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Iykegodslove:


The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

I just confirmed that this story is a fictional story in secret search of likes and comments

Fikkoski:
Why should we keep loving those who don't love us?
Why should we keep respecting people who don't respect us?
Why are we afraid to lose people who do not value us?

You know exactly what to do but you are acting confused because you are afraid of doing it!

I dont know the name you call the Almighty in your tribe or religion, but may he bless you richly. His wife no rate him at all and he is here thinking twice to send her packing, maybe na the wife dey feed am. For me either I will send the wife packing, or I will hire boys and shoot the man multiple times in his groin and blokos, if he survive am na he know.

When I was much younger, I read a book titled.. even the god's cannot stop a woman that is in love... Let me adjust the title.... Even the god's cannot stop a woman that has made up her mind to cheat.. since you already plan to forgive her no matter the gallons of sperm that has been deposited in her kontus then you need little or no advice because you have already advised yourself ... The only thing I will add is for you to be careful on the way you confront her so that you don't end up possibly dead from her revenge in the future since you still plan to live with her... Finally, I wish you the best as you enter into a state of perpetual unhappiness, sleepless nights, high blood pressure and depression due to the promiscuity of your wife.... It's very possible that he is not the first and only person she has cheated on you with ...

Iykegodslove:


The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

Hahahaha ...
You really dont need any advice my brother. Just keep your boss children and your cheating wife in peace. .since DNA test is not required to prove the paternity of your children also keep loving your wife !

Iykegodslove:


Thanks!!

this the best advice but for me ooo forget the love and kick her out a woman or man that cheats can also commit murder to keep it secret aside him do you know how many others is enjoying her punany

Never love a woman 2 much cos dey are unpredictsble and are good at hiding dere tracks . Jave lost count f married ladies i knack..om my own i just decide to pipe low cos i was tired
It was baf dat i was doing 3 some with arried ladies dey bring dere friends omly martied ....

At some point i just decided to call it quit . And cant trust any lady again ...i as nkt eben using cd ...i was rough with them talking dirty to dem and dey loved it .....

Since then i just sit and look woman and any man trusting woman has not seen life ...

marksonrick:
Women can't be predicted, you wouldn't know where you went wrong.

These days, it's as if a shot on any women and she'll fall for it.

With some women you don't have to go wrong....
They are moved by their emotions and not necessarily love.

I don't have strength to type much about the flimsy reasons women give for cheating, some cheated because they "liked his vibes"....just imagine that.

With these circumstances, the marriage is not worth going further with. DNA test your kids, gather all evidence and file for divorce.

To continue living with her and the knowledge of what you know is to number the days to your devastating loss. Your life inclusive.

Number 1: Do you talk romantically with your wife, do you have your moments or it is the usual talk of bring my food, children school fees , but no going out to eat and have your time.
Number 2: You can't say someone is cheating base on conversation without catching them red handed , people converse sometimes to live in fantasy land but the challenge here is the person is in the same town, assuming they were in different town or country, I would have said don't stress yourself, notwithstanding you need concrete evidence.
Number 3: Try when you first meet and up your game, campaign have to continue after election to avoid cross carpeting
Number 4: Brutal as it's go do DNA for your kids ... if your kids are yours don't stress yourself...A woman would always protect her kids first and all that makes them happy.

This is funny oo , this one wont last at all

Pls,always tell ur family that whatever happens to u,it is ur wife and his lover boy.

That alone,would help in caging both of them.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

First how did you hack your wife call ?

with which technology ?

get your fact right with evidence
confront the man with the evidence and make sure your wife and his wife is also present, use your words wisely with good wisdom.

then see what happens.

make sure you break him same way he broke you without been physical ... trust me after then you will know exactly what to do next.

Well, it just shows how women will always respect another man for seeing in that man what she expected to see in her husband!
Probably because she saw more sophisticated dressing or wealth in her boss she succumbed to him...
Really sad situation...you have to outdo her boss in everything for you to gain her fully on your side.

jaszplus12:
Well, it just shows how women will always respect another man for seeing in that man what she expected to see in her husband!
Probably because she saw more sophisticated dressing or wealth in her boss she succumbed to him...
Really sad situation...you have to outdo her boss in everything for you to gain her fully on your side.

something tells me you are making excuses for the hoe of a wife...so the husband should go extra-mile in proving to his wife (a cheap slut) that he is the right man for her.

I smell simping in your analysis...that woman should be kicked out ..and shamed before her family she doesn't deserve a faithful husband...she is a slut.

Babangidapikin:
Number 1 do you talk romantically with your wife, do you have your moments or it is the usual talk of bring my food, children school fees , but no going out to eat and have your time.
Number 2 you can't say someone is cheating base on conversation without catching them red handed , people converse sometimes to live in fantasy land but the challenge here is the person is in the same town, assuming they were in different town or country, I would have said don't stress yourself, notwithstanding you need concrete evidence.
Number 3 Try when you first meet and up your game, campaign have to continue after election to avoid cross carpeting
Number 4 Brutal as it's go do DNA for your kids ... if your kids is yours don't stress yourself...A woman would always protect her kids first and all that makes them happy.

