experience any of it. Nothing in life is certain.

But test run... Or at least talk to her concerning her reaction towards sex. Has she had sex, and does she enjoy it? Ask questions like that.

That's if you believe in no sex before marriage.

Sexual compatibility is equally important in marriage!

There is no painful sexual intercourse. There is no difficulty during child birth. Stop saying nonsense. I cannot count the number of circumcised girls that I have fuccked or that have fuccked me, and several if not all of them should be married now.
Bookhub: 5:44pm On Jan 08
lailo:

Look at mentality! Is it all about cum? What of character and capacity to be a wife? Why should she cuming be the man's worry, when he is not the cause? And the lady sef won't even have any outrageous sexual feeling. Those kind women are even the best bcs she can never cheat on you as she will usually have very low urge. Men will always want to slave themselves to please women.Simps

You are not exposed aje
O ja ra ra
Urgent1Million: 5:44pm On Jan 08
OChimex:

Its called FGM, female genital mutilation.
Google it and read in details, then discuss it with her.
Why would anyone even think of cutting off the clitoris of a woman?
The one thing that brings intense sexual pleasure to them!
That's sheer wickedness.

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ezenna191(m): 5:48pm On Jan 08
You will not enjoy a sex life especially from age 40. Note this
drstranged: 5:51pm On Jan 08
dkidd:

You sayyy shocked ?!

A circumcised woman is only different from the uncircumcised when it comes to getting orgasms quickly. While one does so easily the other one takes a lot of work. No low sex drive or anything e be like na them like knacking sef just that they don't reach their peak easily unlike the uncircumcised females.
Abeg give me her number in case U want run.
It's not just about getting orgasm. Developing sexual interest to start with is usually a problem. They're usually sexually cold most times. At times she'd try to fake enjoyment just to please you and you know how irritating it is when you know a girl is faking sexual enjoyment or orgasm. And then there is difficulty in childbirth because the vulva that's circumcised usually heals via fibrosis and scarring and so loses it's elastic properties that allows it to expand to accommodate the head of the baby. There's also the problem of recurrent vaginal infection and then development of vesicovaginal fistula.
And the fact that she's a virgin at 30yrs is a red flag, not because it's bad in a lady that age but because it indirectly tells that she probably has not had any sexual interest over the period or that the guys that came in were sexually frustrated. So the op should do due diligence in investigating this so he doesn't end up frustrated in marriage
OChimex: 5:52pm On Jan 08
Urgent1Million:

Why would anyone even think of cutting off the clitoris of a woman?
The one thing that brings intense sexual pleasure to them!
That's sheer wickedness.

Illiteracy, obnoxious traditions,
The reason behind it is to limit their sexual pleasures and curb promiscuity.
That stupid, you know

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dkidd: 5:54pm On Jan 08
drstranged:

It's not just about getting orgasm. Developing sexual interest to start with is usually a problem. They're usually sexually cold most times. At times she'd try to fake enjoyment just to please you and you know how irritating it is when you know a girl is faking sexual enjoyment or orgasm. And then there is difficulty in childbirth because the vulva that's circumcised usually heals via fibrosis and scarring and so loses it's elastic properties that allows it to expand to accommodate the head of the baby. There's also the problem of recurrent vaginal infection and then development of vesicovaginal fistula.
And the fact that she's a virgin at 30yrs is a red flag, not because it's bad in a lady that age but because it indirectly tells that she probably has not had any sexual interest over the period or that the guys that came in were sexually frustrated. So the op should do due diligence in investigating this so he doesn't end up frustrated in marriage
Just help me put mouth make the OP give me.number jarè leave plenty talking

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drstranged: 5:55pm On Jan 08
dkidd:

Just help me put mouth make the OP give me.number jarè leave plenty talking
Lol
otherway: 5:58pm On Jan 08
I don't wish to marry a circumcised lady cos heading her won't be fascinating.

But you see those uncircumcised ones... Hoolala.. the fleshiness of the place is fun.
otherway: 6:00pm On Jan 08
ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.

Its not really a big deal when it comes to choice of spouse but she may not really enjoy sex like that especially if her type of circumcision is stage 3.
grandstar(m): 6:02pm On Jan 08
ipex:
Is it advisable to marry a woman who is circumcised?
I need an advice please?


No think am.

Many don't enjoy sex or it is reduces the enjoyment. That was the purpose of the circumcision.

If you can do without sex for long periods of time, you can go ahead.
Tonididdyx: 6:04pm On Jan 08
ipex:
Is it advisable to marry a woman who is circumcised?
I need an advice please?

Low libido
Sex is boring to them
Dry kpekus

Only advantage in all is, she "may" not cheat!
Tonididdyx: 6:10pm On Jan 08
IMPARTIAL:
I used to chop a circumcized lady who had a boyfriend.

To cut story short, she loved sex!

She maybe out to please you but naaa....she doesn't love sex
Is like rubbing a match stick on water and expecting ignition
Ten06(m): 6:16pm On Jan 08
The censor has been cut off. No hard feelings anymore
NovusHomo(m): 6:16pm On Jan 08
ipex:
Is it advisable to marry a woman who is circumcised?
I need an advice please?



"Circumcision" in female is called "Excision"

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