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Yes, absolutely correct.

100% correct.

They will trample on you.
They will insult you.
They will disrespect you.
They willl bully you.
They will harass you.
They will take your land.
They will take your property.
They will threaten you.
And mess you up.

Sorry I'm kind but I'm not Jesus and I'm not living in Jesus era my principle is "do me I do you man no go vex"

When you close the eye of death ,you will realise that you will give of every of your deed upon this garden called earth.
Jesus died to en-able render good .
Embrace Him Today,even Now.

[quote author=otipoju post=133343030]We live in a time where kindness is taken as weakness and is prone to be exploited util you are financially, physically and emotionally drained.

Learning to say No even if you can help is ultra important...abd that is what to naturally kind people feel as wickedness.

The disadvantage of being kind all the time us that you unconsciously teach people to you only when they want something...and once they unconsciously label you as that...they will never turn up for you when you are in need even if they have the means.


This December I just dey ignore all the different requests wey I dey get...and it will be like that for a very long time.

It's time to focus on me and me alone. Takers never stop taking.


[Should God ignore and reject your requests for His help too …. And should God do it for a long time?
You are very selfish and stingy.]

If you are kind
Dem go think say you be mumu really
Until Dem press the wrong button for your body.
You go come show Dem shege pro pro max
Same people you have been kind to will now start singing....

YOU ARE WICKED....!!!!!!!!!!
IN THIS LIFE, A BIT OF WICKEDNESS IS NEEDED BUT DON'T STAY WICKED.

Laughing

The comments you make when you get scammed or you are a victim of fraud.
Example is the fraudsters is this idiot that keeps changing names

embrace your dark side, especially when dealing with women .

DyshApp:
Nigerian musician, Adekunle Kosoko, popularly known as Adekunle Gold, has stated that kindness makes one turn to a foolish person.

In a post shared on his social media on Monday, the singer stated that it took him a while to come to this conclusion.

According to him, a sprinkle of wickedness is needed to thrive in the world.

“Took me a while, but I can confirm now that in this life, you need a sprinkle of wickedness to thrive. Kindness go turn you to mumu,” he stated.

One of his followers has however disagreed with the singer’s analogy.

The follower identified simply as Oludotun Sunday, described this analogy as a big fat lie.

He maintained that kind people never regret being kind, and added that they also do not wish to be wicked.

He stated, “This is a hot fat lie

He maintained that kind people never regret being kind, and added that they also do not wish to be wicked.

He stated, “This is a hot fat lie

Kind people are kind and never regret their kindness. If you are wicked, you are wicked. If you are kind, you can never wish and do not need to be wicked.

Kind people never nurse that idea, only wicked people can be two-faced.”

I disagree with him...you only become stupid when you are being kind to someone that is earnestly seeking your downfall. Enough with all this celebrity misleading people.

To all married men, do you know that women always think that men will die first? If you think that I am lying, just tell your wife, "let us sell this our house", and she will be like, "for what?! When you die, where will I and the children live in?"

There is no harm in charity, the kind and righteous will always thrive and excel

All these fallacious and satanic thinking smh

I totally agree with his anology100%.

Being a kind person makes you vulnerable to emotional abuse and manipulations. Some ppl think of you as a pushover, in other words, they just simply think you are foolish ( A Mugu or Mumu psn.). Hence, in order to change that perception of you, there is a need for you to occasionally exude the demeanor of a mean ( wicked ) psn, so would realise that, "although you could be kind but, you are definitely not a fool"

This resonates well with me, because I have had countless experiences when my kind gestures actually projected me like a not -too -smart psn, and ppl actually took advantage. At the end, I ended up regretting ever being so good to ppl.

Aswear

May be Adekunle has shown more kindness to ungrateful people.
Please Ade, don't stop being nice because it is Almighty God that sees and reward kindness.

Real kind people don't care.

Maybe Falz d bad Guy don finally panachuku Simi due to Adekunle Gold's kindness/mumuness.only God knows what the guy is going thru.

The guy is right , who no know no go know

1000000000%%% correct most especially here in Nigeria
that is why those who are supposed to be showing mercy to people rather exploit them and people still worship them as semi-gods.
In Nigeria, people turn kindness and privileges into rights and entitlement. That is why people who understand this mentality of Nigerians always make sure that they let them know it is not a right. The only way they allow this is to make people suffer a little, beg, and beg before they eventually render any help

excanny:


He's foolish for not thinking his thoughts clearly to the point of being misunderstood.

Being kind doesn't equate to being naive and not figuring out people's true intentions.

Being naive is what is dangerous not being a good person.

I stand with Gold on his statement. Even the bible encouraged us to be a little bit wicked.

Judolisco:
If u Don get money, u go feel like say u fit dish out any advise.... Sensible or not.... Na why bible talk say.... The poor man's wisdom is despised, and his words are not heard Ecclesiastes 9:16

Sha get money first Sha.. See dis one now dey talk about being wicked a little bit... Because say small money dey him hand

Poor people are far far, wicked than rich.

