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Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. (29678 Views)
chriskosherbal(m): 4:09pm On May 09, 2024 |
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id4sho(m): 4:09pm On May 09, 2024 |
2aces:They are coming for your head 1 Like |
ssogundele2003: 4:09pm On May 09, 2024 |
It's all about blacks. Where ever they congregate, there must be drama. Caribbeans black are next level to advance level of drama
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AuschwitzPrefec: 4:10pm On May 09, 2024 |
Anytime I am abroad , I try as much to avoid Nigerians. The reason for me leaving Nigeria in the first place is to get away as far as possible from Nigerians so why should I be in the US or UK and mingle with same people I am fleeing from when I can interact with virtually any other nationality from across the planet. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
unclejb2(m): 4:13pm On May 09, 2024 |
Biggie225:that's why you are going to remain here, and complaining about Fulani herdsmen massacre everyday 1 Like |
bemeruca: 4:15pm On May 09, 2024 |
grommet: This is not true. 2 Likes |
Airlord2030: 4:15pm On May 09, 2024 |
That's why it is good to stick to your tribe when abroad.
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Mayrada: 4:17pm On May 09, 2024 |
Learn to mind your business
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cococandy(f): 4:17pm On May 09, 2024 |
It can depend on where you live. I’ve never been a part of any toxic abroad community. In fact it’s been hard to even come across Nigerians in some of the places I’ve lived. At least not enough to create a big community with. Now I’m in northern California and there are tons of Nigerians here. But get this, everyone is a professional and has a lot to lose if they were to engage in detrimental behaviors. So the community here is above board and everyone respects themselves 17 Likes 4 Shares |
NovusHomo(m): 4:19pm On May 09, 2024 |
grommet: You are the company you keep. 3 Likes 1 Share |
udomonday: 4:21pm On May 09, 2024 |
Erimmy2:a broke man gets his ass up and work.not idling away and begging. 4 Likes 1 Share |
valentineuwakwe(m): 4:24pm On May 09, 2024 |
If you have been hurt by a Nigerian abroad doesn't mean the Nigerian community abroad is toxic......here in niaja we all learn to live by our neighbours and despite all the govt sufferings on the masses we are still smilling! They say life abroad is "boring and "mind-your business ", so why wont a Nigerian be happy to see a fellow abroad? Why cant they mingle n discuss how to survive in "obodo oyibo "? To me Nigerian community abroad is the best n full of fun..... 2 Likes |
drnoel: 4:26pm On May 09, 2024 |
grommet: Lol, if you know you know. Only novices don't know how to use their tongues to count their teeth |
when2(f): 4:26pm On May 09, 2024 |
[quote author=grommet post=129864853]I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it. Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts [/quote Your problem is inferiority complex. 3 Likes |
when2(f): 4:28pm On May 09, 2024 |
2aces: Including your mum and sisters? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Father4all: 4:28pm On May 09, 2024 |
Don't you know Nigerians don't like minding their business. Must you stay in their midst?
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busomma: 4:30pm On May 09, 2024 |
U're in the wrong crowd. Look 4 progressive associations & .
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omoredia: 4:30pm On May 09, 2024 |
You that u are complaining are you also not like that?
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GambaOsaka: 4:30pm On May 09, 2024 |
This guy is funny sha. Dem never tell you before you come ? Say it’s all man for himself. Nobody owes you anything Most people mask their pains and problems with fine clothes and perfume. Guy go fine work Abeg. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
drnoel: 4:31pm On May 09, 2024 |
CartelKenneth: No, scientists are trying to confirm that the location of the tower of Babel was wrong. Many learned people suspect and think it's was in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Santalpharay: 4:31pm On May 09, 2024 |
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elasticlala: 4:31pm On May 09, 2024 |
grommet: This is hasty generalization! That might be your own experience. I wonder the country and Nigerian community you are referring to. To be honest, the Nigerian community in the state where I live in the USA here is nicer than even my family in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Gajagojo: 4:31pm On May 09, 2024 |
There are hundreds of Nigerian communities all over the world Not one So your premise is faulty You have to have something in common E.g Not all Nigerians believe in God Not all Nigerians believe in Marriage Age wise you have Over 70s ,50s, 30s Some are fraudsters, prostitutes and drug dealers Some are doctors lawyers etc The fact that we are Nigerians does not mean we belong in the same group or class Just like with Nairaland Many people meet you here and assume you are mates or in the same social class 4 Likes 1 Share |
yemclef(m): 4:32pm On May 09, 2024 |
veekid: Killed..haaaa |
onadana: 4:34pm On May 09, 2024 |
2aces: An irresponsible woman is an irresponsible woman regardless of geo-location.There are still good responsible women,I know of a nurse who traveled to the UK and sent for her Electrician husband. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Macdeey: 4:36pm On May 09, 2024 |
Nacking is one of the ways to deal with stress and get out of loneliness !!! Going to Bar is not my kind of thing ! |
Sweetvie: 4:37pm On May 09, 2024 |
SpatialKing:Exactly |
Squirrel1(m): 4:39pm On May 09, 2024 |
Nwaikpe:why always the igbos though? Y'all inferiority complex is too much! 3 Likes |
Macdeey: 4:39pm On May 09, 2024 |
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sheldonbbt: 4:39pm On May 09, 2024 |
I am trying to avoid Nigerians as much as I can. It is really annoying. I housed someone for a year abroad without them contributing to rent, but it appeared as if I did them wrong by asking them for their plans to get a place. The individual prefers speaking to mutual friends in language I don't understand. Infact 99% of his phone calls are in his local dialect which I do not understand. I have every reason to suspect the individual was already gossiping about to people and it is quiet painful cos I don't know the lies that has been told. 12 Likes |
Macdeey: 4:39pm On May 09, 2024 |
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