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Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.

Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.
Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.
Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?
I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?
I will appreciate any help I can get.
Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.

you dont have to apologize for having a preference... and people who are offended by it shouldnt matter to you. there is nothing wrong with a Nigerian preferring SA ladies. some women prefer dating tall dudes or rich men, its all down to your preference.
sadly, Nigerians dont have a great reputation in SA (due to the few Nigerian drug dealers and criminals over there) but also dont forget that South Africans have a love/hate relationship with Nigeria/Nigerians.

Lionessza6

Wannahowzit

JaceBlaze

MrBrownJay1:


you dont have to apologize for having a preference... and people who are offended by it shouldnt matter to you. there is nothing wrong with a Nigerian preferring SA ladies. some women prefer dating tall dudes or rich men, its all down to your preference.
sadly, Nigerians dont have a great reputation in SA (due to the few Nigerian drug dealers and criminals over there) but also dont forget that South Africans have a love/hate relationship with Nigeria/Nigerians.

Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.

Singletonn:

Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.

Alaye, you're just full of lust.

1Sharon:


Alaye, you're just full of lust.

You can't be real.

Be very careful man, the girl may like you but south Africans in general are hateful, they hate nigerians with ion, don't say we didn't warn you

I have a lot of female south African friends but we're just friends, I will never think of marrying any them, think about your future children and how they will be treated

You can go for girls in other african countries

Singletonn:

Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.

btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women

Singletonn:

You can't be real.

Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?

MrBrownJay1:


btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women

Now, these are plausible options.
Thanks.

1Sharon:


Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?

I am a very honest person and yes the "physical" attributes are as important to me.

1Sharon:
Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?

but the physical attribute should be the initial/unique reason why you would/should decide to approach someone. thats the only thing that a person notices before he/she decides to approach someone. we've never heard someone saying:" oh that person is foul and ugly but let me approach her because maybe she has good character". physical attraction is everything when meeting a stranger.

1Sharon:
Lionessza6

Wannahowzit

JaceBlaze

Dating a Nigerian man is taboo in SA unless he's feeding you drugs. That's the only logical explanation a South African would date corrupt Nigerian guys.

You are not even in South Africa yet


This one no serious

WannaHowzit:


Dating a Nigerian man is taboo in SA unless he's feeding you drugs. That's the only logical explanation a South African would date corrupt Nigerian guys.

why dont your women desire you guys, the same way they desire and rush naija men?

Could it be because South African men are lazy, rape their women and beat them?

Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.

You sound like a southern African who is promoting South Africa women. these are the South Africa women I keep seeing on Facebook

1Sharon:


Alaye, you're just full of lust.

no .. he wants something genuine, he doesn't want lies and deception reason why he's not trying to be down wirh your ilks..

MrBrownJay1:


btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women

.. I think he meant the TYLA esque looking kind of south Africa

Singletonn:

Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.

Its really not about education boss..

MrBrownJay1:


btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women

Um...no there are differences... In south Africa we can instantly identify a Zimbabwean.. South Africans look a lot like Batswana not Zimbabweans or Namibians

Graysons:
You sound like a southern African who is promoting South Africa women. these are the South Africa women I keep seeing on Facebook

You on the other hand sounds jealous.. not suprising though..you're a certified Nairaland troll with nothing to add but negativity

God1000:
Be very careful man, the girl may like you but south Africans in general are hateful, they hate nigerians with ion, don't say we didn't warn you

I have a lot of female south African friends but we're just friends, I will never think of marrying any them, think about your future children and how they will be treated

You can go for girls in other african countries

Nonsense..we aren't hateful, we hate those that take us and our country for granted. Yes, in SA Nigerians are hated with ion...and that hate didn't fall from the sky

Gadafii:
why dont your women desire you guys, the same way they desire and rush naija men?

Could it be because South African men are lazy, rape their women and beat them?

Lol... South African men don't run away with boats to settle in a Europe built by rhe blood and sweat of European men .. this "lazy'trope has no basis in reality none whatsoever. No country becomes like South Africa with a majority lazy populous..it cannot happen. Who do you think builds infrastructure, sweeps the streets and mines our minerals? The same "lazy" SA men, y'all just jealous

99.9 % of SA women prefer and date their own men..don't know where you get your nonsense you're spewing.. focus on kiling your women for their organs and leave us alone

Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.

Don't blame you though..we have argubly the most beautiful women on the continent

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/2384265/beautiful-south-african-girls/403

HIV dey hungry this one 😂😂

DeeScan:
no .. he wants something genuine, he doesn't want lies and deception reason why he's not trying to be down wirh your ilks..

I think it's rich that the worldwide casted men
are talking about lies and deception

KingCold:
Um...no there are differences... In south Africa we can instantly a Zimbabwean.. South Africans look a lot like Batswana not Zimbabweans or Namibians

yeah to you guys it might be easy to spot but to outsiders, you all look the same in that region of Africa.... same with putting Ethiopians/Eritreans and Somalians together in the east

MrBrownJay1:


yeah to you guys it might be easy to spot but to outsiders, you all look the same in that region of Africa.... same with putting Ethiopians/Eritreans and Somalians together in the east

You're easily differentiable to the Senegalese and y'all West Africans. but hey.

KingCold:
You're easily differentiable to the Senegalese and y'all West Africans. but hey.

I'm definitely following this thread

Singletonn:

You can't be real.

If those ladies whose pix u ed are your spec, its better you go for Nigerian women(Benue women in particular).

Whats the point going after a Southy lady without some gigantic laps and mountainous butt? Thats a waste of desire


If you dont mind doing a Zimbabwean woman in South Africa, then I can link you but if na original South African, me sef dey struggle to find

Disregard those SA guys trying to discourage U op. They (SA men) are the ones who dislike foreigners with ion especially Nigerian men so pay them no mind.