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Now it's no secret among Nigerians living in the UK that the hardest time you will get in the UK will be from a fellow Nigerian. They bone you on the street, look at you in anger, you greet them they don't greet back, you work with them they try to get you fired, they see you in a train and don't want to sit next to you etc etc. It's very fascinating to observe this behaviour . So why does this happen ?

It's very important to understand that the landmAss called Nigeria is just a geographic location like everywhere else on the planet. If you evicted all 200 million Nigerians from that location and filled it up with whites or Chinese, in under 50 years Nigeria will be transformed to a first world paradise and the whole world would want to japa into Nigeria because imagine a first world country that's blessed with that much resources and it's managed well ? It would be the ultimate pAradise on earth. Nigeria has the potential to be the ultimate pAradise on earth . So it's not the country that's the problem, it's the people.

When someone japas out of Nigeria he is running away from the people not the country. And when he sees the same people in the UK he trieS to run away from them. He tries to japa from them. He does not want to associate with them. It's the same people he japA from in Africa. In his mind he associates these people with corruption and violence and brashness and mismanagement and stealing and incompetence. So the Nigerian tries to japa from the Nigerian everywhere he sees him outside of Nigeria

Most especially the women

I watched a video of some yoruba women fighting in the UK. You hardly see the men fighting there.

diamond68:
Now it's no secret among Nigerians living in the UK that the hardest time you will get in the UK will be from a fellow Nigerian. They bone you on the street, look at you in anger, you greet them they don't greet back, you work with them they try to get you fired, they see you in a train and don't want to sit next to you etc etc. It's very fascinating to observe this behaviour . So why does this happen ?

It's very important to understand that the landmAss called Nigeria is just a geographic location like everywhere else on the planet. If you evicted all 200 million Nigerians from that location and filled it up with whites or Chinese, in under 50 years Nigeria will be transformed to a first world paradise and the whole world would want to japa into Nigeria because imagine a first world country that's blessed with that much resources and it's managed well ? It would be the ultimate pAradise on earth. Nigeria has the potential to be the ultimate pAradise on earth . So it's not the country that's the problem, it's the people.

When someone japas out of Nigeria he is running away from the people not the country. And when he sees the same people in the UK he tried to run away from them. He tries to japa from them. He does not want to associate with them. It's the same people he japA from in Africa. In his mind he associates these people with corruption and violence and brashness and mismanagement and stealing and incompetence. So the Nigerian tries to japa from the Nigerian everywhere he sees him outside of Nigeria

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Mynd44

Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.

justwise:


Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.

of course NOT ALL. There are no absolutes in life. i appreciate your contribution

justwise:


Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.

another reason she treated you like that is because you are behind enemy lines. You put yourself behind enemy lines and you are now the prey. Women like predators not prey. In the UK the black man is prey. In the pecking order of men we are at the bottom. It's white then Indian then black men. So we are prey. Not a powerful position to be in. Women like power and men in control. In the UK we have no power or control. So our women hate our guts in the UK. This why they always kicking their husbands out of the house

diamond68:
another reason she treated you like that is because you are behind enemy lines. You put yourself behind enemy lines and you are now the prey. Women like predators not prey. In the UK the black man is prey. In the pecking order of men we are at the bottom. It's white then Indian then black men. So we are prey. Not a powerful position to be in. Women like power and men in control. In the UK we have no power or control. So our women hate our guts in the UK. This why they always kicking their husbands out of the house

Is that why you left ran out of the UK? 😀

Mariangeles:


Is that why you left ran out of the UK? 😀

ermmmm let me consult lfa for answer

justwise:


Most, not all Nigerians, i have experienced both good and bad attributes, some Nigerians ladies especially are not friendly, they related to other nationalities than their Nigerian brothers.

A senior manager((A Nigerian lady) in a place i work turned her nose down on me, i mean i say hello with smile to her and she will keep a straight face, then i stopped greeting her completely till the day she left the company.

This is common among those chasing papers and freeloads , so if a brother can not offer any of that then you are not useful to them.

No Joy on the street. If, you can see through were they coming from I guess the action is justified..

diamond68:
ermmmm let me consult lfa for answer

Hehehehehe

Happy weekend to you, Sukkot.
(I don't think I'll stop addressing you as Sukkot any time soon)

Mariangeles:


Hehehehehe

Happy weekend to you, Sukkot.
(I don't think I'll stop addressing you as Sukkot any time soon)

lol hey happy weekend to you too Nne. I trust you are doing well. Oh yeah Sukkot will do just fine hehe

diamond68:
lol hey happy weekend to you too Nne. I trust you are doing well. Oh yeah Sukkot will do just fine hehe

I'm doing great, thank you.

Mariangeles:


I'm doing great, thank you.

its good to hear

xtianchris:

No Joy on the street. If, you can see through were they coming from I guess the action is justified..

There is no justification.

Our society is based on classism which some try to replicate abroad. While in the Uk ( 2006 ish) i used to attend one 9ja association monthly my uncle’s family. The doctors, real estate agents, nurses were the top dogs ( front row seat and respect), those without papers or were doing menial jobs were not accorded with respect. When those big guns had weddings, birthdays. They only invited fellow well to do.

