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I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

U funny bro
Can't u get 2 kitchen
Na Una stil Dey cause issue
Abeg na 2 kitchen
Mak everybody get he privacy no matter how small

Na man you be! How you Dey cope with two wives

Make the kitchen 3, as you will need one more wife in the future

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

build separate kitchen for each of them. Let their foodstuffs not mix so each wife can Cook for her kids separately and for you on occasion. It might be best to bring up this topic to your wives and see how they react.

Also the kitchen should have ample storage room for foodstuffs (a pantry). It is a must.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

By that logic you should allocate the same feeding allowance to them, stock both kitchen equally, eat the same amount of food from one kitchen in the next kitchen, so one wife won't say she cooked a lot for you that's why her stock finished faster.

You're obviously building a house not a home. And years later you will wonder why there's a wall between both factions. Yes, I called them factions, because that's what you're creating.

Danielnicks:


By that logic you should allocate the same feeding allowance to them, stock both kitchen equally, eat the same amount of food from one kitchen in the next kitchen, so one wife won't say she cooked a lot for you that's why her stock finished faster.

You're obviously building a house not a home. And years later you will wonder why there's a wall between both factions. Yes, I called them factions, because that's what you're creating.

You must have gone through a lot. Hope you won't end up marrying two wives too like your dad. Your sad experience tells a lot from your comment.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Since separate kitchens for each of them since you can afford it

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Build 3 kitchens
Build 3 sitting rooms
Of course 3 bedrooms
3 toilets
3 veranda
3 water tanks
3 walkway



And 3 brains

Bro build 3 kitchen, speaking from experience.
You will thank me later.

You must be a happy man. Make it 4 if there's space, you might need extra 2 wives in future

Zxcvbnmghtr:


You must have gone through a lot. Hope you won't end up marrying two wives too like your dad. Your sad experience tells a lot from your comment.

I don't even know what you're getting at. My dad's been late for decades. I grew up with just my mom. Congratulations on your flawed observation.

Danielnicks:


I don't even know what you're getting at. My dad's been late for decades. I grew up with just my mom. Congratulations on your flawed observation.

Lol so how did you come about your judgement?

yes, if you can afford it fine... if you can make it 3 also, then do it, makes them wonder if there is a third one in the picture... and also make them satisfy you and bow to your authority...

So you don't know kitchen is woman other room too .

Reminderz:
yes, if you can afford it fine... if you can make it 3 also, then do it, makes them wonder if there is a third one in the picture... and also make them satisfy you and bow to your authority...

Best comment.
Op build 3.

And if you have two wives, best add one extra to make them 3.
E get why.

If you can, make the house semi-detached so that each person stays in her flat.. You know the way they build tenant flats but still in one building.

If the women are not troublesome and they understand each other and are quite close, build one kitchen. This way you keep your wives close and your future children closer.

If they are not they above, u better build separate flats for them sef befor dem use wahala kill u

DrFunmisticGlow:
build separate kitchen for each of them. Let their foodstuffs not mix so each wife can Cook for her kids separately and for you on occasion. It might be best to bring up this topic to your wives and see how they react.

Also the kitchen should have ample storage room for foodstuffs (a pantry). It is a must.

In my household, each wife will cook for everybody: me, her co-wife, and all the kids. I impose this to foster unity among the children and collaboration with the wives.
For example, let's say today it is wife2's turn to cook. Then, she will cook for the whole family, not only her kids. We will all eat her food that day. And I forbid the other wife to cook something else for her kids and have her kids eat something else. No. This would create "clans" within my household, which I do not want. I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters not as step-brothers and step-sisters.

Danielnicks:


By that logic you should allocate the same feeding allowance to them, stock both kitchen equally, eat the same amount of food from one kitchen in the next kitchen, so one wife won't say she cooked a lot for you that's why her stock finished faster.

You're obviously building a house not a home. And years later you will wonder why there's a wall between both factions. Yes, I called them factions, because that's what you're creating.

Only one wife will cook per day. If today is wife1's turn to cook, then she cooks for everybody, and everybody, including wife2's kids, have to eat her food.


Could you elaborate more the embolden?

decatalyst:


Build 3 kitchens
Build 3 sitting rooms
Of course 3 bedrooms
3 toilets
3 veranda
3 water tanks
3 walkway



And 3 brains

I understand 3 bedrooms, one for me and one for each of my wives.

But 3 kitchen with 2 wives? Could you explain?

epondudu:
Bro build 3 kitchen, speaking from experience.
You will thank me later.

Bro, what is your experience?

PerfectStranger:
You must be a happy man. Make it 4 if there's space, you might need extra 2 wives in future

Can you elaborate on this?

Reminderz:
yes, if you can afford it fine... if you can make it 3 also, then do it, makes them wonder if there is a third one in the picture... and also make them satisfy you and bow to your authority...

Thank you Reminderz.
But I currently don't have any plans to bring in a third wife. What would be the use of a third kitchen, then?

ComputerOperato:


Best comment.
Op build 3.

And if you have two wives, best add one extra to make them 3.
E get why.

Why do you think this?

Kelklein:
If you can, make the house semi-detached so that each person stays in her flat.. You know the way they build tenant flats but still in one building.

That is my plan. There will be the main building where I live and each wives' building next to me. Here is a rough sketch to explain what I mean

Threedoorsdown:
If the women are not troublesome and they understand each other and are quite close, build one kitchen. This way you keep your wives close and your future children closer.

If they are not they above, u better build separate flats for them sef befor dem use wahala kill u

Thank you. There are other polygamist men with one kitchen. Some work fine, others not so much.

True

Kipaji:


Thank you. There are other polygamist men with one kitchen. Some work fine, others not so much.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Of course build it in a way that their paths will hardly cross. They should have their separate quarters in the house while u have urs as the boss. So everything na based on control V

dkidd:

Of course build it in a way that their paths will hardly cross. They should have their separate quarters in the house while u have urs as the boss. So everything na based on control V

Thanks, dkidd.

But, I don't really understand your last sentence...

Some people have chosen the path of No peace of mind.

Every mallam with hin kettle.

Not the first and definitely won't be the last.