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As a man , you are doing your part, but she is not giving you enough sex .

And you are doing like mumu

you are a big fool

you are suffering

The Sexual Market Place is rigged against Men

Guys are slaving for women who do not merit commitment

Guys give away their attention easily

Most guys commitment is cheap and worthless

Most guys cannot approach women till they have money

Most guys are not just emotional they are stupid, extremely stupid when dealing with women

Most guys lack Authority

Most guys see women as equals

Most guys lack leadership traits

Most guys pursue women that are not interested in them

Most guys are ignorant about female nature

JESHAL007:
Men marry for love, women marry for provision.

Men can't marry who they don't love , women can marry who they don't love .

Do not Fear that gender like most fools who say women are hard to understand and comprehend

with redpill you are a wise man and would make the most informed decision with regards to any woman you come accross with

The saying that "Men marry for love" is false.

I have met many men who just marry women who are Conservative and family-oriented and won't give them headache. They don't really love to the women. They just want peace of mind.

Guys that are simping, please make the habit of visiting clubs, you think sex is hard,konji dey catch you, you have to behave like a mumu to get your spec, you are in love because she is attractive, when you see hot baddies, beautiful gals, even average looking one treated like shit and dogs, degraded by yahoo boys, you would loose every ounce of respect for women, you would detest cold approaching and wasting time to build affection with women, see simps with bastard money making women behave depravedly, women are ready to do anything when money is on the table, simps can fulfil all their fantasies for days, weeks, months, as long as their resources can carry them, is it party, orgies, gangbanngs,lesbian sex, fetish, anal, you name it

Any gal that loves clubbing lifestyle even the ones that became religious as they approached epiphany phase and the wall to appear as new creatures who have left that worldly lifestyle to fool a christian ignorant brother, be extremely careful with mordern women

RedpillAdviser:
As a man, Whatever you're doing with women, as long as your heart is not involved, you're winning. You'll lose the day you catch feelings

This is how I have been dealing with women for a few years now.

Rizzputin:


Good game is simply seducing a woman effectively & fùcking her in as little time and with little effort/resources as possible by STIMULATING her emotions

As a man you have time & money as your main resources. If you spend long amounts of time or used money to have sex with a woman... then that is by definition bad game.


Now there are the stages of game:

---First. At this stage, you successfully seduce her & fùck her

---Second. This stage, you keep her coming back for more. This is where you retain girls and put them on rotation.. the more girls you have the more enjoyable a rotation. The more times a woman fùcks the more invested she is


--Third... Keeping one or more multiple women loyal to only you in relationships for long periods of time (anything more than 5 years). This is the pinnacle of game. The ability to keep one or more woman loyal to you both physically and emotionally while you enjoy the pleasures of other women. Anything below 5 years doesn't count. Below 5 years is honey moon phase. Things are still going reasonably well... and things still feel novel. From 6 years onwards that's when the real game begins.

2 years is when most men fall off. 6th year about 80% of men fall off. By the 9th year only less than 5% of men can keep a woman loyal, devoted and excited.

To continue....

Good game requires you ACTUALLY meet women (online, during day, at night, social circle, events, schools) etc. The more experience you have with women, the better your understanding

Good game also requires your meet to fùck ratio should be solid. Meaning if you meet 10 women, you should sleep anywhere from 4 to 7 of them consistently. And they must be good looking. Fat girls or ugly girls do not count. Very Low status girls do not count too.

Regarding your question around learning game... you want to be able to create and maintain sexual tension... you want her to lust over you. BECAUSE if there's no lust then there's no love

90% of the time when a girl says "I'm no longer feeling my bf anymore" or "I no longer find him sexually attractive" it is BECAUSE her lust for him has died.


Recently, I met a girl a church good girl who promised God she'd never give blow jobs or fùck till she's ready (fiance or husband). She showed me her book where she wrote everything. And said she has kissed before and she takes these things very seriously.

Fantastic. Of course, I knew when a woman has immense lust for you... She'll do ANYTHING.

After we spent some time together, guess what she was doing? She sucked my dìck soo hard and her excuse was "I don't know what came over me" After we bleeped (she was a virgin) she cried that she has broken her promise to God. She was crying so much I had to console her and let her know sooner or later it would have happened and she's not a bad person.

