NewStats: 3,265,033 , 8,185,388 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 08:22 AM 2g594y

Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

What is ROF?

Meanwhile, wearing white and beads does not mean Ogboni hip. Stop the profiling. Stop making conclusions without confirmations.

Why is your friend afraid of a traditional worshipper?
Funny people everywhere

You wrote all your words in full but decided to write and acronym of the main word

fyzaila:
You wrote all your words in full but decided to write and acronym of the main word

I wrote both ROF and Ogboni

Reformed Ogboni Fraternity.

immortalcrown:
What is ROF?

Meanwhile, wearing white and beads does not mean Ogboni hip. Stop the profiling.

Tell your friend to quit the relationship with immediate effect.

Tell him not to go ahead with the marriage plans.

What he has seen about the family will always torment him even in marriage.
Love is not enough.
Women are never truly christians, they attend church today and can be easily swayed the next.

Let him not proceed. There are other ladies out there that he can choose from

Boss tell your guy to sharply marry the girl.
You guy may need the man help later in the future, dis life is too spiritual.......

Believe me the man would never hurt his son in-law rather protect him if thing start going wrong

Dey play... If you need anything spiritual a juju man and not Ogboni people. Ogboni na wicked cult.

Ceenachi:
Boss tell your guy to sharply marry the girl.
You guy may need the man help later in the future, dis life is too spiritual.......

Believe me the man would never hurt his son in-law rather protect him if thing start going wrong

He should NOT proceed if his spirit is uncomfortable with it so it won't continue to haunt him or be the cause of issues.

Other than that, many of our parents had/have parents that were into the practice of traditional African religion (what we call juju worship).

What effect has it had on you as a grand child?

kingthreat:
Okay here is the story. One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.
He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.
So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.
There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man. But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.
I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.
House, what do you think?

it will surely end in regret cos when they give birth the father might say he wants to give the baby a traditional name or perform traditional rites on d baby n u don’t have any right to deny him cos that’s his grandchild n don’t forget the lady will always her family n she will always win cos “she told u before”

Foundation matters, do not let anybody deceive you except if you guys will deal with it before you get married.

When you guys get married you both inherit spiritual issues from both bride and grooms line as 2 has become one having an understanding of this will inform you both on steps to take.

Even the friend sef has his own in his family as long as you are African just that hers is her father directly and is closer to home.

If you will deal with it before marriage good
But as people especially the woke chiristain generation don't seem to believe in prayer, patterns and all that these days everything na wokeness, grace, coincidence bleh bleh bleh.....

Some churches before wedding you the couple run through different prayer programme's because of issues like this as it's rampant in lots of African families you hardly find families who doesn't have such for 3-4generations.

Can your friend and bride pay the price? If they ask them to fast for 3 days and pray can they do it. If they tell them they will run through deliverance several times can they do it?


We once did not rent a place because the owner was into some some of deity worship. And most people in the area never knew.

This is Africa.

Oga run for your life. Dem no dey tell pesin o!

immortalcrown:
What is ROF?

Meanwhile, wearing white and beads does not mean Ogboni hip. Stop the profiling.

Reformed Ogboni Fraternity.

Ogboni people are also humans like you ....they don't kill people

Your friend is scared about the girl's family, what makes him feel his is any better? Lemme guess, because his parents cover it up right? He should actually see how the girl handles it. If she takes it as a normal thing, he should run but if she sees it as abnormal and something she must fight against, he should stand with her and pray as they both start their life afresh . But most men don't pray, they feel it's the woman that should do all the prayers in marriage. Even when seeking for life partners na woman dey pray . A man thinks he can just pick any woman to marry. Marriage is deep and life is spiritual. If he is spiritually capable, he should prayerfully go ahead. Most importantly, let him seek the face of God concerning it.

Is your friend planning on hurting the lady at anytime? He doesn't want thunder to be arranged for him abi? I understand 🤣🤣🤣

Discuss with your pastor. And you too, carry fire. What if you break the lady's heart and her ROF father decides to run you mad.

