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essentialone:


If not, wetyn go happen?

Ahaps,
Except you are not envisaging to become extremely wealthy,a public figure or something sensational in later years!


If you force a girl in your earlier years and she later comes up with some funny claim nkor?


Consent must be sought and received

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

...
When my gal said no sex I was like maybe you're not ready ri be in a relationship

purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

I truly pity any lady that says YES to a relationship with that guy. With this ideology, even a dog don't deserve him as a boyfriend

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

Well said

Reply her by saying no money or buying weavon in the relationship

My problem with this statement is that it usually comes from non virgins.
Who you wan deceive with that lori iro?

If a virgin is saying this, very easy to understand. But if a non virgin says this, I'm off. I hate double standards.

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

first thing first, any woman who tell a man "this is a no sex relationship" doesn't regard the man, it's what we call, see finish.

All in all, the best reply to such women is to tell them, the relationship is also a no money relationship. The woman should take care of her needs by herself. That's when the reaction and true intention of the woman reveal itself.

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

Mutual relationship does not mean sex is included. Moreso there's nothing mutual in sex, if the mindset is just because I spend on her then she has to consent to sex.....that's absolutely not mutual whatsoever but sex trading.
It's not only men who run businessness, women do likewise and both can be mutual.
If any man still thinks this way then they should visit the ts where the business is mutual and no feelings attached.

Ladies usually use no sex to seek for validation from a man. This act is usually done by retired oloshos or oloshos on vacation who want to appear decent before a man in order to attract marriage.

Some will use religion as a cover up and if the man is a weak man that's not really enlightened about the manipulative strategies of women, he'll be rejoicing that he has met a decent and God fearing lady and will fall into the dirty trap.

Listen men, women are the most manipulative beings. A woman who sleeps around for 5k can reject 200k from you just for her to prove a point to you and make herself appear decent before you because she has a target.

Women want sex more, na men no sabi endure

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

U can spend on each other bro

purples25:


Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

Just same way a lady told me no sex until I pay her bride price, I agreed. I told her no money until we are legally married, she didn't agree to this. I kept my own side of the bargain, she's been calling and texting me that she was only joking

Man must not live by bread alone.

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

No Sex: No Transfer/Billing

Who says that relationship is not about SEX.

Even the oyinbos dey friends with benefit. Though, typical african culture does not tolerate Sex in the relationship.

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

what if she dey collect from another man

essentialone:
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

And what really do you gain from sex since it is everything that you hope to achieve in a relationship??

When a lady or your wife tells you no sex
Don't panic.
Open your side chicks diaries...
And leave the rest to God...

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

don't be demoralised, side chic or her best friend is willing to give you doggy when you request for sex

I just want you to know that is the biggest scam ever, like ever.

Well, I've had three bannies who sold me the idea of no sex in our relationship and I didn't argue with them, along the line, the same bannies crossed the lines and demanded for extra curricular activities, whether I Joseph or not, I'll leave that to people's imagination but that actually change my views about women, most of them will say A at the spurn of the moment while Z again next time.

Anyway, relationship these days is just a means of transaction and love particularly unconditional love is alien to the Nigeria culture right now.

No be one man for Edo return newly wedded wife back to her father house because of no sex before marriage then after wedding the man discover say they wife V is bigger than tank. That he can even lost inside if care is not taken.. 😂😂😂😂😂

Absolutely 💯 😊👍

idahme:
Firstly, the guy should also put no money in the relationship. If the lady refuses and thinks she needed to be given money then understand she is a manipulator who wants your resources only and nothing else.

If she accepts no money in the relationship then she is good to go and has a clear thought process. You guys can go ahead in studying your personality and leave money and sex out of the relationship. That's a win win for the both of you since more than 90% of ladies think it's not their duty to spend money during relationship.

The only exception to this rule is when the lady is a generous spender who is ready to equally spend on the guy just as the guy spends on her meaning their spending power should be equivalent and it's verified that the lady is a virgin, I don't mean secondary and tertiary virgins else the relationship shouldn't take place in the first place.

The policy only makes sense if it's from a virgin.

Anyway, people should date their kinds. Chaste males should date ladies who don't want premarital sex and vice versa. But please, don't as a lady try to bully a sexually active man into a sexless relationship and vice versa.

purples25:


Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

That would be so cool ...

essentialone:
How do you completely rule out money spending from a relationship?

One way or the other, money must be spent. Dont be naive about that.

Even your airtime and data na money you take dey buy am.

yes, money will be spent but just on himself ...

essentialone:
Your offerings and tithes, is it not you giving God money, in hope that he gives you Blessings, and whatever other things you expect from Him?

Not in this modern world

koladata:
if she hasn't had it before and you confirmed it, then you should wait. but if not , you should run

.how do you confirm if she is a virgin?

dominique:
These same guys will be groaning about a woman's body counts yet they expect her to open her legs to every man that indicates interest in her. Very unstable sets of people

ladies should equally stop making financial demands on everyguy that shows interest in them, it can be very annoying. Some will not even allow you to ask them out officially, yet Dem don dey bill you...

sexy74:
Holiness

As long as you are not getting any financial gains from me.

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

As long as your ain't asking for money from me.