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Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram , Nedu said:

“If you’re a real man never in your life allow your woman whether it’s your girlfriend, fiancée or wife have a male bestie. Don’t allow it. I know what I’m saying. A real man would not allow that.

“Secondly, never fight your fellow man because of a woman. Real men don’t do that. Even if you catch your partner cheating with another man, you don’t have any business with the man. It’s your woman who disrespected you in the first place. So, therefore, never fight another man because of a woman.

“Thirdly, don’t chase after a woman who doesn’t like you. Don’t do that. It’s a waste of your time and resources.

“Fourthly, real men don’t spend money on women who doesn’t add value to their lives. By value, it doesn’t necessarily need to be financial. It can be psychological, spiritual, emotional or otherwise.”

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Co-signed!

A woman with a male bestie is like a chicken who's friends with a Lion—it'll end up getting chopped.

But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

You dey mind the guy

Wise words just that a man should stand for his wife sha

Words on a marble...

I last year and the previous years there-in,when my then female bestie and I were still close.....As a Matter of fact, feelings were already creeping in and I could feel it.......Then,came the bombshell 👇

Months later,she told me about her new BF who had been wooing her for some time and she had just agreed to date him.......Omoh,na from that day I begin to set boundaries between the two of us ......This was someone whom we'd hardly go a day without speaking on the phone,at least like 5 times every day...All her aunts knows me so well..As a Matter of fact,they even see me as a younger brother to them,as well as her mom............ These days,we only view each other's status on WhatsApp and just by....Few days ago,I saw her status like--"We used to be besties,but I don't know what happened?".

I just smiled within,and said to myself--"The boundary I set was for your own good my sis"

Bottom line is that,as a guy,if your banny has a male bestie and still insist on not ending the bestie stuff, just know that you've got yourself a co-boyfriend..

Only Simps allow that . Who on earth doesn’t like to eat? That’s how opposite sex is to having sex with one another .
Guys who fall for such manipulation are one of the dumbest. I can’t have a female bestie or secretary only with exceptions. ( she’ll definitely be fat and unattractive to me) temptation is constant stay guided.

True! No male bestie with me, period!

Some will disagree... Dumb ones

Yea. On Point.

Endorsed

Real men love big nyash.

Real men don't keep girlfriends in 2024 when everybody is fvcking everybody. Last week, my guy knacked two different girls that had serious boyfriends. One knacked him because she needed money. The other one knacked him because she was bored of her boyfriend who's a sailor.

In both cases, they pretended to their boyfriends that they were hanging out with their male besties. I felt sorry for both dudes... But he still knack them. Na man dey do man.

Meanwhile, all the female besties I've had ended up being laid. Not that I asked, but they asked. At a point, they would start comparing themselves with your girlfriend and start dropping comments like "Your girlfriend dey enjoy oo. What does she have that I don't have. You think she sabi.. wait until I catch you. There is nothing she dey do wey I no fit do more sef. My nyash is bigger softer than your girl own. You like to chop bone."

Why on earth my wife will point to me a man as her bestie, it will never happen and 'if' it happens I will set boundaries and barriers immediately between them, that will cause her not to have anything to do with that jobless man called bestie not to follow her up and down.....I know how to do, it's my works..... separation alert between them.

The only male bestie my wife can have is Jesus. Any other would be thoroughly blown to smithereens

Everything he stated is 10/10...

Talking from experience.

That bestie shit is foolishness just as the ‘hoe-phase’ rubbish girls peddle these days

The bestie will fucck her

Very true
Some girls do use their ex as bestie

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

he learnt and became a "real man". Experience made him a real man

Marriage is not war or a monitoring game.

Fact

He has learnt in a harder way. That treatment awaits all Simps especially those on Nairaland
All Simps don't end well in life

All men should say NO to SIMPing and embrace Alphaness for their lives
Avoid boreholes with everything in you especially the 33+bittered souls

Be the the ALPHA male and be the happiest forever
I know Simps won't understand this

Man and woman doing bestie is like bringing iron and magnet together.

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

Who asked you? Busy body wide mouth. ODE.

UnknownT:
he learnt and became a "real man". Experience made him a real man

There is no guarantee that he has learnt.

Man or woman who is into serious relationship and still claiming he/she has bestie, apart from the person she has serious relationship with......I pity the partner, cos the partner not yet ready to go into serious relationship/Marriage with serious minded partner.

He/she still deceiving herself in the hand of community tools

You no lie, we always learn the hard way

Okay

Never in your life marry a woman who is not a virgin.
Don't sponsor wedding ceremony, pay bride price and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie. Be wise.

Once she's not a virgin, fvck her and let her go when you're tired of her pvssy. Never marry her. Take your turn and let other men take their turn.

If you want a lasting, happy home which you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a young virgin woman and marry. If you marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by other men, you will train another man's children because she will always go back to fvck her ex whenever he shows up to her on the market or on Facebook. Be wise.


BETTER TO SUFFER TO FIND A VIRGIN AND HAVE A HAPPY HOME THAN TO MARRY THE READILY AVAILABLE WH0RES AND SUFFER IN YOUR HOME.

once she has a male bestie, no second chance......Dump her IMMEDIATELY
Dont negotiate anything with her, dont even try to change her.....just let her go, if u attempt to make her change, ur tears will be

It should apply both ways