Of course, after the whole consoling we fùcked again and made real love( one of my sweetest love making experiences)

I'm telling you this because lust is what she wants to feel towards you.

Female intimacy gadget industry is about $20 billion. Why? Because majority of what women fantasize about is how to get fùcked & used in the bedroom.

Once you inspire lust in her... She'll be grateful for you

You should grace this page more often Rizz. 💪

Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

^^^^^^^^^^
Reality of most Nigerian men, chasing women with low interest in them, simping hard, giving unnecessary attention to women who do not like them, trying to build rapport with women who treat them like thrash


Redpill aware men don't be stupid

The woman that chooses you and finds you interesting will be all over you

If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Have you noticed there's a difference between Nigerian women and other women? Like a big difference.

In of feminity & easy going. Just watch all these social media street videos, like ladies from other countries are very approachable, even our African countries.

Don't know if it's the economy or so much simps that we have so much masculine women around.

I can tell you for a fact, Nigerian men are suffering in the male-female relationships even to something as common like a girl giving a smile. Not to talk of s**x until they see sign that u have an apartment or small little tipping here & there to ginger them.

If you have a car & apartment you will bleep as much as possible since they're like fixated on the materials even without you spending if you have game as opposed to the poor guy in the street trying to make ends meet, before him bleep might take several hurdles from stripping the guy of his little cash to making bleeping hard ..and not that they aren't hornny as well or feeling the guy. Let me say plane wickedness abi a norm. Cash he could have used to improve himself and much more.

If you know their games, if you hate women, your hate for many Nigerian babes go be like times 100.

Nigerian men don suffer from bad leaders to bad economy to shitty women ( not all tho).

The ones that are easy going & full of life are like 1% but can mostly be found from 16-like 20 year bracket. Those ones no really send money too much.

You see all these 20 something plus to 30 if you see a very feminine one. Full of radiance, life and when you call her everything just easy going and cool ehh, they're like diamonds. Happen to have couple of them. The rest her shit!.

We can posit that, these shitty attitudes are mostly due to the economy, glorification of wealth & contribution of simps.

Why do you think several male empowerment influencers/redpillers on social media have gained so much followership? The niche is hot. If their contents aren't relatable, they won't be so famous.

You see that Ebonga Balthazar guy, I can tell you for a fact, there are 100 men, even, on these thread that have done x10 of it. Make I no talk. These are like the 1%. Mostly they never disclose nor kiss and tell. They're quiet about their "Balthapades" they understand the Nigerian women thing. And see them for what they are.

The thing is, many Nigerian women are like other women in the world, looking at the female nature; what is most surprising and most annoying is that, many Nigerian women own come add with shitty attitudes!.

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

You're not totally wrong.

Most of them can't even cope over here in the UK because things are bit different and only an handful knows how to go about things.

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Happy International Men's Day.

Listen Up, Men: Why a Woman with a High Body Count Is a Dangerous Choice for Marriage

Gentlemen, let’s get real. A woman’s history matters. If she’s had a high body count, she’s not going to make the stable, loyal wife you need to build a secure future. The truth is harsh, but ignoring it will only lead you to a path of frustration, heartbreak, and even financial ruin. Let me break it down for you, unfiltered and straight to the point. Here are 10 reasons why women with high body counts struggle to maintain stable marriages and are statistically more likely to divorce you.

1. She Will Always Compare You to Other Men

A woman who’s been with many men carries the memory of those experiences. She’ll measure you against every man she’s ever been with—how they made her feel, what they gave her, how they performed in bed. It’s a never-ending comparison game that you’ll never truly win. No matter what you do, she’ll always find a reason to feel dissatisfied because she’s used to variety. This constant comparison erodes the foundation of any relationship.

2. She’s Confused and Struggles to Know What She Wants

When a woman has been with multiple partners, it clouds her sense of direction and priorities. She becomes indecisive, unsure of what she truly values in a man or a relationship. Her past partners have left conflicting imprints on her, leaving her emotionally scattered. She lacks clarity, making it nearly impossible for her to fully commit to one man.

3. She Cannot Be Sexually Satisfied

Let’s face it: someone who has experienced multiple sexual partners often develops an insatiable appetite for variety. She’s used to new thrills, new sensations, and constant novelty. This makes it difficult for her to settle into a long-term, monogamous relationship. She may begin to resent you for not satisfying her unrealistic expectations, leading to infidelity or divorce.

