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cutecommend: 8:21am On Jul 07, 2024
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

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dawnomike(m): 8:54am On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding? This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
I think we should start from what is a 'Wedding' and when does 'Marriage' actually takes place.

Once a man pays the bride price, and the couple receives the blessings of the parents involved; the marriage is sealed already.

Every other thing is just Legal or religious validation.

So, once I pay the bride price and the two families agree and bless the union.... That's all!!!



#MyOpinion

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Righthussle: 8:55am On Jul 07, 2024
No.

As happy former slaves to the English people you need to do white wedding ( the official wedding of your former slave masters) before having sex so that the white man's god will bless your genitals and let you enter his white heaven when you die.

If my friend Femi hear this question, him go say Na Colonialism cause am. But I'll always disagree . no be Colonialism, no be only Africa English people colonize. Dem colonize India and China but

na only African people prefer to bear the names of their colonisers

na only African people wey, instead of to pour dry gin for ground to communicate with their fore fathers go prefer to kneel and drink the blood of a crucified man.

na only African people agree wholeheartedly say na god of Israel, their colonizers god na him create dem.

na only African people agree say the ways of their own fore fathers is evil

na only African people go give you the complete history of Israel and Saudi Arabia but them no know the name of the last king of their village.

na only African people prefer to worship their colonisers god wey dey collect 10% of their monthly income instead of the god of their fore fathers wey no need any percentage of their monthly income.

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Augustine2244(m): 9:01am On Jul 07, 2024
Forget all the Christian bullshit.
Traditional wedding is the main wedding itself and without White wedding, the marriage is 200% valid through and through.
A couple who have done the trad can have sex anytime, anyday, because they are already married.
Marriage rites have already been performed between the two families and sealed.
White wedding is just a complementary ceremony, nothing more.
Just watch how foolish religious fanatics from all these useless Pentecostal churches would come to attack this concept and criticize it harshly, quoting the Bible or misquoting it basing on what their useless pastors churned out from their demented brains.

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thesicilian: 9:17am On Jul 07, 2024
So your question basically is, Can Christian couples have sex after wedding? Maybe you should also ask if they can eat and drink water until their pastor gives go ahead

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yungkels(m): 9:18am On Jul 07, 2024
What they are already doing?

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Regardless: 9:30am On Jul 07, 2024
Biblically or should I say according to Jewish customs, once the bride price has been paid, they are now husband and wife. Since sex is only permitted between couples in the sight of God, a couple can technically have sex after their traditional marriage however isn't also better if they take their vows before God and allow a Man of God bless their union?

Sex that you will have endlessly in marriage, what is a few days or weeks that you can't wait till you take your vows before God?

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Donald7610: 9:31am On Jul 07, 2024
Don't mix-up wedding ๐Ÿ’ to Marriage

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Curious345: 9:56am On Jul 07, 2024
Hnmm.

Na person when Chop belleful nahim preek dey stand .

This current (confused ) istration is responsible for the exponential rise of ERECTILE DySFUNCTION (EDF) AMONGST Nigerian men today ...

Sex has no barriers. I'm currently having safe sexual relationship with 4 extremely cute and gorgeous ladies of different shapes ( not olosho please ,they're morally upright and working class ).. and I satisfy them vigorously

one is Ibo, one is urohbo, one is Yoruba
and one is delta ibo.

take note: safe sex.

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Tjra: 9:56am On Jul 07, 2024
Yes, they can lash.

Traditional wedding is valid and biblical.

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hopefulLandlord: 9:57am On Jul 07, 2024
its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike

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ybalogs(m): 9:57am On Jul 07, 2024
Why not? Not like they haven't been having it before sef. Nack on biko

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ruggedboych: 9:57am On Jul 07, 2024
lol, you wan tell me say them no de lamba when they first meet

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SlavaUkraini: 9:58am On Jul 07, 2024
No,

we would wait for the Pope to tell us when to Fรปck and replenish the earth.


You dey whine us abi ?

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Judolisco(m): 9:58am On Jul 07, 2024
Yes why not... That's d original wedding... After paying brideprice and you have d blessing of d father... D rest na ceremonial

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Raymondfayowole(m): 9:58am On Jul 07, 2024
Payment a dowry and blessings from each parents is Marriage. The rest na ceremony

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ybalogs(m): 9:58am On Jul 07, 2024
On a more serious note ,what matters the most is the dowry and concession. Church or traditional marriages are just celebrations.

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adieora(f): 9:58am On Jul 07, 2024
Yes,they can. Traditional wedding is the main wedding. White wedding was imposed on you by your colonisers. For the person that made the pst and gave an answer. That is only your opinion and it is not biblical.

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StopTheBan: 9:59am On Jul 07, 2024
You already called it wedding.... So no long talk!

Whether traditional marriage, court marriage, Islamic marriage, Hindu marriage... As long as both families have come together and come to an agreement, received dowry, blessed the man & woman as husband and wife... They can go on having whatever kind of s3x they want.

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Bellgal: 9:59am On Jul 07, 2024
Even before traditional marriage, they have been having sex so rest!!!!
People really know how to pretend ๐Ÿ™„

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Talismann: 9:59am On Jul 07, 2024
if you like no test drive your spouse first. You go see something

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Chibuzoc(m): 10:00am On Jul 07, 2024
grin you are a traditional couple for doing a traditional wedding.

Abi only you won do church wedding, traditional wedding and court wedding

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Ezechimaobim(m): 10:00am On Jul 07, 2024
The ones wey be virgins or not?

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oladitisd(m): 10:01am On Jul 07, 2024
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God bless you all
Sec5(m): 10:01am On Jul 07, 2024
I think your submission is apt. Have sex when you are done with every wedding.

If you can't hold back your orgies after trad, go ahead and cancel the white wedding. Don't come to the altar of God to be ed after your have ed yourselves sexually.
wolement: 10:01am On Jul 07, 2024
After the traditional they can have sex.
Stop promoting western marriage over our traditional marriage.

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STEWpid(f): 10:01am On Jul 07, 2024
Chai..





You mean the gBOLAr that has been actively working since?




I will keep on saying it, that;

We want to be Oyinbo, Israel, Arab, but Oyinbo, Israel, Arabian people doesn't want to be us!

The adopted religions further took our society to 1000 years back in of human capital development!


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ednut1(m): 10:02am On Jul 07, 2024
There was church wedding in the bible. Why are people wasting money on 3 different weddings. Meanwhile we are the poverty capital of the world nawa

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femi4: 10:02am On Jul 07, 2024
cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.
yes

Church wedding is a scam, not scriptural. It was invented by the whites

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Lordbinsmar: 10:02am On Jul 07, 2024
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Mummyfour(f): 10:02am On Jul 07, 2024
Absolutely. The payment of the dowry and acceptance of both families are what legalises a marriage. Every other thing is to spice it up. Marraige is local or traditional, don't let anyone deceive you.
And that is why if you go ahead and do any other type of marriage without paying dowry, that marraige will not be recognised at least according to Nigerian culture.

So yes, when you have paid dowry you can have sex with your wife. She is your wife..

Modified: dowry validates and signifies acceptance of both families. Any other thing is an icing on the cake especially in our part of the world. Don't let anyone deceive you. There was no where white wedding was recorded in the bible. It was just payment of dowry. Not that I am condeming white wedding, absolutely not! I am a believer and a staunch believer in if possible every aspect of marriage to be fulfilled, but don't allow anyone bully or gaslight you or take you on a guilt trip when you sleep with your wife after paying dowry. You are not committing sin please

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