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DyshApp: 11:53pm On Nov 20, 2024
A woman in a DINK relationship has divided opinion online after sharing a video explaining the benefits of it.

Although the acronym looks a bit suspect for some reason, it doesn't stand for anything that outlandish - however, a host of social media s have still taken offence to it.

Sana Akhand, 35, sparked a fiery debate in the comment section of one of her TikTok posts after ing a clip detailing the reasoning behind her and her husband's decision to become DINKs.

For those who have no idea what these four letters stand for, it simply refers to a couple who have 'Dual Income, No Kids'.

These people have two lots of earnings to play with and don't have to spend a penny on any little Rugrats, so as you can imagine, they've often got a nice amount stashed away in the bank.


There's love and marriage, but just no baby carriage, essentially.

Whether it's to prioritise their careers, achieving financial stability or simply because they just don't want to, DINKs choose not to bring any new life into this world.

In Sana's case, it all comes down to her and her spouse's decision to put themselves first in life and protect their 'core values of freedom'.

In the video, which was originally shared online last year, the content creator said: "When my husband and I started dating, we both fell in love with how independent we were and how dedicated we were to our careers, ambition, our purpose and our devotion to our own individual happiness.


"So early on - I was 24 when we were dating - we decided that we were not interested in having kids. But I also knew that I was very young and I may change my mind.

"So I never made any definitive decisions, I just said, 'Yes, not having children sounds really, really nice but I can't promise you that at 24'."

Everyday a new type of relationship comes up๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ™„

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BabbanBura(m): 4:35am On Nov 21, 2024
DyshApp:
A woman in a DINK relationship has divided opinion online after sharing a video explaining the benefits of it.

Although the acronym looks a bit suspect for some reason, it doesn't stand for anything that outlandish - however, a host of social media s have still taken offence to it.

Sana Akhand, 35, sparked a fiery debate in the comment section of one of her TikTok posts after ing a clip detailing the reasoning behind her and her husband's decision to become DINKs.

For those who have no idea what these four letters stand for, it simply refers to a couple who have 'Dual Income, No Kids'.

These people have two lots of earnings to play with and don't have to spend a penny on any little Rugrats, so as you can imagine, they've often got a nice amount stashed away in the bank.


There's love and marriage, but just no baby carriage, essentially.

Whether it's to prioritise their careers, achieving financial stability or simply because they just don't want to, DINKs choose not to bring any new life into this world.

In Sana's case, it all comes down to her and her spouse's decision to put themselves first in life and protect their 'core values of freedom'.

In the video, which was originally shared online last year, the content creator said: "When my husband and I started dating, we both fell in love with how independent we were and how dedicated we were to our careers, ambition, our purpose and our devotion to our own individual happiness.


"So early on - I was 24 when we were dating - we decided that we were not interested in having kids. But I also knew that I was very young and I may change my mind.

"So I never made any definitive decisions, I just said, 'Yes, not having children sounds really, really nice but I can't promise you that at 24'."

Interested in the full story then read it in our Relationship group๐Ÿ’• on Dysh


Everyday a new type of relationship comes up๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ™„

This is not a new thing in this era. For this purpose, some men go as far as severing their sperm supply ducts. Havenโ€™t heard of women getting rid of their tubes or ovaries / uterus for same reason though.

To me it feels so selfish to only care about oneself and not raise little beauties - would you have existed without some people making the sacrifices to make and bring you up?

This is definitely distorting Godโ€™s design / order and it goes with consequences be it not instant.

anyway, whatever rocks your world!

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kingharzy: 5:33am On Nov 21, 2024
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this

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Baronthecelebri: 6:16am On Nov 21, 2024
Go for them, my own is MMNM- More Money No Marriage.

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Baronthecelebri: 6:17am On Nov 21, 2024
Good for them, my own is MMNM- More Money No Marriage.

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Cocolatti(m): 6:55am On Nov 21, 2024
Selfish retarded couple.
If your parents had made same decision, you wouldn't be in existence.

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Cocolatti(m): 6:56am On Nov 21, 2024
kingharzy:
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this
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MrAmbrose(m): 8:08am On Nov 21, 2024
Oyibo pipo.
skondo09(m): 10:32am On Nov 21, 2024
At the end of the day..it's that will still be at the receiving end..guyman will jejely keep another sensible lady somewhere that will give birth and be forming love with this one

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advanceDNA: 11:06am On Nov 21, 2024
Cocolatti:
Selfish retarded couple.
If your parents had made same decision, you wouldn't be in existence.

There are nearly 8 billion pple on the planet. So if these two are not in existence what would have happened??

Y'all just give funny guilt tripping reasons when pple say they don't want kids....come on man.. be creative a little with ur guilt tripping

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advanceDNA: 11:10am On Nov 21, 2024
skondo09:
At the end of the day..it's that will still be at the receiving end..guyman will jejely keep another sensible lady somewhere that will give birth and be forming love with this one

Another sensible lady.?? u assumed it's the woman that said she ddnt want kids...?? Dey try read small ...e get why??

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brain54(m): 11:15am On Nov 21, 2024
Na to dey come up...

With more useless acronyms every day because of overfeeding.

And some yeye Africans with little or nothing on their plates go dey copy and follow do catch up in a bid to be woke.

WINK my foot!

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Cousin9999: 3:53am On Nov 22, 2024
It's probably best that she and that man don't have kids because they're both racist freaks. The world doesn't need more of them.

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ObalendeCMS: 4:08am On Nov 22, 2024
I might give "DINK" a thought.