4. She Is Likely to Have Had Many Abortions

With a high body count comes a higher likelihood of unplanned pregnancies and abortions. This doesn’t just leave physical scars; it creates emotional baggage that she brings into the marriage. Many women don’t openly share this part of their history, but the guilt, shame, or indifference toward life can surface in ways that damage your relationship.

5. She May Still Be Talking to Her Exes

Women with high body counts often maintain connections with their exes—whether out of nostalgia, unresolved feelings, or convenience. These lingering ties create unnecessary drama and mistrust in your relationship. Imagine competing for her attention with the ghost of every man she’s ever been with. It’s exhausting and unhealthy.

6. She Cannot Pair Bond with You

Pair bonding is the emotional connection that develops between partners in a committed relationship. A woman who’s had numerous sexual partners has weakened her ability to pair bond. Each time she forms and breaks a bond, the next one becomes harder to maintain. This makes it nearly impossible for her to fully attach herself to you, emotionally or otherwise.

7. She Is Broken and Carries Emotional Baggage

Every relationship leaves its mark. A woman with a high body count carries the emotional wounds, disappointments, and traumas of every failed relationship. This baggage weighs heavily on her and, by extension, on you. You’re not just dealing with her; you’re dealing with the emotional debris left by every man she’s been with.

8. She’s Used to Jumping from One Man to Another

Old habits die hard. If she’s spent her 20s bouncing from one relationship to another, she’s unlikely to break that pattern in marriage. The moment things get tough, her default reaction will be to leave and seek validation elsewhere. She’s conditioned herself to believe that men are replaceable, and that mindset doesn’t change overnight.

9. She Thinks She Can Always Replace You

A woman with a high body count often develops a sense of entitlement. She believes there will always be another man willing to take your place. This belief gives her little incentive to work through problems or value the relationship. Instead, she’s constantly looking for the next best thing, making her unreliable and untrustworthy.

10. She’s Ungrateful and Entitled

The more men a woman has been with, the more entitled she becomes. She’s used to being pursued, spoiled, and validated by men, which makes her unappreciative of genuine effort. Instead of valuing what you bring to the table, she’ll always feel like she deserves more. Gratitude is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage, and entitlement is its enemy.

The Bigger Picture

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make, and choosing the wrong partner can cost you your peace, your finances, and your future. A woman’s past doesn’t just disappear—it shapes her character, her mindset, and her behavior. A high body count is not just a number; it’s a reflection of patterns, habits, and values that are incompatible with the stability marriage requires.

The Data Doesn’t Lie

Statistically, women with fewer sexual partners are more likely to have long-lasting marriages. Studies have shown that women with high body counts have a significantly higher divorce rate compared to those with minimal sexual history. This isn’t about shaming; it’s about understanding the reality of human behavior and making informed choices.

Final Word to Men

Men, protect yourselves. Vet women ruthlessly. Ask the hard questions and don’t ignore the red flags. Society might tell you to look past a woman’s history, but the truth is, her past is a strong predictor of your future with her. Don’t gamble with your peace, your resources, or your legacy. A woman who’s lived recklessly in her prime years isn’t likely to suddenly become the stable, loyal partner you need.

Stay sharp, choose wisely, and never settle. Marriage is too important to leave to chance.

Basiljoe:
I have nothing to say other than:

The Cardinal Rule of Relationships In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

Biggest mistake I've made in love is dating a girl who was not worth it. I was a blue pilled slowpoke who believed in "Romantic love".
She was a promiscuous mgbeke, in fact na me make that girl dey exposed.

If I had invested that effort into learning a skill then. I for done hammer early.

"ONEitis: An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person. Usually accompanied by unreciprocated affection and completely unrealistic idealization of the said person." - Rational Male

"ONEitis is paralysis. You cease to mature, you cease to move, you cease to be you. There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE." - Rational Male

"There is no needle in the haystack – that is Scarcity / ONEitis thinking – the point is to mold yourself and any woman who you do exclusively end up with into your own frame." - Book 1, RM

"Whatever you do, don’t settle for one girl (oneitis) until much later in life. Play the field, spin plates, date lots of girls. This is the only way you’ll be able to separate the wheat from the chaff and realize what you really want in an LTR relationship down the road." RM

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

These girls are in survival mode, considering the status of Nigeria,it only heightens their hypergamic nature.
The tendency for them to be able to build connection is near Zero.