Dogalmighty17:
Is your friend planning on hurting the lady at anytime? He doesn't want thunder to be arranged for him abi? I understand 🤣🤣🤣

Hahaha, the wrath of the girl fit be physical attack.
The wrath of the papa fit be spiritual attack. Believe me the latter is way worse.
Me sha once I hear anybody is into any spiritual shït, i run far away from you. Na so kanayo use him friends for that old Nollywood film😂

What relationship has light with darkness? Therefore, come out from among them and be thou separate. Touch NOT the unclean thing. That’s the command to him.

Op be a man, why are you afraid, anything that have disadvantage will always have advantage

Egungun is diabolical but fafa Xmas is godly.


Halloween is godly but traditional worshipers are evil


Continue o

He is probably a freemason member too

ROF be like ur church but dem worship God their way
Point of correction that ur pastor mak dey touch ur head do u know where his power is coming from
If na better ROF bro go ahead u have a better chance of getting connection through her daughter
No let anybody tell u rubbish the devil u know is better than the angel u don't know
Omo Na rubbish gals full outside u go regret

emmeyen:
Your friend is scared about the girl's family, what makes him feel his is any better? Lemme guess, because his parents cover it up right? He should actually see how the girl handles it. If she takes it as a normal thing, he should run but if she sees it as abnormal and something she must fight against, he should stand with her and pray as they both start their life afresh . But most men don't pray, they feel it's the woman that should do all the prayers in marriage. Even when seeking for life partners na woman dey pray . A man thinks he can just pick any woman to marry. Marriage is deep and life is spiritual. If he is spiritually capable, he should prayerfully go ahead. Most importantly, let him seek the face of God concerning it.

Bro u given a wrong advice
Ogboni Na Christian association
Ogboni aim Na to together and succeed no be to Dey do evil same as cult group
If u really interested in her go ahead with your business mak the man go ahead with his
That's means u can get married to a child of a king

Tell him to run. With what he saw there and how he felt, he better run.

Thanks all for your comments. From what was shared here I was able to give a better advice to my friend who I talked to over the night.
I told him that if he wants to run a serious Christian marriage, the background of the girl will affect it so it is better to quit now except the girl is ready to be a prayer warrior and have less to do with her family. But if he wants to run a normal marriage, he can go ahead.

My guy told me he wants a Christian marriage o. He told me he just spoke to his uncle pastor about it and the Uncle told him to quit. One, for him to complain that means he is no longer 100% sure about the marriage and that can raise issues in the future. Two, he said most occult men do spiritual things that eventually affect their children and marrying her will be fighting unseen battles he had no idea of. It is better he finds a way to breakoff slowly or let the lady know that his parents are not comfortable with the marriage because of her family background. He himself knows that his family will not accept that but he is willing to turn rebel and do what he wants to do. But now he's having a rethought.

At a point I could hear sounds of crying in his voice over the phone. Guy is still saying that this is the best lady he ever dated. Chei

kingthreat:
Thanks all for your comments. From what was shared here I was able to give a better advice to my friend who I talked to over the night.
I told him that if he wants to run a serious Christian marriage, the background of the girl will affect it so it is better to quit now except the girl is ready to be a prayer warrior and have less to do with her family. But if he wants to run a normal marriage, he can go ahead.

My guy told me he wants a Christian marriage o. He told me he just spoke to his uncle pastor about it and the Uncle told him to quit. One, for him to complain that means he is no longer 100% sure about the marriage and that can raise issues in the future. Two, he said most occult men do spiritual things that eventually affect their children and marrying her will be fighting unseen battles he had no idea of. It is better he finds a way to breakoff slowly or let the lady know that his parents are not comfortable with the marriage because of her family background. He himself knows that his family will not accept that but he is willing to turn rebel and do what he wants to do. But now he's having a rethought.

At a point I could hear sounds of crying in his voice over the phone. Guy is still saying that this is the best lady he ever dated. Chei

What do you define as a christain marriage? Just curious.



As for your friend, it's better he let's her know his decision on time not rigmarolling around it so she can consider other offers.

Idiot. Whi h him.
Always lying. U know all of these so much.
Alaye na u .free the gal run. Which dirty friend.unless u r gay.liar

2shure:
Idiot. Whi h him.
Always lying. U know all of these so much.
Alaye na u .free the gal run. Which dirty friend.unless u r gay.liar

The sooner you take the advice of checking into a mental facility, the better for you.