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Why are those foolish people urging her to say yes? Are they in the relationship with her? Nigerians should learn to mind their business

It is a big aberration that a man should publicly propose to a lady.

It doesn't show more love or dignity.

Your love life or feeling is a personal affair. Why make it public?

Glimpsetv:
Men, Always Be Sure Before Going Public: Lady Rejects Boyfriend's Proposal in Public.

This seems to keep happening, yet men don't seem to learn from the mistakes of others. We've seen topics like this on platforms like Nairaland time and again, and I believe men should reconsider public proposals.

If you must propose publicly, it’s better to do so in front of a few close friends or family —people who won't embarrass you if she says no, and who won’t let the moment go viral, as happened with this young man:

A young man was left stunned when his girlfriend refused to accept his ring after he went down on one knee to propose in public.

Surrounded by a crowd, he hoped for a yes, but she declined the proposal for reasons known only to her. Despite the onlookers cheering and urging her to say yes, she firmly said no. In disbelief, the man removed his sunglasses to look directly at her, but it didn’t change her decision.

Men, always be sure she is likely to say yes before proposing in public. This will help avoid rejection and the kind of public embarrassment this man experienced.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzwJ_aajPpM?si=N_e_eY769cfjU12L

floss:
Ask married couple that have done 5years and above in marriage if they’ll still go into marriage if given a second chance, you’ll notice that 70% of women will want to go into marriage the second time, probably 25 out of 70% of those women will want to continue with the same partner, 45% will want to test new partners, then 30% out of 100 women will prefer to remain single and avoid marriage the second time.

For the men, 80% of men will prefer not going into marriage the second time whether with old partner or new partner. 20% will want to continue with marriage, out of which 5% will want to continue with their current partner, 15% will wish to change partner.

So what’s so special about the rush and adrenaline of marriage, be fruitful and multiply and conquer the earth was the instruction and not marriage… humans are sexual beings and wants to explore, sex shouldn’t be the prize for marriage, it should be a choice and voluntary.

In the beginning, there was no problem until man created problem for himself, started looking for solutions for same problem he created

You are very correct. Many of us wish that marriage is like a contract that you can walk out or renew after 10 year, may will be checking when it will be ten and move out kiakia.

ValCon888:
When you kneel down for a worthless girl in the name of marriage proposal, you're indirectly telling the world you're worthless.

You are announcing to the public you do not see any value in yourself.

When I got married to my wife almost 20 years ago, I just casually told her when should we get married, then she hurriedly pick a date. This kneeling down is unafrican and most importantly it is unnecessary. I believe boys that does this going on there knees want to presurise the lady to accept their proposal.

Men who do this proposal thing and get disgraced deserve it. Extravagant or open marriage proposals is not our culture and I think it is for attention seekers with low self esteem.

luminouz:
Only a foolish simp does this nonsense..

You wan marry a woman...tell her..go to her parents house and do introduction... Manly stuff!!!

All these public kneeling and proposing is just so wrong!!! What's the significance? Who thought that shiit was even cool in the first place, for God's sakes!!!

But men will keep disgracing you all the time. You are the one paying bride price, feeding and taking care of her and the whole family you are having...yet you are still kneeling to beg her to accept coming into your life to eat your money?

The most annoying part is when you look at the girl they knelt down for, shame go catch you!!! Women that other men used three agbalumo to fûck. Some 3 indomie, some Netflix and B Naija + generator! It's so fucking annoying!!!

*Breathes hard* these simps won't give me heart attack today. Let me just go on my own jeje!!!

I just don't understand these dudes AGAIN!!! Is the water or food or music or some virus that's preventing men from seeing the truth?

I swear... I feel like appearing in d scene and give d he-goat a strong slap

mikkyangel3:
She accepted the money but rejected his ring.

Why does he look so rough though?

This kind of girl double or even triple date. They have their preferred candidate, others are there to bankroll their engagement or expenses, if the preferred candidate propose one hand they will accept.

mikkyangel3:


I believe you are a fool.

You arent a virgin, so why are you looking for virgins?

Or the ladies you disvirgined are to be kept for who?

na ogun go kill u there ashawo....Ogun kpai u there...animal

Men, be a man. Talk to the men in her house. Be a man. Go to her family

Simps everywhere

Them no dey hear word! Private is the way to go da

This is not our culture.Learn to emulate and understand how our forebearers did it.

Zooposki:


Yet na divorced, widowed men etc dey rush enter marriage . Even faster than Usain Bolt speed to get married again.1 wife is not even enough for you greedy fools, but most of you insists on 4. Hypocrites. Spits at the gaslighting.

It’s like you chose not to understand what I wrote or maybe that’s your nature… men will prefer being single and having access to fvcking any lady they desire than going into marriage all because of sex…

Currently a large number of men will prefer having any lady they desire and sleeping with her than marrying her because of sex… this is why men don’t see marriage as an achievement but women do. There’s nothing there for men in marriage, there are alots of benefits women see in marriage before going into it. Marriage is a big loss to a man, men will prefer having access to women than marrying any due to the decay in the society where the girl child is poorly educated and trained on how to be a good wife.

Orlu13:




na ogun go kill u there ashawo....Ogun kpai u there...animal

You sound pained.

Did the truth hit home?

Instead of countering with facts, the unwashed Hoi Polloi resort to ad hominem.