Understanding this saves you from a lot of nonsense.

According to someone, Nigerian girls are all useless.

Smartb0y:

These girls are in survival mode, considering the status of Nigeria,it only heightens their hypergamic nature.
The tendency for them to be able to build connection is near Zero.

Understanding this saves you from a lot of nonsense.

According to someone, Nigerian girls are all useless.

Love no dey
Romance Na scam
For poverty stricken nations the guy with coins is the highest bidder

The message of red pill has now become more important than ever before. Women are increasingly dominating the corporate world, displacing men from positions they once held. A vast majority of women have what I would refer to as persecution or victim complex. They have hijacked the structure of the workplace and infected it with the wokeness, inclusion and diversity virus, which is all aimed at eliminating men from leadership positions, including the regular white collar jobs in occupations dominated by men and elevating women regardless of their qualifications, interests and skill level.

We all know men work harder and take more risks compared to women on a macro scale and there's statistics to prove this. Exceptions, yes i know. From personal experience, most women will carry their bags once its closing hour, while a lot us that are men still stay back, working our asses off till late night. To be fair, some women also do this. But only a handful of women compared to men. This extra effort makes a big difference in who gets promoted to top positions or earn bigger pay. This explains why we tend to see most men dominate the top positions.

They have spread and are still spreading
propaganda about how the workplace is discriminating against women becuase they don't see equal number of women as men in those coveted positions that men worked hard to reach or in jobs dominated by men by virtue of their biological leanings. Their measure of fairness is seeing more or equal number of women with men in top positions regardless of whether they've paid their dues or not. I have no issues whatsoever with women getting to top positions provided they are ready to through the turbulent storm and pain that men experience, provided they have earned it and make all the necessary sacrifices to get to such positions like their male counterpart, but what I have seen from experience is women who are mostly unqualified or qualified but unwilling to put in the amount of effort and hardwork like their male colleagues champion equality to make up for the fact that they want the positions occupied by men without the responsibilities that come with it, thereby striving day and night to promote fake oppresion with the ultimate goal of denying men those opportunities and reserve them exclusively for women.

Women don't care about equality of opportunities as they most often times pretend to. What they care about is equalizing the outcomes regardless of what is required (effort, time, skill) to produce such favourable outcome. They cherry pick areas they want equality but you will never see them champion their woke culture in areas like going to war, construction industry, offshore drilling and operations due to the level of risks involved. But you see the white collar office job, they will die there.

Guess what? They use men to achieve their selfish goal. They will invite powerful men in high places to their women interest fora and brainwash them. These powerful men will then return and implement policies that will reduce opportunities for men, drop the number of men who are top guns and have laboured hard to reach such positions to create space for women whether they have worked as hard as the men or not. Or limit the number of men that can now aspire for such positions. Yet we're not seeing a corresponding outcome in areas dominated by women like nursing and social sciences. They want to reayain theirs and infiltrate men dominated areas due to extreme greed and jealousy.

Another thing that amuses me is the fact that the average man now carries this wokeness and equality on their head more than the female folks. Give them 5 minutes to talk about any topic of their choice in a public corporate gathering and see them talk about how women are oppressed in the workplace and how we need to give women more opportunities. In my mind, I'd be like wtf. Can we define this oppression exactly? In my several years of working, I have never witnessed a situation where an organization oppressed women. Women who have paid their dues get promoted and get to top positions. They might be few in number and the reason for this is mainly biological / nature, as most women tend not to like stress. They like the soft life which is okay. Why cant they be happy that they will marry a husband who's very much happy to go through that stress, earn big pay and spoil them silly so they can thrive and be the baby girl most of them want to be. Instead, they want to become men but do not want the take the burden of responsibilities along with it.
Most of these naive men just jump on the bandwagon of the bullshit that is being spread by the emotional creatures.

I have nothing but pity for men who champion this . I cannot but shake in my head in pity for men who call themselves feminists to form woke. It's okay...We're gradually seeing the ripple effects. In a matter of few years to come, I pity what will become and remain of men. If present trend continues, I predict a future where men will struggle to get jobs or put in more effort that will
take then high and ultimately be able to provide a life of comfort for their families. Men are very much happy to provide unlike women including
those that eventually get to high positions. Give women small power and money and see how they treat men.

