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When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible age: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

Suit yourself. But don't blame anyone else when you get older and feel the pain of childlessness and loneliness. Enjoy your choice now and blame yourself when the consequences come.

To those who set their priorities right concerning marriage, marriage is the sweetest thing on earth. But to those who want to eat their cake before marriage and want to have it in marriage, marriage is a scam.

Everybody wants a good marriage but just a few are willing to pay the price for it. The price payment starts from childhood and gets more tasking when the person becomes a youth. This is the preparation process for marriage. But a lot of people live anyhow before marriage and expect life not to treat them anyhow in the marriage.

I know that careful and decent people can be unfortunate sometimes. But the truth is that your carefulness can't be in vain. Your carefulness will shield you from a lot of bad experiences. Nothing goes for nothing.

No need for the long epistle. Marriage isn't for everyone so do whatever works for you... ✌🏾

Look up Marrisa Tomei, she decided never to marry or have kids and she is doing very fine.

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible age: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

It is weak to use what happens to others are a yardstick to limit your own life

But anyway it is also wise to know what works for you.

A GOOD wife is rare and only few ever find her.

Are you a good HUSBAND?

Have you met people who enjoy their marriages after many years? Before you concluded?


Please be balanced so you don't generalize.

If the part you have chosen suits you, then avoid sex and focus and may God give you grace to remain strong

blackpanthar:


It is weak to use what happens to others are a yardstick to limit your own life

But anyway it is also wise to know what works for you.

A GOOD wife is rare and only few ever find her.

Are you a good HUSBAND?

Have you met people who enjoy their marriages after many years? Before you concluded?


Please be balanced so you don't generalize.

If the part you have chosen suits you, then avoid sex and focus and may God give you grace to remain strong

Avoid sex? Are you for real?
Why should he avoid sex? Why don't your go grab his man**od to avoid sex.

You have lots of problems in your life but you primary concern is the sex life of a stranger.

Smdh!

Wetin kwansign us?

Whatever decision you take, just make sure you aren't poor sha.

If not being married makes you happy, stick with it. 👏

It’s a choice bro, do what works for you. But from your write up, i can see you just want to live your life, you don’t want to shoulder any responsibility or be committed to whatsoever. Have you considered the positive side of marriage? Wait till you grow old when you don’t have strength to do anything for yourself then you will understand (loneliness). Na the same Bible talk say “He who finds a wife findeth good thing”

For you to write this kind epistle you go still marry

Tinubus policy is beginning to have effect.
I am slowly becoming proud.

I think the whole Binance thingy is working.
I'm a hater of Tinubu, doesn't mean I don't want Nigeria to progress.

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible age: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

All what you described is a minority of cases. It's a fast growing minority that will most likely overthrow the majority but it is still a minority of cases

blackpanthar:


It is weak to use what happens to others are a yardstick to limit your own life

But anyway it is also wise to know what works for you.

A GOOD wife is rare and only few ever find her.

Are you a good HUSBAND?

Have you met people who enjoy their marriages after many years? Before you concluded?


Please be balanced so you don't generalize.

If the part you have chosen suits you, then avoid sex and focus and may God give you grace to remain strong

This is a balanced reportage. Dwelling so much on the negatives won't do him alot of good. Choose the right partner and soul mate you won't have to worry about this.



If sexual chastity is a norm and is not to be broken, op won't keep this notion. When you milk the cow for free, you won't see the need to own it.

Your life your choice don’t get married.

Very simple solution.

Men and women are not meant to live together. Men are scums and women are miserable beings.
The earlier we realize this. The better for the incoming civilisation

Very wrong thinking.... Have u ever asked yourself why those men u mentioned died early?

They did probably because they had a lot of children to cater for.

As a man, when u get married, u have to carry over 90% of family responsibilities. So u need to plan the number of kids that will go with that.


I bet if u have just 1 kid, there is no way u would suffer so much as to die early all things being equal.

I have never seen a family with just 1 child that is suffering. Rarely possible.


Men and men suffer in marriage because of having lots of kids they can't cater for.

A word is enough for the wise...


Before getting married, have it at the back of your mind that a good woman is VERY VERY rare! Don't say u wr not warned

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible age: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

Forget abt wife bro... just make sure you have a kid... it's very important in this life

God bless you

It's your choice, suit yourself oga.

Should we clap then?

Let me guess,..you are from the other side of the country..

Na Una dey wait until the hair on your chest is enough to cover the skin before Una marry..

No wonder, your people in the markets are sex starved and are harassing innocent girls each time they come around

Marriage is a voluntary decision that would not suit everyone. God has no wife, even though He instituted marriage. Jesus didn't get married. Heck, even Satan doesn't have a wife!

Sometimes I feel like there is something they know that they aren't telling us 🤔

Don't get me wrong, I believe in marriage and I'm in it myself. But I tell young people not to give into the societal pressure of getting married for the wrong reasons. I say, "look before you leap" 🙂

You sti let other people situation determine your actions. Good you Do that.

Ok don't marry...

I sell herbs for sexual enhancement sha

Whether you marry or not, it's your choice. Just know that every marriage is unique in it's own way. You can't know how your marriage will be by looking at others around you.

For me, i think before people get married, they should be truthful to each other and must be willing to meet the other person halfway. They must try and understand each other because love isn't enough.

Yor last write up got me
Where can that be found in the bible

Marriage is not for everyone

It's good to have children and/or a ive partner.

Being lonely and old isn't fun.

Like someone said, whatever you do, make enough income to yourself and 2 other people ( a partner and at least one child) comfortably.

Well,u are right based on the people u selected to make ur point but most likely wrong because u generalised without considering other responsible family as well.

May God grant u what u pray for and so shall be in ur life.

For we the married,we are indeed the strongest in the country currently.

Marriage is not a must for everyone

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible age: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

You don't need to explain na...
Do your thing nobody put gun for your head