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BigIyanga: 6:43am On Nov 22, 2024
Cocolatti:
Selfish retarded couple.
If your parents had made same decision, you wouldn't be in existence.
How many kids have u adopted today or provided for?? Naija analogue brain overworking 24/7

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Idonweak: 8:01am On Nov 22, 2024
kingharzy:
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this
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Bro, why you make me laff like this early morning.
Na those NIMKS full Nigeria.

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trium: 4:44pm On Nov 22, 2024
Women, should be married with kids. Except she is barren and that's no fault of hers. QED

It is in women's nature to nurture and even the single ones that have been brainwashed by these feminazists, they will tell you in their 50s that just give me belle. They damn the consequences of religion, culture and morality. Women can get what they want when their eyes tear. These guys can't confuse us.
Stop letting these oyinbo spread their evil agenda to us where they don't value people. Ask them at their old age, they created a system where their kids don't have time and see them as a burden. That's why they end up in old people's homes.

They will tell us not to have kids but they are okay with having pets. Foolish people will spend more money taking care of a pet than a human being just because a cat and dog will do what you say.

No legacy.
No humanity.

Selfishness all around.

I love Africa for this reason. Go abroad, Jamaicans, Brazilians, Every person who has an African connection, they have connection to human beings than these selfish people who have become soulless.

Elon Musk was never in their calculations, that's why they loathe him. He has the money to call their bluff. He has kids and he takes care of them. That is being a man. He is bold enough not to be raising bastards, he is holding it with his chest. First, they tell women to be equal to men. Secondly, they tell men to be like women. Third, they make men and women not to procreate. It's all part of their depopulation agenda and they have realized they should be subtle about it, unlike before where they complained. That's why they now use social media to deceive Gen Z. Go and check what is happening around the world. There is a declining fertility rate, some of them are caused by health issues caused by us, others are these agendas that prevent procreation, including LGBTQ. Go into the world and multiply jare. Rubbish

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TheChameleon: 4:45pm On Nov 22, 2024
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These arrangements will ultimately favour a guy.

Women outsmart themselves when trying to be too cunning wink

Man will let you be DINK till you are 40-45 and when reality sets in.... He is still biologically viable while babe is expired.

There is a high chance of regrets in such issues with little margin for error.

I personally know a Career Woman who was doing a DINK nonsense "my career is too important, etc".

Guyman has 2 kids secretly, not too far away from the house grin grin

She has found out, She first arrested the guy (he has been stealing to fund his other family). On what charges? We don beg am tire. grin

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Yankee101: 4:46pm On Nov 22, 2024
Ladies donโ€™t do it
A man can have kids at 70
You canโ€™t

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Laple0541(m): 4:47pm On Nov 22, 2024
When they die, the kids of their brothers and sisters will help them spend all the money they saved. Even the government will have their share.

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Basiljoe: 4:47pm On Nov 22, 2024
Ironically. Negative birth rates can be associated with prosperity. I'm not totally sure but I think countries with prosperous economies have declining birth rates.

This is why I love we Africans, once we don get small money like this, na to marry 15 wives and born 50 children. cheesy

Individualism of the west has its negative effects.

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Starboytwo(m): 4:47pm On Nov 22, 2024
Too many abbreviations nowadays. Man can't keep up.

Lgbtcqv
Nysc
Dstv
Nyse
love-vendor
Queer
Etc.

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Mindlog: 4:49pm On Nov 22, 2024
Choosing to be child-free is an option.

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Procashtips(m): 4:49pm On Nov 22, 2024
Selfishness and self centredness on a new high.

When you care only about yourself, decisions like this are easy to make.
MuMuOnBail: 4:49pm On Nov 22, 2024
Na wa ooo



When they have aborted all the eggs in their womb during their youthful and fresh years.
F*cking the hottest guys in high school, going about F*cking in Frat parties, In house Parties, Halloween Parties, Sex-Orgy Parties, graduation parties etc. In short, F*cking in everything that have the name "PARTY" attached to it.

They will Divorce, Re-marry, Divorce Re-marry again, Divorce- Remarry all over again till they reach their evening Newspaper age.

They will end up scouting for SIMP- F*ckboy or F*ckMan to be oiling their MILF- Kpekus, the so called F*ckboy will be given a dog neck tag called Husband and will willingly accept stupid rules like Open Marriage, Couple swapping, Cockholding, Girls night out parties and now another new name DINK or na SINK angry angry angry


I lived and schooled in the US.
The weakest and the most stupidest men on earth can only be found in the US.
An American man can permit his wife to go and F*ck her gym instructor because she told him that she feel like doing it undecided undecided undecided

Forget about Hollywood those Americans are very weird mostly the whites grin grin

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AngelicBeing: 4:50pm On Nov 22, 2024
kingharzy:
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this
Hahaha ๐Ÿคฃ, your cat is drunk and crying ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Fryx: 4:50pm On Nov 22, 2024
Franzinni: 4:54pm On Nov 22, 2024
Dink haha these Genz can come up with acronym for everything.. like telly tubbies.

If you don't have kids it means you have successfully ended a bloodline that has survived for 3.6 million years.

You are the fruitless branch of your ancestral tree

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luuvv: 4:54pm On Nov 22, 2024
E no go better for DINK.

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MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 4:54pm On Nov 22, 2024
kingharzy:
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this

This cat is so so f*cked up already... See eyes ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜น

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MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 4:55pm On Nov 22, 2024
luuvv:
E no go better for DINK.

I think ๐Ÿ’ฌ it's cool ๐Ÿ†’ though cool

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DamnnNiggarr: 4:55pm On Nov 22, 2024
shocked

Please what is NINK?

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