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SweetBuns(f): 11:01am On Dec 30, 2024
Good day nairalanders. Merry Xmas and a happy new year in advance.

I'll try to make this short and sweet.
So I met this guy at my favorite foodspot not too long ago.
He was tall, dark, handsome and jacked.... Basically the type of guy I like so I was obviously attracted to him.

He then approached and talked to me. Whilst we were at it, I him cracking some very bad jokes (not bad in like an offensive way, but a bit too dry), but for the sake of being polite I went along with it.

We exchanged s and met up for a first date not too long after. And to keep things short, he wasn't funny whenever he tried. At all.
He did look a bit nervous, but It was still so bad to the extent that I felt uncomfortable watching him try and even guilty if I failed to laugh.

He's also very arkward when it comes to intimacy, the first kiss was really, really arkward and I could tell he was trying his best but......

He also has this habit of sending me some really unfunny memes

Besides that, he is truly loving, warm and sweet. We have a whole lot in common between us and I'm sure I'm attracted to him

Initially I thought it was something related to his initial nervousness and would resolve on its own with time, but things are still the same

I'm a really funny person and Ive realized that I bond best with the people I laugh and play around with.

Is this going to get better with time, or is this just who he is?

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Jashub: 11:22am On Dec 30, 2024
The perfect person exists only in your head . Read that again

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Exceed15: 11:27am On Dec 30, 2024
My problem with you ladies is that you elaborate a guy weakness and place less value on his strength. Make him free with you . Be more friendly as he is to u. Praise him in areas he's doing well. Trust me , You have some shortcomings too he's overlooking.
What if he is considering some of your physical flaws too.. Stop acting like you are doing him a favour. It's a two way thing. All the best.

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EmperorCaesar(m): 11:32am On Dec 30, 2024
cheesy

Date a comedian with a lot of social media followers. Dump the guy for a girl that wants quality features in a guy

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JASONjnr(m): 12:20pm On Dec 30, 2024
If his only weak side is his dry jokes, then you don't have anything to worry about.

Point is, you're not perfect and he's probably got things about you that doesn't tick his boxes but he's going along with you regardless.

Find what makes you happy around him and stay....

Again, you're not perfect and he's not perfect.

Little imperfections shouldn't have you keep increasing your body count.

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G0Oodharddick: 12:30pm On Dec 30, 2024
I was waiting for the knacking part!

He knack abi he no knack you?

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lacasera14(m): 12:51pm On Dec 30, 2024
You have to keep looking. There are guys who are tall, dark, handsome and funny. For the most part of your relationship with him, you both will be talking and if he's awkward in that department, you'll be enduring a lot. Thus, if you find a guy who's funny and lovely, you may end up cheating on him. Now you've realized that looks are not everything. You're attracted to his looks and not his personality. So, move on and leave him for boring girls like he is. Trust me, some girl out there is looking for him, his exact persona.

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LIVINGICONREBOR: 12:57pm On Dec 30, 2024
Kai!! Which kind wahala be dis??
The dude is tall, dark, handsome,ripped, loving but this girl is not still satisfied. If this your post is true, u are a real mumugirl.๐Ÿฅฑ

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meobizy(f): 1:07pm On Dec 30, 2024
Find a funny man with his good qualities. Itโ€™s not like only ten men exist in the world.

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Phabulous4(m): 1:28pm On Dec 30, 2024
Both of you canโ€™t be Bovi, nah. Laugh at him for trying to be funny but not actually being funnyโ€”thatโ€™s laughable in a way! Tell him and challenge him to step up, but in a very welcoming manner. To me, effort count more than perfection.


SweetBuns:
Good day nairalanders. Merry Xmas and a happy new year in advance.

I'll try to make this short and sweet.
So I met this guy at my favorite foodspot not too long ago.
He was tall, dark, handsome and jacked.... Basically the type of guy I like so I was obviously attracted to him.

He then approached and talked to me. Whilst we were at it, I him cracking some very bad jokes (not bad in like an offensive way, but a bit too dry), but for the sake of being polite I went along with it.

We exchanged s and met up for a first date not too long after. And to keep things short, he wasn't funny whenever he tried. At all.
He did look a bit nervous, but It was still so bad to the extent that I felt uncomfortable watching him try and even guilty if I failed to laugh.

He's also very arkward when it comes to intimacy, the first kiss was really, really arkward and I could tell he was trying his best but......

He also has this habit of sending me some really unfunny memes

Besides that, he is truly loving, warm and sweet. We have a whole lot in common between us and I'm sure I'm attracted to him

Initially I thought it was something related to his initial nervousness and would resolve on its own with time, but things are still the same

I'm a really funny person and Ive realized that I bond best with the people I laugh and play around with.

Is this going to get better with time, or is this just who he is?

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suckprick: 1:46pm On Dec 30, 2024
I sorry for the mumu wey dey try make you laugh. Maybe he is broke. Real men don't give a fck about that. We just be our real self. Funny or not, it's none of our business.

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Silentgroper(m): 2:11pm On Dec 30, 2024
meobizy:
Find a funny man with his good qualities. Itโ€™s not like only ten men exist in the world.