Most of the women they are trying to elevate at their own detriment will never see them as equal again once they get to those positions they are eyeing. Immediately, their hypergamous nature will set in and desire men who are higher in status. They will not the regular joe who called himself male feminist that championed their interest.

The expectations of the society from men to provide, have money will never change. Broke men or men who dont have enough money will still never be respected. Yet men are going about ing women to have all their opportunities while they take the back seat. Men do not want to step up for leadership positions again because they want the women there in the name of being woke. I am starting to see this pan out. It's becoming reality and I kid you not. The number of women I see going to work every morning far sures that of men. Where are the men?

I know I have read here that we should be covet with our red pill awareness but I can no longer keep quiet. I am starting to speak up now and advocate for men's interest. I am now known for pushing fiercely (with respect, facts and logic of ciurse) against equality of outcomes. I do not hesitate to express my view on this subject matter whenever it now comes up in a way that is not condescending. I still have to be sensitive as women are not logical.
For example, we saw a picture taken from a symposium hosted by my group but located in another country. Then the female colleagues
started complaining of how there were fewer women than men at the company sponsored's symposium, so they wanted to see equal number of women. I pushed back seriously and defeated them with fact. Only 1 guy ed my argument while the other guys were on the women's side. Shockingly the guy that ed me once told me he was a male feminist. Perhaps his view had changed.
How can you tell from a picture that the fewer women count means they were not given opportunity? I asked the women the question. Where is the place of free choice, biological leanings that drive more men to choose a certain course or occupation and fewer women to choose same occupation? And there would be some other courses like nursing where it's vice versa (more women than men). Would we then say that the men were not given opportunity or were oppressed?
Everything about women is emotion. Sucks!
They still argued blindly. The moment I mentioned the construction industry like bricklayer work dominated by men as an example, it dawned on them how illogical and irrational their arguments were. Coincidentally there was a construction site just in front of us where men were working under the scorching heat of the sun. I called their attention to why they are not advocating for equality in that area. Omo! This alone dismantled all the arguments they put forward.

Before I would have just kept mum and watch them spread their propaganda just becuase I want to be covert with my redpill. In the end, the company will then find all manner of ways to get equal number of women as men even if it's not an occupation women naturally prefer based on their feminine and biological inclinations. It doesn't matter to the few women who are in the occupation. it's all about equalizing the numbers for women. They rob men of their God given talents by doing this. I have come to the conclusion that I shall no longer remaining silent but will use my position to advance and protect the interest of men.

For the records, I don't hate women but I will not keep mum and watch them destroy the malefolks. I have cordial relationship with these women and they have the utmost respect for me than other male colleagues that align with them all the time
as I tend to be very non-agreeable with their philosophy most times yet still show my caring and empathetic side by helping them solve problems. They have issues at work, they come to me and I'm always willing to share my knowledge with them that helps them in their work. But they respect me for not being a pushover. Perhaps they're faking their respect...I care less but I don't think so. They always want to come to me for advice which means they see me as a leader even though we are peers.
Most men think agreeing with women always will make women like them while in the real sense it's actually the opposite.

Happy International Men's Day to all the real men. I have to use "Real" as the quantum of weak and feminised men that abound in recent times is worrisome.

UppaZakum:
The message of red pill has now become more important than ever before. Women are increasingly dominating the corporate world, displacing men from positions they once held. A vast majority of women have what I would refer to as persecution or victim complex. They have hijacked the structure of workplace and polluted with wokeness, inclusion and diversity, which is all aimed at eliminating men from leadership positions, even regular white collar jobs in occupations dominated by men and elevating women regardless of their qualifications, interests and skill level.
[...]

Guess what? They use men to achieve their selfish goal. They will invite powerful men to their women interest forums and brainwash them. These powerful men will then return and implement policies that will reduce opportunities for men, drop the number of men who are top guns and have laboured hard to reach such positions to create space for women whether they have worked as hard as the men or not. Or limit the number that can now aspire for such positions.