Some people are also reacting to past experiences. You agree to house someone he fit go use your address for fraud, not help with chores and increase your utility bills.

In some of those associations, church and mosque included too much gossip and adultery going on there that some begin to avoid other Nigerians

The answer to your question is simple:

"I my neighbour" mindset.

Cc: Diamond68

Pochettino:
Most especially the women

I watched a video of some yoruba women fighting in the UK. You hardly see the men fighting there.

Uncle Gender Dysphoria, don follow talk.😂😂

Solofresh2:
Physically Weak but very selfish and dangerous sets of humans

Solofresh2:
This main reason is why I dislike women.I can serve under a man but never under a woman
Physically weak but very selfish and dangerous at heart

This sort of comment will not be allowed here.

Nigerians in UK are the "I mind my business...mind your business" type. Negative social lives, very boring place with bad weather. Managed to stay couple of years and then japa danu. Omo, I hate that place

** I speak for myself.

Iree o!

diamond68:
Now it's no secret among Nigerians living in the UK that the hardest time you will get in the UK will be from a fellow Nigerian. They bone you on the street, look at you in anger, you greet them they don't greet back, you work with them they try to get you fired, they see you in a train and don't want to sit next to you etc etc. It's very fascinating to observe this behaviour . So why does this happen ?

It's very important to understand that the landmAss called Nigeria is just a geographic location like everywhere else on the planet. If you evicted all 200 million Nigerians from that location and filled it up with whites or Chinese, in under 50 years Nigeria will be transformed to a first world paradise and the whole world would want to japa into Nigeria because imagine a first world country that's blessed with that much resources and it's managed well ? It would be the ultimate pAradise on earth. Nigeria has the potential to be the ultimate pAradise on earth . So it's not the country that's the problem, it's the people.

When someone japas out of Nigeria he is running away from the people not the country. And when he sees the same people in the UK he trieS to run away from them. He tries to japa from them. He does not want to associate with them. It's the same people he japA from in Africa. In his mind he associates these people with corruption and violence and brashness and mismanagement and stealing and incompetence. So the Nigerian tries to japa from the Nigerian everywhere he sees him outside of Nigeria

So you expected unity from Nigerians who never dreamt of leaving their country only to do so now because of useless government.
U expect such Nigerians to be in unity after leaving their divisive, treacherous and tribalistic country only to congregate somewhere they never envisaged.
Out of every 10 Nigerians that have Japaed, 8 would have stayed back if things were working.
In fact some were in exalted positions before they left for reasons known to them.
U expect the same Nigerians to congregate and become a force when they couldn't unite and become one back home.
Many Nigerians angrily sold out properties just to make sure their kids don't see such inhumanities again in their lives and you expect them to reunite elsewhere and foster what kind of unity.......the ones they couldn't get back home??

justwise:




This sort of comment will not be allowed here.

sorry sir

Nothing but pride.
Nigerians hate competition, so they see other people living abroad with them as competitors hence their "feel too big" attitude.

Not far from the truth

diamond68:
Now it's no secret among Nigerians living in the UK that the hardest time you will get in the UK will be from a fellow Nigerian. They bone you on the street, look at you in anger, you greet them they don't greet back, you work with them they try to get you fired, they see you in a train and don't want to sit next to you etc etc. It's very fascinating to observe this behaviour . So why does this happen ?

It's very important to understand that the landmAss called Nigeria is just a geographic location like everywhere else on the planet. If you evicted all 200 million Nigerians from that location and filled it up with whites or Chinese, in under 50 years Nigeria will be transformed to a first world paradise and the whole world would want to japa into Nigeria because imagine a first world country that's blessed with that much resources and it's managed well ? It would be the ultimate pAradise on earth. Nigeria has the potential to be the ultimate pAradise on earth . So it's not the country that's the problem, it's the people.

When someone japas out of Nigeria he is running away from the people not the country. And when he sees the same people in the UK he trieS to run away from them. He tries to japa from them. He does not want to associate with them. It's the same people he japA from in Africa. In his mind he associates these people with corruption and violence and brashness and mismanagement and stealing and incompetence. So the Nigerian tries to japa from the Nigerian everywhere he sees him outside of Nigeria

Apt analysis. The one in my class wants to be seen as academically sound....and they have persistently made him appear moronish.

diamond68:
another reason she treated you like that is because you are behind enemy lines. You put yourself behind enemy lines and you are now the prey. Women like predators not prey. In the UK the black man is prey. In the pecking order of men we are at the bottom. It's white then Indian then black men. So we are prey. Not a powerful position to be in. Women like power and men in control. In the UK we have no power or control. So our women hate our guts in the UK. This why they always kicking their husbands out of the house

Hmmm...deep!

lastkingsman:
The answer to your question is simple:

"I my neighbour" mindset.

Cc: Diamond68

And, I want to my neighbor mindset!

Charmingrascal:
Nothing but pride.
Nigerians hate competition, so they see other people living abroad with them as competitors hence their "feel too big" attitude.

Fact!

God abeg o

LordIsaac:

Apt analysis. The one in my class wants to be seen as academically sound....and they have persistently made him appear moronish.

really ? wow. care to expand ?