If she eventually finds the funny one, she'd probably noticed he's not jacked or can't spend on a woman .. she'd find something wrong with the funny guy ... Na their way...

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Silentgroper(m): 2:13pm On Dec 30, 2024
But I thought they said if a woman likes you , not doesn't matter if your jokes are dry, she'd still laugh and the jokes are never a problem...

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Baronthecelebri: 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2024
Stupid post,if you don't like him leave him.

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Juliearth(f): 2:20pm On Dec 30, 2024
Perfection is a disease of the mind. Design a scale of preference and if what matters most to you is humour and French kiss, you can go ahead and break up with him.

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Wealthoptulent(m): 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2024
SweetBuns:
Good day nairalanders. Merry Xmas and a happy new year in advance.

I'll try to make this short and sweet.
So I met this guy at my favorite foodspot not too long ago.
He was tall, dark, handsome and jacked.... Basically the type of guy I like so I was obviously attracted to him.


Besides that, he is truly loving, warm and sweet. We have a whole lot in common between us and I'm sure I'm attracted to him


I'm a really funny person and Ive realized that I bond best with the people I laugh and play around with.

Is this going to get better with time, or is this just who he is?
i will try n make this short as well HELEN PAUL or ADA WARI PIKIN., u for marry ALI BABA or BASKET MOUTH... @ ur HIGHLETED what aside else could u wish for...? no waste the nicca, post am for our agbakkreess or OPPO out there wey dey attend shiloh and mountain since beginning of the YEAR, this year no be urs to date better... give out LINKS for SIS out there

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optimusprime2(m): 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2024
SweetBuns:
Good day nairalanders. Merry Xmas and a happy new year in advance.

I'll try to make this short and sweet.
So I met this guy at my favorite foodspot not too long ago.
He was tall, dark, handsome and jacked.... Basically the type of guy I like so I was obviously attracted to him.

He then approached and talked to me. Whilst we were at it, I him cracking some very bad jokes (not bad in like an offensive way, but a bit too dry), but for the sake of being polite I went along with it.

We exchanged s and met up for a first date not too long after. And to keep things short, he wasn't funny whenever he tried. At all.
He did look a bit nervous, but It was still so bad to the extent that I felt uncomfortable watching him try and even guilty if I failed to laugh.

He's also very arkward when it comes to intimacy, the first kiss was really, really arkward and I could tell he was trying his best but......

He also has this habit of sending me some really unfunny memes

Besides that, he is truly loving, warm and sweet. We have a whole lot in common between us and I'm sure I'm attracted to him

Initially I thought it was something related to his initial nervousness and would resolve on its own with time, but things are still the same

I'm a really funny person and Ive realized that I bond best with the people I laugh and play around with.

Is this going to get better with time, or is this just who he is?

I reckon you want an "all complete" Disney fairy tale prince or marvel super hero Cyber Ninja if you may; to swoosh down and start cracking jokes to make you laugh an orgasm while holding you in his arms during a midair flight...

My sister wake up... 2025 is here.

As long as he is "A Good Man" ... roll with it because a good man, is all you need.

Thank God for our mothers who knew this fact and settled for Good Men, regardless of whether they were funny or not.

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Karleb(m): 2:36pm On Dec 30, 2024
He probably has things he does not like about you but he probably won't make it a big deal because he loves you.

Love is meant to see beyond weakness.

If that is a deal breaker for you, it's best you end it so you don't waste each other's time.

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laivwire(m): 2:37pm On Dec 30, 2024
If you are going to love him, you would see past his dry jokes.
Some people are naturally reserved and their partners extroverted. Others can't deal and want someone just like them. It's a personal thing and you need to feel the vibe. if you ain't feeling it, you gotta bounce tbh.

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poshestmina(f): 3:01pm On Dec 30, 2024
If heโ€™s a good man,sooner or later,only Eye s and facial expressions will make you two start laughing even in public .
We ALL have one imperfection or another.

Take your time and be observant.

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BarrElChapo(m): 3:03pm On Dec 30, 2024
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kings59: 3:04pm On Dec 30, 2024
Thread meant for women, mumu boys beging comment. Allow the girls a chance for the first five spaces.

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jeeqaa7(m): 3:04pm On Dec 30, 2024
Nonsense

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Emeskhalifa(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
What do women really want?

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PheelzAlmighty: 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
Una no just get real problems because what is this

That said, never try to impress women especially Nigerian girls orphans.. you will just d!e before your time

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sofeo(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
Alright

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tosyne2much(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
So you think relationship is all about cracking jokes and laughing? You go learn one day sha

Even the wives of Basketmouth, Bovi, Ay, Nedu and the likes all left them.. These are people who make people laugh and forget their sorrow

This is to tell you that being a clown doesn't sustain a relationship. It goes beyond that

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daveP(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Abegiii
Smh

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Okoroawusa: 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2024
Leave him for a comedian

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Lorayne(m): 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2024
Y'all should go your separate ways and find compatible partners

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gigabyte13: 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2024
This one still young
E dey find Ali baba to date
No worry
Wen time for marriage reach
You go no say, no be laugh Dem dey find.......

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MrHighSea: 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2024
How're things with you.

It's not easy to laff under Tinubunomics

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