Another thing that amuses me is the fact that the average man now carries this wokeness and equality on their head more than the female folks. Give them 5 minutes to talk about any topic of their choice in a public fora and see them talk about how women are oppressed in the workplace and how we need to give women more opportunities. In my mind, I'd be like wtf. Can we define this oppression exactly? In my several years of working, I have never witnessed a situation where an organization oppressed women. Most of these naive men just jump on the bandwagon of the bullshit that is being spread by the emotional creatures.

I have nothing but pity for men who champion this and I cannot but shake in my head in pity for men who call themselves feminists to form woke. It's okay...We're gradually seeing the ripple effects. In a matter of few years to come, I pity what will remain of men.

Most of the women they are trying to elevate at their own detriment will never see them as equal again once they get to those positions they are eyeing. Immediately, their hypergamous nature will set in and desire men who are higher in status. They will not the regular joe who called himself male feminist that championed their interest.
[...]

Before I would have just kept mum and watch them spread their propaganda just becuase I want to be covert with my redpill. In the end, the company will then find all manner of ways to get equal number of women as men even if it's not an occupation women naturally prefer based on their feminine and biological inclinations. It doesn't matter to the few women who are in the occupation. it's all about equalizing the numbers for women. They rob men of their God given talents by doing this. I have come to the conclusion that I shall no longer remaining silent but will use my position to advance and protect the interest of men.

For the records, I don't hate women but I will not keep mum and watch them destroy the malefolks. I have cordial relationship with these women and they have the utmost respect for me than other male colleagues that align with them all the time
as I tend to be very non-agreeable with their philosophy most times yet still show my caring and empathetic side by helping them solve problems. They have issues at work, they come to me and I'm always willing to share my knowledge with them that helps them in their work. But they respect me for not being a pushover. Perhaps they're faking their respect...I care less but I don't think so. They always want to come to me for advice which means they see me as a leader even though we are peers.
Most men think agreeing with women always will make women like them while in the real sense it's actually the opposite.

Happy International Men's Day to all the real men. I have to use "Real" as the quantum of weak and feminised men that abound in recent times is worrisome.

Men weak in mind have always been the backbone of feminism since its inception. When it comes to the conception of change and creation, you look to men. When it comes to creating and changing outcomes to favor themselves, women also look to men.

Emma Stone is a popular Hollywood actress that parrots that mythical gender pay gap feminist argument that has been debunked statistically, legally and logically several times over. But while filming a movie with Mark Ruffalo (Incredible Hulk actor and male feminist) she was able to convince the male actors that they should dock their pay for her to 'have parity with them'.
She said in an interview "And that's something they do for me because they feel it's what's right and fair." Mind you, at that time she was the highest paid actress in the world. Now she has "conquered" the pay gap is her pay getting docked for lesser earning actors? Is it getting docked for even lesser paid actresses? Equality is only to push themselves up.
The funny part is that the movie "Poor things" was just rife with her nudity and the actors upon seeing a self-serving adult child willingly exposing herself for a higher cut of the box office still divided their pay for her.

It is in women's nature to constantly test men's boundaries, to see what they can get away with. When they say things to men to have their way it doesn't matter if it's illogical - it's a number game - eventually, hopefully, their words will click with him or some other man - who knows little about female nature - to get what they want.

And Happy International Men's Day.

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Sit down thr, and believing you are superhero, the chats you are initiating, hundredth of guys/ men are doing it for her on daily, not until you fully enter her heart,...........wen you break the threshold and got into her mind, you are the one, that would even run from her chats, calls and romances.


Many of you guys don't know how nature and minds work, since you want to change how Almighty God designs humans/minds, you will continue wail,till thy kingdom come.

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Sit down thr, and believing you are superhero, the chats you are initiating, hundredth of guys/ men are doing it for her on daily, not until you fully enter her heart,...........wen you break the threshold and got into her mind, you are the one, that would even run from her chat, calls and romances.


Many of you guys don't know how nature and minds work, since you want to change how Almighty God design humans/mind, you will continue wail , till thy kingdom come.

@CaveAdullam pls I need your advice, we collect gals number whether from social events, cold approaching, placing ourselves where women are in abundance, yet no genuine desire, the chat is boring, Na we dey find ways to make chat interesting, infact we do our bests no to behave thirsty for sex, so that during the chat we appear as if we are trying to know the gal, we call her more, chat her more, create fun more, but no reciprocation, and it's not just one gal, it's almost all the gals we game, is it because of their abundance of options, is it because of our low status, why?