I dey pity you with this your write up....pls read it again

Any man that makes excuses for a cheating woman is a FOOL

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

if you can't divorce and you are ready to forgive your wife then what other advice are you looking for abi

Oga how about you call her one on one tell her you had a dream n its so real, you saw her cheating with the MR A, that you caught them pants down and that what pained you the most was that she was not remorseful in that dream nd the marriage crashed .. then end it with babe lets pray

i hope you sabi act, @least you watch nollywood

this man don chop love portion ooo

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

The bolded is where you went/are going wrong.

Do you think your worth as a person is so little that you deserve to be cheated on? If you continue to put up with it, then that is the message you are sending to your wife..that you are worth whatever you get.

However, if you think you are deserving of more, then you need to speak up for yourself and your self worth.

Yes you love her, but you cannot love someone more than yourself. You have to think of yourself first because you cannot pour from an empty cup.

Confront her with what you know ( calmly, no emotions..hide it if you can). Tell her she has chosen for herself to be an unfaithful partner, that's it's her choice and you will not stop her from exercising it..she is a grown adult.

But also tell her YOU CHOOSE not be with an unfaithful woman and therefore both your choices are incompatible and you must go your separate ways.

If you love the kids as you've said, then all that remains is how you can play your part in their lives as a father.

I know a part of you will want to hurt her in retaliation, worry that she may get to ride into the sunset with the fella she is cheating on, and live happily ever after. Maybe, maybe not.

But if there is one lesson to be learned here, it is you cannot control the actions of another person, you can only control how you respond to it.

Make your peace with that, set her free and live your life.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

Simp, when HIV nack you, your mind go touch ground. Abi u no know, your mind go dey

Iykegodslove:


The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks

Your wife is taking advantage of you.
Be realistic and do the right thing.
1.Divorce your wife
2.Do a DNA test on all your kids.
Simple as ABC
don't wait until something bad happened to you before you become a realistic person

A woman cannot take what you are taking. Foolish man, who do us

A cheating woman will always cheat even if chose to be forgiven her 100 times.
Beware! If that woman got to know that you'd already know what is going on between her and the stupid man before you talk out, they might eventually kill you.
Go for DNA of your children and have rest of mind at once.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

Young man, you don't need advice again na. You have the answer, immediately I read you can forgive her and you don't wish to divorce her, so what type of advice do you need again?
I keep on telling young Men before marriage, condition your mind either you loose your future wife one day or you grow old with her. But immediately you have the mind set that I can not live/survive without my partner, that will be the day the Devil will visit you.
So now, it is your choice to make. You don't need advice because any cheat will always be a cheat any time, any day and with anybody tomorrow.
Peace

A cheating partner can infect you with all sorts of diseases HIV inclusive

Consider this as a gentle reminder

seetomorrow:


Young man, you don't need advice again na. You have the answer, immediately I read you can forgive her and you don't wish to divorce her, so what type of advice do you need again?
I keep on telling young Men before marriage, condition your mind either you loose your future wife one day or you grow old with her. But immediately you have the mind set that I can not live/survive without my partner, that will be the day the Devil will visit you.
So now, it is your choice to make. You don't need advice because any cheat will always be a cheat any time, any day and with anybody tomorrow.
Peace

Motivational preachers don enter him head. As a Man with open mind, you keep learning new things everyday

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

DNA first?
Do any of the kids resemble you?
Kick that bitchh out! Don't confront that man, you've got no business with him. I won't call you a poor man, you are doing well. Delete church settlement outta your mind

laivwire:
With these circumstances, the marriage is not worth going further with. DNA test your kids, gather all evidence and file for divorce.

To continue living with her and the knowledge of what you know is to number the days to your devastating loss. Your life inclusive.

Why court Waste of time and money. After DNA , am booting you out. Her mind go touch ground

condensedmilk:
This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Simple man

ibechris:
Pls,always tell ur family that whatever happen to u,it is ur wife and his lover boy.

That alone,would help in caging both of them.

Aswearugad, Your mind dey there. With their gragra, they avoid family issues. Elders no get love

babzlim:
get your fact right with evidence
confront the man with the evidence and make sure your wife and his wife is also present, use your words wisely with good wisdom.

then see what happens.

make sure you break him same way he broke you without been physical ... trust me after then you will know exactly what to do next.

He has no business with the man. Things can escalate, he should face his wife

jaszplus12:
Well, it just shows how women will always respect another man for seeing in that man what she expected to see in her husband!
Probably because she saw more sophisticated dressing or wealth in her boss she succumbed to him...
Really sad situation...you have to outdo her boss in everything for you to gain her fully on your side.

Foolish simp, I for commot your teeth if I know you. Idiot