You should be with your kind in the forest, grazing for pasture and not on the Internet.

floss:


It’s like you chose not to understand what I wrote or maybe that’s your nature… men will prefer being single and having access to fvcking any lady they desire than going into marriage all because of sex…

Currently a large number of men will prefer having any lady they desire and sleeping with her than marrying her because of sex… this is why men don’t see marriage as an achievement but women do. There’s nothing there for men in marriage, there are alots of benefits women see in marriage before going into it. Marriage is a big loss to a man, men will prefer having access to women than marrying any due to the decay in the society where the girl child is poorly educated and trained on how to be a good wife.

Their preference does not translate to action, so it’s all in your head. Women take action.

mikkyangel3:


You sound pained.

Did the truth hit home?

Instead of countering with facts, the unwashed Hoi Polloi resort to ad hominem.

You should be with your kind in the forest, grazing for pasture and not on the Internet.

Ogun will still strike u nd that ur ruptured kpekus...animal


Ogun plus amadioha fire u

Zooposki:


Their preference does not translate to action, so it’s all in your head. Women take action.

u ladies are only needed fr childbearing alone...if there is a place where ppl cn go nd pluck children, u women will never be needed...the most useless creature God ever created...God's only mistake

Does he look like a responsible man .. wearing earing.. maybe that is why she rejected you

Mumu man..it's the girl that should even be kneeling down and proposing

At least say yes and save the guy from embarrassment and return his ring afterwards. Some guy can be so stupid some times though.

Orlu13:



u ladies are only needed fr childbearing alone...if there is a place where ppl cn go nd pluck children, u women will never be needed...the most useless creature God ever created...God's only mistake

Robots on the way for people like you. Image 2 is a white man in an investment forum I belong to, telling us how he takes care of his newborn baby, while you African men hurl out stupidity from your rotten maggot infested sepulcher, as your continent remains a shithole.

See as e dey look, Mr. slowpoke🤔
Buoda ode
Nonsensical nonsense

i like the part that says he was left STUNNED!

luminouz:
Only a foolish simp does this nonsense..

You wan marry a woman...tell her..go to her parents house and do introduction... Manly stuff!!!

All these public kneeling and proposing is just so wrong!!! What's the significance? Who thought that shiit was even cool in the first place, for God's sakes!!!

But men will keep disgracing you all the time. You are the one paying bride price, feeding and taking care of her and the whole family you are having...yet you are still kneeling to beg her to accept coming into your life to eat your money?

The most annoying part is when you look at the girl they knelt down for, shame go catch you!!! Women that other men used three agbalumo to fûck. Some 3 indomie, some Netflix and B Naija + generator! It's so fucking annoying!!!

*Breathes hard* these simps won't give me heart attack today. Let me just go on my own jeje!!!

I just don't understand these dudes AGAIN!!! Is the water or food or music or some virus that's preventing men from seeing the truth?

I think it's the sex 🤣🤣

Its better to confirm outdoors , before gateman become landlord

Zooposki:


Their preference does not translate to action, so it’s all in your head. Women take action.

Well that’s just one, we all know how this plays out within women’s community. A lot are really hellbent having it go their way as long as they feel they’re in control

nasbiafra:
i don talk my mind so if you like insult till tomorrow e no change the fact say i don post waiting i like,no be your papa or mama buy data for me.

are you married?

Orlu13:




Ogun will still strike u nd that ur ruptured kpekus...animal


Ogun plus amadioha fire u

So much anger.

Have you eaten today?

I am not the person undoing you.

Hold your Tibunu president by the balls

Glimpsetv:
Men, Always Be Sure Before Going Public: Lady Rejects Boyfriend's Proposal in Public.

This seems to keep happening, yet men don't seem to learn from the mistakes of others. We've seen topics like this on platforms like Nairaland time and again, and I believe men should reconsider public proposals.

If you must propose publicly, it’s better to do so in front of a few close friends or family —people who won't embarrass you if she says no, and who won’t let the moment go viral, as happened with this young man:

A young man was left stunned when his girlfriend refused to accept his ring after he went down on one knee to propose in public.

Surrounded by a crowd, he hoped for a yes, but she declined the proposal for reasons known only to her. Despite the onlookers cheering and urging her to say yes, she firmly said no. In disbelief, the man removed his sunglasses to look directly at her, but it didn’t change her decision.

Men, always be sure she is likely to say yes before proposing in public. This will help avoid rejection and the kind of public embarrassment this man experienced.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzwJ_aajPpM?si=N_e_eY769cfjU12L

As a guy if you are dating a girl for marriage you should know if she is serious or an oloshoism who just want to waste your time , if you ready for marriage if you find a girl you like go straight to the point tell her your intention if she says no forget her move on to next , I don't fancy this public proposal thing who are you trying to impress , na the public go marry your wife for you but before you do that do it in private first , see I don't encourage purposeless dating waste of time , if this guy here am sure he has dated this girl for long that is wrong , at the first instance highest two months let her know your intention if she can't marry you let her go immediately, guys stop wasting time long dating when you want to settle down you are wasting your time and finances, the girl go dey chop ur money but when e reach for marriage e go say no better find out on time , relationship should have a purpose same goes to all gender

if siofra no lie down propose to me make thunder faya me and her

mikkyangel3:


So much anger.

Have you eaten today?

I am not the person undoing you.

Hold your Tibunu president by the balls

Ogun go still fire u...ashawo