Meanwhile, nobody is totally poor for him not to give.

How many acts kindness have you rendered this year? I will be surprised if you can convinently count 3.

Baba, he is more than correct. Imagine someone helping his friend who is not doing well financially, only for the friend's junior brother and the friend's mother to start making calls and asking for money from the guy.

Dmec:
I stand with Gold on his statement. Even the bible encouraged us to be a little bit wicked.

and the funniest thing is that once the helper has any problem, most of the time, those he thought he was helping will be the first to start mocking him y saying he was stupid by trying to help everybody

Fiscus105:




Poor people are far far, wicked than rich.

Meanwhile, nobody is totally poor for him not to give.

How many acts kindness have you rendered this year? I will be surprised if you can convinently count 3.

otipoju:
We live in a time where kindness is taken as weakness and is prone to be exploited util you are financially, physically and emotionally drained.

Learning to say No even if you can help is ultra important...abd that is what to naturally kind people feel as wickedness.

The disadvantage of being kind all the time us that you unconsciously teach people to you only when they want something...and once they unconsciously label you as that...they will never turn up for you when you are in need even if they have the means.


This December I just dey ignore all the different requests wey I dey get...and it will be like that for a very long time.

It's time to focus on me and me alone. Takers never stop taking.

My father use to tell me one thing, he will say son if by tomorrow you make it, before you spend 10k for me you don spend 1million on yourself

All these focus on me and me alone talk are childish talk, check your life you will see there is no time you did more for people than you ever did for yourself.

Don jazzy is a cheerful giver rite, he even gave a whooping 100m out, But that man bought cars worth 2bn for himself, naa by wickedness

even if adekunle block simi and his daughter, focus on himsef and himsef alone can he buy 2bn worth of car

You wanna be stingy or wicked, own it will your full chest,

essentialone1:
To all married men, do you know that women always think that men will die first? If you think that I am lying, just tell your wife, "let us sell this our house", and she will be like, "for what?! When you die, where will I and the children live in?"

Hope you also know that, Young people always think, old people will die first too? and you also know, husbands on many occasions older than wives.

Why can't you use ur brain to think that , perhaps, ur wife biliv you will die first because you are older?


Can you give us ur honest answer, ....if your father tells you he wants to sell his house.

mumu talk because of small celebrity status. If OLamide was wicked to him, who would have known AG. Useless talk

So this is the reason why ths gov. is acting this way

Fiscus105:




Poor people are far far, wicked than rich.

Meanwhile, nobody is totally poor for him not to give.

How many acts kindness have you rendered this year? I will be surprised if you can convinently count 3.

baba ino fit dey count act of kindness wey I don render dis year, I'm a health worker, so I always render help....... And my initial post is not about wickedness, it's about how money makes one reason

onatisi:
and the funniest thing is that once the helper has any problem, most of the time, those he thought he was helping will be the first to start mocking him y saying he was stupid by trying to help everybody

Nothing to add more sir.

Yoruba adage says,......what people turn you to, is what they would use to mock you.

The provision seller that use to sell on credit, when the business collapses as a result of bad debts of the customers, the same customers would be the ones to mock, that she can not do anything successfully.


What about lady that, every guy in neighbourhood had slept with?

kayperry:



My father use to tell me one thing, he will say son if by tomorrow you make it, before you spend 10k for me you don spend 1million on yourself

All these focus on me and me alone talk are childish talk, [i[b]check your life you will see there is no time you did more for people than you ever did for yourself[/b].

Don jazzy is a cheerful giver rite, he even gave a whooping 100m out, But that man bought cars worth 2bn for himself, naa by wickedness

even if adekunle block simi and his daughter, focus on himsef and himsef alone can he buy 2bn worth of car

You wanna be stingy or wicked, own it will your full chest,

There was a time I actually spent far more money on people than on myself. I so much love human beings then, such that even when someone stole my stuffs, I will say, "Well, it is okay, so far the person is going to use it to meet his need, it is good."
When we went for a field trip, I spent my money feeding a course mate morning, afternoon and evening to the point that the course mate told me that he will like to give his sister to me to marry. When I asked why, he said," So that he can chop my money finish."

That same colleague, I borrowed him my last cash, promising he will pay back the following week. He didn't pay back and when I asked for it because I was totally out of cash(I don't even know how to ask for my money back in those days) the guy began to shout at me and call me names.

Fast forward to a decade after, I have become one of the stingiest person on earth. Till date, the transformation still baffles me to the extent that sometimes I try to give by force but I can't just see myself giving. This one shock me o. Now I realize that kindness, wickedness etc can be learnt and unlearnt. It is not necessarily a natural thing.

Kindness can never turn you to "MUMU", anybody saying and writing such was never kind,he is she was pretending to be kind.